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Dilemma 52 – "The Haters"


A white woman poses as a black woman, funny how people of the other nations are forgiven of her bounty, in this case, Rachel Dolezal President of NAACP Chapter from Spokane Washington, the blacks embraced her, think about how often black women are ridiculed for trying to be white. Rachel may indeed be a great person with her exploits for the NAACP, but integrity in the public eyes is fundamental as well.
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Self-hatred among blacks “You hate me, I hate me too…” Black people always want to be something they are not, if they have one drop of Indian blood in them, then they are half Indian, we are what our fathers are, our lineage is determined by what nation our father is. It is like there is a lousy enigma with being associated with being black. Why should we hate the color of your skin? The texture of our hair? The Shape of your nose and lips. We are unique among the nations. Our looks are rare. The other countries are a carbon copy of each other in terms of beauty. If we were to embrace our naturalness, we would have the uniqueness everyone would desire.
We are the trendsetters, they copy our style. Through history and now today they want our full lips, our ample behinds, and tanned skin. Wake up people there is no reason to hate each other but appreciate our God-given Beauty. Are we suffering from amnesia? White supremacy, slavery, and colonization really did a job on the psyche of the people of color. They have convinced us that we are ugly, worthless, and inhuman. They copy our music, our style, our looks, our culture, but it is the self-hatred among ourselves that has become problematic or shall I say, “‘the elephant in the room.”
Every other nation of people supports their own in word and deed. With people of color (blacks) there is a defined perpetual race war with themselves. Even in this day and age, we are yet still slaves in our minds, actions, and deeds. We are the only people that look at light skin and dark skin among blacks as to different nationalities. I have seen many times – Light skin women speak against the more colored skin women as if they are dirt and not worthy and have witnessed darker skin women treat the lighter skin different because they felt they were better. So if the shoe fits wear it, this must stop we are all on the same ship sailing through life as the dark nation of people. To the average white person, we all are dark.  The Truth I think the whole theory of light skin vs. dark skin is superfluous, stupid, and redundant. It lacks intelligence, perception, and common sense. Why does it matter? This whole thing was conceived through white supremacy, the enslavement of our people, it will never validate who we are as a people or nation. Dark skin women are not placed on a pedestal, but light skinned black women are put on pedestals by other black people. In society, white women are the only ones that can claim ownership of the foundation worldwide. White supremacy is to blame having their images valued and celebrated over all other nations. Occasionally the mainstream will appreciate a none white woman or man this is on purpose. And it’s so sinister depriving a person of color of their privilege and immunity that uncritical folks can’t discern that they have been repeatedly told by media what they should prefer, who is beautiful, and what skin color is this internalized devaluation is a way of life.  At the end of the day if your black, light, or dark,  you will receive the same judgment. View by white standards, light by black standards.

The Hater Syndrome

Okay if you made it to this point, I went over what you must possess to be considered a woman of the Most High, the attributes and behaviors. Does this sound familiar?

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Typical conversations among women.
Lady 1: She is gorgeous
Lady 2: Girl, you should see her when she takes off the weave and makeup then say that.
Or
Lady 3: She is cute.
Lady 4: She thinks she is all that.

Lady 2 and 4 are quite typical little did they know I don’t wear weave and never have. I have always had long hair. As far as makeup well I sometimes wear mascara, maybe some lipstick. Do we, as people expect, people on social media to say something positive, supportive, or convey a definite compliment. These people are cowards hiding behind a computer screen so their lives may be hell, so they want to make your hell to. I remember like over a decade ago, has done some modeling, my photo was featured online on a website, but it was under the wrong name. It was kind of funny how there was an ongoing conversation about my looks, and I’m sure that most of these people never seen me in person. I read the comments:

She looks like a big plastic blowup doll
Is she Somalian? No she cheeks are too chubby to be Somalian, but he is stunning.
She is as pretty as Halle Berry
In a room of women, she would stand out, but I don’t think the other beautiful women would go unnoticed.
She looks like a witch
I bet she’s an evil bitch she is too pretty.
Her eyes make her look possessed I bet her man has to cover his eyes when they have sex
I bet she has had some work done; she is to perfect.
She is cute for a biracial girl
She could earn 8000 dollars a night at a strip club that is until her novelty runs out.
Her hair is a weave (No its not)
Is she real? (Yes I am)
She is hella fine. I would date her, f*** her, and then leave her ass
I hate this yellow bitch.
I wish she would die of an aneurysm
Y’all only think she is pretty because she is light skinned.

A hater? Yes. Sadly a woman is often measured by the eyes of haters. By the things, she cannot control. She is measured by the way her body curves or doesn’t curve, by the way, it sticks out or sticks in. The wooliness of her hair or the lack thereof. The hue of her skin or the darkness of it. The attractiveness of her face or the ugliness. The education or the job she possesses. The material goods that she has acquired or doesn’t have. What is one to do take to heart the comments of the hater. A hater is someone that envies what another one has that they want. Their main goal is to make you feel bad for what you have been born with or blessed with. I have never been one to hate on someone because they are pretty or have earthly possessions. This is all preposterous, hating on anyone is not going to get you what they have. I have been confident in myself, to appreciate another woman’s beauty or possessions. I compliment them, sincerely. The Most High made us all unique and special. A hater is someone that envies what another one has that they want.

If the world hates you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you. John 15:18 The main point to drive home about hate is that they hated the Messiah (Christ) so if we are called by his name, then they will hate us too. So count it all joy, you must be doing something right.

Criticism

Criticism comes in many forms, one form is “Constructive criticism.” Your black dress is more acceptable for the Opera than the white dress. It aims to show that the intent or purpose of something is better served by an alternative approach. In this case, making the criticism is not necessarily estimated as being wrong, and its reason for existence is reverential. Constructive criticisms are often suggestions for improvement – how things could be done better or more acceptable. They draw attention to how an identified problem could be solved or how it could be solved better. Constructive criticism is more likely to be embraced if the objection is timely, transparent, specific, detailed, and actionable.

Negative Criticism

Friends and family members are the culprits of criticism. Most people are not sure how to handle it? They often feel that they can say anything to you with no response. I am sure that most of us have swollen lips, as we often have to bite them from saying something we shouldn’t. Trust me, I often clamped my mouth, but to no avail, it persists. I think often people speak with an undercurrent of envy or lack of knowledge. Here are some tips that will help when you have to deal with people who continuously criticize your every move. You can’t always control how other people act or what they say, but we can forever change our own behavior to better deal with the situation. Like my late husband always said to me, “Consider the source.”

“Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.” Proverbs 31:30 KJV

I’ve never been the type to make a lot of female friends except for a group of close ones. Women don’t positively respond to me, especially the worldly ones, the ones absent of the truth of the Most High. I find myself having to defend my beauty for as long as I can remember, I’ve been hated because of the way I look. I know that beauty is something that can’t be ignored. I always seemed to invoke compliments such as your the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, you should be a model, you look like a movie star. It came to the point when someone passes me a compliment I feel funny like I wanted them to leave; I grew up knowing I would get attention because of my beauty. I am not touched by the praises of man could change without warning. What is not apparent is the inner man something no one can see the truth be told that is what touches me the most my inner beauty.

Do we as people expect, people on social media to say something positive, supportive, or convey a positive compliment. These people are cowards hiding behind a computer screen, so their live may be hell so they want to make yours hell to. I remember like over a decade ago, having done some modeling, my photo was featured online on a website but it was under the wrong name. It was kind of funny how there was an on going conversation about my looks and I’m sure that most of these people never seen me in person. I read the comments:

She looks like a big plastic blowup doll.  Is she Somalian? No she cheeks are too chubby to be Somalian but he is stunning. She is as pretty as Halle Berry.  In a room, of women, she would stand out, but I don’t think the other beautiful women would go unnoticed. She looks like a witch I bet she’s an evil bitch she is too pretty.  Her eyes make her look possessed I bet her man has to cover his eyes when they have sex.  I bet she has had some work done she is to perfect.  She is cute for a biracial girl. She could earn 8000 dollars a night at a strip club that is until her novelty runs out.  Her hair is a weave.  Is she real?  I would date her and then leave her ass.  I hate this yellow bitch I wish she would die of an aneurysm.  Y’all only think she is pretty because she is light skinned.

Most people live in a closed box and don’t know anything other than what is placed for them in a box. Since the beginning of western civilization, we have been taught what is right and what is wrong by our slave master. In Willie Lynch days, he has an eloquently devised plan to separate our people according to class and looks. Which placed our people into a pitiless competition with one another. Today, black people still seem to embody that spirit of envy. You would like that through slavery, the civil rights era, etc.… our people would have bonded together more, or even been more supportive of each other’s pursuits. After all, all other nations bond together, start businesses and give each additional moral support. But where the black people stand, is a bit more grudge mental, to say the least. Once a black person achieves a level of success, they don’t support their own community. Is there secret envy that plagues our people? Yes. Do not envy. We have all been given a talent.. And that talent will make room for us and bring us before great men. We all have something that contributes to the body… as the hand provides to the arm.

“A man’s gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men.” Proverbs 18:16 KJV The handout – syndrome. Really I ask? I notice that when a black person comes out with a product, book or some service. Other black people want to get it free or ask can you give them a complimentary copy. But note that they never ask the white entrepreneurs can they get something free. They pay full price. Most black people envy each other while secretly longing for failure to come to a person. It has been documented that blacks spend less or invest less in black-owned businesses. According to Nielson rating, that black spending power will reach over 1 trillion dollars in a few years. The spending power among blacks is enormous, yet hardly any of it goes back into the community.

It is no secret that blacks are extremely talented the world over. We need to adopt the motto – we need to spread the wealth. The Most High gives you talents for your needs to be met and to help our people advance. But the world systems are saying that “I got mine now you get yours.” 

A faithfull friend is a strong defence: and he that hath found such an one hath found a treasure. Ecclesiasticus 6:14 KJV

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True friends generally, fit into one of the three categories, such as Outer Court, Inner Court, and Holies of Holies.

1. Outer Court: You share general things with them with a level of caution.

Fair-weather friends, Neighbors, Associates, Haters, People with hidden agendas or People you meet on the streets.

2. Inner Court: There is some trust that you share more intimate things with them.

Mentors, boyfriends/girlfriends, and some Relatives

3. Holy of Holies: You trust them with all your secrets and your life.

Spouses, Best Friends, Like minded people, there when hardship or difficulty rears its head, loyal friends that have stood the test of time and sticks closer than a brother.

Instead of constantly surrounding yourself with like-minded people, try to break out of your comfort zone and befriend people who hold opposing views. They will help open your eyes to different world views and you’ll learn to accept people who don’t see the world exactly the way you see it.

Instead of a friend become not an enemy; for thereby thou shalt inherit an ill name, shame, and reproach: even so, shall a sinner that hath a double tongue. Extol not thyself in the counsel of thine own heart; that thy soul is not torn in pieces as a bull straying alone. Thou shalt eat up thy leaves, and lose thy fruit, and leave thyself as a dry tree. A wicked soul shall destroy him that hath it, and shall make him laugh to the scorn of his enemies. The sweet language will multiply friends: and a fairspeaking tongue will increase kind greetings. Be in peace with many: nevertheless, have but one counsellor of a thousand. If thou wouldest, get a friend, prove him first and be not hasty to credit him. For some man is a friend for his own occasion, and will not abide in the day of thy trouble. And there is a friend, who being turned to enmity, and strife will discover thy reproach. Again, some friend is a companion at the table, and will not continue in the day of thy affliction. A faithful friend is a strong defense: and he that hath found such a one hath found a treasure. Nothing doth countervail a loyal friend, and his excellency is invaluable. A faithful friend is the medicine of life, and they that fear the Lord shall find him. Whoso feareth the Lord shall direct his friendship aright: for as he is, so shall his neighbor be also. Ecclesiasticus chapter 6: 1-10, 14-17 KJV

1. Get closer to the Most High (read the bible and pray)

“Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.” Isaiah 26:3 Discovering who you are in the Most High is the key to life. We all are given one life, and we must know our purpose for living. It is more significant than you think.

2. Become your biggest cheerleader and motivator.

“And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the LORD his God.” 1 Samuel 30:6 Daily read quotes and scriptures to motivate yourself. Tell yourself, you can do it,… I can make it… In life, most of the time, you will not have people around to encourage you so you must promote yourself. I know that I am my biggest cheerleader, and I always have been.

3. Take care of yourself

What? Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost [which is] in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? Eat right, work out, and pamper yourself. Trust nobody can say anything to you when you are healthy.

4. Don’t listen to people. Don’t fear them they have no power over you.

And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which can destroy both soul and body in hell. Matthew 10:28 If they are not an expert in an area don’t listen, nobody opinion matters. That is just like a person with cancer or diabetes, telling you how to eat. I don’t share a lot of my life with people around me because it often triggers insecurities in people they become volatile to you. That way, you keep them at bay because your life is your own, and they don’t get to own your destiny.

5. Get rid of toxic people.

Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful Psalms 1:1

We have no business being with sinners in the form of toxic people. If a friend or relative is causing emotional damage in your life, this is a sign of a toxic person. Sinners or toxic people drain the life out of you with their negativity. They suck the joy and peace out of your psyche with gossip, selfishness, or extreme dependency, know it all attitude, glory hoarder, and narcissism. Most times going into crying sessions making it all about them, and how they have been done wrong.Y’all only think she is pretty because she is light skinned

If the world hates you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you. John 15:18 The main point to drive home about hate is that they hated the Messiah (Christ) so if we are called by his name, then they will hate us to. So count it all joy, you must be doing something right. Criticism may be the sister of hate. Criticism comes in many forms, one form is “Constructive criticism.” Your black dress is more acceptable for the Opera than the white dress.

It aims to show that the intent or purpose of something is better served by an alternative approach. In this case, making the criticism is not necessarily estimated as being wrong, and its reason for existence is reverential. Constructive criticisms are often suggestions for improvement – how things could be done better or more acceptable. They draw attention to how an identified problem could be solved, or how it could be solved better. Constructive criticism is more likely to be embraced if the criticism is timely, clear, specific, detailed and actionable.

Nevertheless, I persisted.

 The answer is to repent of your sins, seek the Most High God of Israel, and keep His commandments.

“Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.” Ecclesiastes 12:13 KJV

Dilemma 19 – "Good Hair"

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COMMON THINGS SPOKEN ABOUT HAIR TYPE 3A – 4C:

Coily Hair

You need to straighten it, unkept! Do something with your hair. It is nappy, you look ugly, you need a weave, go and rectify it. I like you better with straight hair.

Permed Hair

You don’t love yourself, go natural! Trying to be something your not.

Curly Hair

You have some good hair. It is too wild needs to be straight. What are you mixed with?

Straight Hair

Ideal with the masses, the universal standard of hair beauty.

Most black women testify that perms, pressing combs, and relaxers make their hair more manageable. Who is the inventor of the relaxer? In 1877, the relaxer was created by accident by Garrett A. Morgan the same man that invented the traffic signal. This allowed for women and men of color to have the straight hair like their white counterparts for 100’s of years. The perm was referred as “ creamy crack” in Chris Rock’s “Good Hair Documentary” a must see if you haven’t seen it already it exposes the dangers and chemicals found in the hair treatments. Natural Hair is the best it is at its healthiest, free of chemicals and it grows fast! The chemicals in the relaxer treatments maybe damaging but many women will argue the fact that having a relaxer has contributed to their back length hair if it is taken care of.

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Black hair is a target of “texturism.” The question is, “why has the world scrutinized our hair?” While we are burning it with chemicals and heating tools, and tearing it out with weaves and glue. For 400 years +, the general population of black people has been imparted to by white people that their hair texture and skin is superior to that of black hair and black skin. This welcomed the birth of a hair obsession. A majority of blacks perceive straight, silky, and soft hair as best. When in fact, wooly hair is scientifically superior to straight hair. Coiled hair acts as antennae conducting the electromagnetic energies of the sun. These are the benefits that our ancestors had in the cotton fields in intense heat. Kinky, afros, nappy, curly, pressed, permed, weaves, or smooth flow? What is our obsession with hair, and how does it affect our perceptions of what is considered attractive? This differentiation of various textures of hair that disregards our hair as being good that sociological programming still continues today.

For as long as I remember people often asked me after examining my mid back length hair, “Is all that hair yours?” or “Do you have Indian in your family?“ In the literal sense of logic or even common sense what they are saying to me is that a black female can’t have long hair unless she is mixed with something. Now, this thought process was first initiated by Willie Lynch back in slavery times and is still relevant today. So the term “Nappy” was created by the white man and was adopted for centuries by black people, but in reality, our hair has a helix (spiral) pattern. It’s the same pattern as whirlwinds and sound waves and DNA. Our hair is meant to grow outward like a tree, not downward like a cascading waterfall. When our hair is given proper care, it’s fluffy soft. Not only that, our hair is high-volume, high-definition. Our hair doesn’t hang down, it’s not limp, lifeless and flat, it never lacks volume, and you’ll never see a sister wearing a “bump-it” to get the illusion of voluminous hair. We don’t need it. We can take our wool from kinky to curly to wavy to straight and back to kinky again if that’s our desire. Our hair can even defy gravity and do so naturally. Others can’t. Our hair is a glorious crown, the “original” crown. Look how a head is designed! So, when you see these so-called European royalty women wearing a top. They are imitating the beauty of our hair! Wow isn’t that amazing! For black women, the straight hair bias is the culprit of texture prejudice that privileges the white woman’s texture as the supreme texture of hair. Black women are not aware that our hair is rich with soil, the color of dark chocolate, rises to the sky, vastness as space, coiled to perfection, and a mystery of the Most High.

I must admit I love running my fingers through my hair while showering, the curls embrace my face as the water runs the length on my back. I get attention on the comeliness of my hair they suggest that its a prized possession but in reality, to my nation, it’s a god. Yes it is possible to worship hair, I have never been guilty of such worship.. frankly, I always had long hair. It was never a concern of mine. But for many of my sisters, it is, after all, it’s our crowning glory. The black women have always been guilty of false glory due to the fact that you are adorning your head with someone else’s glory. How do we get our own glory? By nourishing our own glory and owning it. I know we own our cars, clothes, or even homes but we must own our hair. We must be thankful and take care of what the Most High gave us.

My interview with Khalifa Musical, a professor of African American Studies

Q. Do you think that as children we are programmed to say that our hair is bad?

Khalifa: Yes, I remember my mother said to my sister about her kinky hair, you need to get your hair done by that she meant to straighten it by perms of straightening combs. As a man, I grow up conditioned to perceive black hair as something terrible that needed to be fixed. I used to look at the women on the commercial and think that was beauty, it was not until I because a student of consciousness that I realize my thinking was wrong. In fact with most of my students when asked about black hair – 43% (over 200 black male students) said they prepared black women with their natural hair, apart from wigs, weaves, and perms. While 57 % preferred the look of Caucasian straight hair as most attractive and 90% voted that this was conditioned by slavery misconceptions and fallacies about our hair.

Redefining the standard of beauty in terms of hair.

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The hair texture closely associated with European straight hair is considered almost heavenly good and esteemed most attractive. This straight hair blowing in the wind, cascading down the back, smooth to touch, and easy to comb. Is this perfection? How can this hair be the best? Willie Lynch is to blame on this one dividing and conquering the slaves based on hair texture. But who says this is true? The fault lies with the mother who never taught the daughter the beauty of her hair. The world has brought into this lie, pure and simple for some, there is no turning back from this theory. In West Africa, Nigeria to be specific the boys and young girls cut their hair off not to deal with the texture and opt to wear wigs. While in the United States, black women are literally tearing their hair out of their heads through the wearing of the weave so they can slang it back and forth. The ignorance of our people is undoubtedly devastating to know that something that created with sheer brilliance is a beast of burden to many.

Astin Downing AKA Mocha2001 is a pioneer in the natural hair movement. She gives her tips and secrets to her followers on youtube and Instagram.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-JgkuM9KhTI

Q: Tell me about your hair care journey?

Astin: When I first when natural my hair was badly damaged. I had bald edges due to lace wigs and glue. I used Castro oil, Shea moisture shampoo and conditioner, Renue pure deep conditioner and green Eco styler gel.

Q: When did you stop using relaxers?

Astin: My last relaxer was 2012 when relaxed my hair, it was always dry plus it never grew to pass my shoulders. Now I’m natural I seen how my true hair texture is this curly. My hair has grown down my back very moisturized now, thick and healthy..

Q: What are your top tips for hair growth?

Astin: My top tips for hair growth is moisturize, drink water, and use less heat.

Q: What is your hair care routine?

Astin: I have 2 hair care routine one for winter and summer. In the winter, I use more moisture and I apply self-heat to my hair for straight styles. I wash my hair once a week and deep condition twice a week and grease my scalp with Castro oil twice a week. My summer routine – I add no heat to my hair, I just wash it and go. I do twist outs and wash my hair once a week deep condition once a month and grease my scalp once a month with Castro oil.

How to take care of black hair?

My Q & A with my hairdresser Diana, note she has natural hair all the way down her back.

Q: What do you think about this Good hair, Bad hair situation among black people?

Diane: I think black people are some of the most ignorant people on earth, surely they have bought into the lie of slavery. All hair is good, if it grows out of your head, it is good. What has ruined our nose is the perms and the weaves.

Q: What are some tips for the maintenance and growth of natural hair?

Diane:

1. There is a huge misconception that black hair is coarse, strong and can take a beating. That is true, in fact, black hair is the most fragile of every hair type, my Asian clients have the strongest hair very coarse now their hair can take a beating.

2. Co-washes your hair once a week with a natural moisturizing conditioner and not shampoo because it dries out the hair which can cause breakage.

3. Keep your hair moisturized with a natural moisturizer and seal the ends with olive oil. Choose natural organic products and try to avoid products with mineral oils and petroleum oil. Natural oils like almond, coconut oil, olive oil, grape seed oil, and jojoba oils are much better.

4. If you use heat styling products (blow dryers, Flatirons) on your hair, try and cut it down to 1-2 times a month if you can, and make sure you use a heat protection shampoo and/or moisturizer, or a good heat protective serum/spray on your hair before flat ironing or curling.

5. Make sure you sleep on a satin pillowcase or tie your hair up in a silk scarf so your hair can stay healthy and won’t break or tear. Silk or satin pillowcases, bonnets, and scarves will protect your hair from breakage while rubbing against certain fabrics that cause breakage.

6. Moisturize your ends nightly with coconut oil before you go to sleep

7. Once a month only use a protein treatment for deep conditioning.

8. For extend hair growth I recommend a diet of fresh fruits and vegetables and exercised weekly to get the blood flowing to your hair.

9. Massage your scalp a few times a week for extra blood flow for hair growth.

10. Use a wide tooth comb to comb your hair, stop buying bristle brushes or thin combs which will get caught in your hair and snap it off. Go for low maintenance. We should never comb our hair every day just detangle with your fingers, after applying moisturizer.

Weaves

India is known for their pagan worship of hundreds of gods, one of the rituals that go on, they get very young girls to shed their long hair for profit, then in return pray over it with a dedication to one of the gods. Then this hair appears in the heads of black women the world over. With this spiritual connotation, you are wearing hear sacrificed to idol gods. Black women are not the only ones guilty, white women and other nations were weaves as well, but they refer to them as hair extensions. Weaves illuminate the “Lie” of good hair, it created false security of beauty. In actuality, wearing a pattern makes it bad for those of us (including me) that have naturally long hair that is accused daily of wearing a weave. The long-term effects of weaves have many severe risks to your scalp, such as permanent hair loss. Wigs are a great alternative; at least you are not damaging your scalp. Wearing a weave is your choice. I am not against it if that‘s your choice, I was just stating the facts.

Front Lace Wigs beware… Actress Countess Vaughn (star of the Parkers show on television) shared her hair dilemma on the Doctors television show, wearing the front lace wigs and how they damaged her hairline she had an allergic reaction to the glue now forced to have hair restoration surgery to repair damaged hair follicles. Perms or Relaxers Because perms and relaxers tore your hair, you must keep your beard conditioned to retain length and prevent breakage — Diane (my hairdresser) Most black women testify that perms, pressing combs, and relaxers make their hair more manageable. Who is the inventor of the relaxer? In 1877, the relaxer was created by accident by Garrett A. Morgan the same man that invented the traffic signal. This allowed for women and men of color to have straight hair like their white counterparts for 100’s of years. The perm was referred as “ creamy crack” in Chris Rock’s “Good Hair Documentary” a must see if you haven’t seen it already it exposes the dangers and chemicals found in the hair treatments. Natural Hair is the best it is at its healthiest, free of chemicals, and it grows fast! The chemicals in the relaxer treatments may be damaging, but many women will argue the fact that having a relaxer has contributed to their back length hair if it is taken care of.

My Hair won’t grow

Photo Courtesy of Astin Downing

Astin Downing whose hair has grown while being nurtured naturally without chemicals, so black hair does grow no matter the texture of it.

Unfortunately, that is the gospel that most black or brown women preach. The truth is that if you keep all the weaves and chemicals off your hair, it will grow with some easy maintenance, it will grow in no time. A black woman’s hair will grow if she maintains to keep it healthy and nourished with the right natural products, contrary to popular belief, the black woman is not alone, there are some case where the white woman’s hair won’t grow either, or it’s fragile — Diane (my hairdresser)

In the past… The Curse – Moreover the LORD saith, Because the daughters of Zion are haughty, and walk with stretched forth necks and wanton eyes, walking and mincing as they go, and making a tinkling with their feet: Therefore the Lord will smite with a scab the crown of the head of the daughters of Zion, and the LORD will discover their secret parts. — Isaiah 3: 16-17 – Because of the haughtiness toward our men our head was smitten with baldness, which would explain the lust for long hair. We had the beauty everyone wanted at that time. We are the Daughters of Zion. That was a curse! Now today… I believe that curse is lifted… With all the beautiful hair treatments, perms, hair styling, relaxers, weaves, chemicals from shampoos, our diet, hormones, what we drink, rest, environment etc. All these elements affect the health of our hair. What is paramount is the way we care for our hair? Is long hair is possible? Yes.

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Asha Mandela, who reportedly has the most extended hair, dreads in the world at a whopping 22 foot long, her extreme long tresses were documented by the Guinness World Record in 2009. Many of us on this day have long hair. Your hair grows! Take care of the hair that grows out of your head. Black women are waking up to their true identity according to the Bible all over the world & learning to love the skin they’re in, wooly hair & all through the natural hair movement and it is absolutely awe-inspiring.

But if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering.1 Corinthians 11:15 KJV

Black hair is a target of the famous “Ism,” known as “Texturism.” The question is, “why has the world scrutinized our hair?” While we are burning it with chemicals and heating tools, and tearing it out with weaves and glue. For 400 years +, the general population of black people has been imparted to by white people that their hair texture and skin is superior to that of black hair and black leather. This welcomed the birth of a hair obsession. A majority of blacks perceive straight, silky, and soft hair as best. When in fact, wooly hair is scientifically superior to straight hair. Coiled hair acts as antennae conducting the electromagnetic energies of the sun. These are the benefits that our ancestors had in the cotton fields in intense heat. Kinky, afros, nappy, curly, pressed, permed, weaves, or smooth flow? What is our obsession with hair, and how does it affect our perceptions of what is considered attractive? This differentiation of various textures of hair that disregards our hair as being good that sociological programming still continues today.

For as long as I remember people often asked me after examining my mid back length hair, “Is all that hair yours?” or “Do you have Indian in your family?“ In the literal sense of logic or even common sense what they are saying to me is that a black female can’t have long hair unless she is mixed with something. Now, this thought process was first initiated by Willie Lynch back in slavery times and is still relevant today. So the term “Nappy” was created by the white man and was adopted for centuries by black people, but in reality, our hair has a helix (spiral) pattern. It’s the same pattern as whirlwinds and sound waves and DNA. Our hair is meant to grow outward like a tree, not downward like a cascading waterfall. When our hair is given proper care, it’s fluffy soft. Not only that, our hair is high-volume, high-definition. Our hair doesn’t hang down, it’s not limp, lifeless and flat, it never lacks volume, and you’ll never see a sister wearing a “bump-it” to get the illusion of voluminous hair. We don’t need it. We can take our wool from kinky to curly to wavy to straight and back to kinky again if that’s our desire. Our hair can even defy gravity and do so naturally. Others can’t. Our hair is a glorious crown, the “original” crown. Look how a head is designed! So, when you see these so-called European royalty women wearing a top. They are imitating the beauty of our hair! Wow isn’t that amazing! For black women, the straight hair bias is the culprit of texture prejudice that privileges the white woman’s texture as the supreme texture of hair. Black women are not aware that our hair is rich with soil, the color of dark chocolate, rises to the sky, vastness as space, coiled to perfection, and a mystery of the Most High.

My interview with Khalifa Musfai, a professor of African American Studies

Q. Do you think that as children we are programmed to say that our hair is bad?

Khalifa: Yes, I remember my mother said to my sister about her kinky hair, you need to get your hair done by that she meant to straighten it by perms of straightening combs. As a man, I grow up conditioned to perceive black hair as something terrible that needed to be fixed. I used to look at the women on the commercial and think that was beauty, it was not until I because a student of consciousness that I realize my thinking was wrong. In fact with most of my students when asked about black hair – 43% (over 200 black male students) said they prepared black women with their natural hair, apart from wigs, weaves, and perms. While 57 % preferred the look of Caucasian straight hair as most attractive and 90% voted that this was conditioned by slavery misconceptions and fallacies about our hair.

Redefining the standard of beauty in terms of hair.

I must admit I love running my fingers through my hair while showering, the curls embrace my face as the water runs the length on my back. I get attention on the comeliness of my hair they suggest that it’s a prized possession, but in reality, to my nation, it’s a god. Yes, it is possible to worship hair, I have never been guilty of such worship.. frankly, I always had long hair. It was never a concern of mine. But for many of my sisters, it is, after all, it’s our crowning glory. The black women have always been guilty of false glory because you are adorning your head with someone else’s beauty. How do we get our own vision? By nourishing our own glory and owning it. I know we own our cars, clothes, or even homes but we must hold our hair. We must be thankful and take care of what the Most High gave us. The hair texture closely associated with European straight hair is considered almost heavenly good and esteemed most attractive. This straight hair blowing in the wind, cascading down the back, smooth to touch, and easy to comb.

Is this perfection? How can this hair be the best? Willie Lynch is to blame on this one dividing and conquering the slaves based on hair texture. But who says this is true? The fault lies with the mother who never taught the daughter the beauty of her hair. The world has brought into this lie, pure and simple for some, there is no turning back from this theory. In West Africa, Nigeria to be specific the boys and young girls cut their hair off not to deal with the texture and opt to wear wigs. While in the United States, black women are literally tearing their hair out of their heads through the wearing of the weave so they can slang it back and forth. The ignorance of our people is undoubtedly devastating to know that something that created with sheer brilliance is a beast of pardon to many.

My conversation with a random woman I encountered at a boutique.

Woman: Girl you got some excellent hair — 

Me: All hair is good. Woman: I wish my hair were long and pretty like yours. You’re so cute. 

Me: Your hair is pretty. 

Woman: But not like yours 

Me: You know that is a fallacy created by our people that goes back to slavery. There is no right or bad hair. The Most High created all hair and its good hair. (That comment left her speechless and puzzled there was no reply) 

The contemptuous terms such as ‘good hair’ or ‘bad hair’ came out of the era of slavery, during the Willie Lynch period. Where slaves were put into groups according to the lightness of skin and hair textures the closer your hair was to Caucasian hair the better you were perceived in being that meant you would be considered “a house negro” and receive preferential treatment than the darker slaves. Our hair is our crowning glory; there are various textures of hair that black people have due to genetics and racial mixing. These textures vary from 3A to 4D, beautiful to tightly curled.

3 a – fine curl pattern

 3 b – medium curl pattern 

3 c – loose curly pattern

 4a – thicker curly pattern

4b – thicker medium pattern

4c – medium curly pattern

4d – excessively tighter curls

Facts about black hair: 

It keeps you cool and protects you from the sun.

Our hair is our crowning glory; there are many textures of hair that black people have due to genetics and interracial rations.

There is more money spend on hair care around the world then products to actually make the hair grow.

There is no such thing as bad hair, the strains of our hair was created by the Most High and trust me, he knew what He was doing in creation but through colonization and the media which suggests that long bone straight flowing hair is most attractive.

We as people have bought into that “Lie” yes I said it, that lie because that is what it is. You have been brainwashed into thinking that excessively curly or wooly hair isn’t as good as straight hair.

The Savior of this world has wooly hair.

My nation is so ignorant, how they talk about their hair. All hair is good. Embrace your wool.

I was taught I had terrible hair, so I relaxed it and added weave now I am bald headed — Brittany (a 31-year-old black woman) 

I wish my parents would have taught me that my hair wasn’t bad — Erica Wilson (18-year-old female) 

There is nothing better than a black woman that wears her natural hair — Jonathan (white male married to a black woman)

Often people ask me if my hair is real because it’s thick and long.

Male Store clerk: Is all that hair yours?

Me: Yes

Male Store clerk: Can I touch it?

Today in 2018, I walk proudly with my hair covered sometimes, it gives the mystery of what is underneath. Is it short or is it long? In late 18th century Louisiana, black women were ordered to cover their hair in public. This system was called the “Bando du Buen Gobierno,” “Edict for Good Government.” These rules were meant to change certain so-called “unacceptable” behaviors of the free black women. specifically overly ostentatious hairstyles,(designed to impress or attract notice) of which drew the attention of white men, and the jealousy of white women. These rules are called the “Tignon Laws” A tignon (pronounced “yon”) is a headdress. They are still doing this today! Where a lot of people go on interviews and are being turned away because of their natural hair, The employers say they must straighten their hair. But finally, we are waking back up to our beauty! They even fear our hair!

When wearing a weave or perming your hair, you are playing roulette with your hair, please handle with care. — Diane (my hairdresser)

ALL HAIR IS GOOD!

LITTLE GIRL IN THE STORE: Look at her hair Mom. LITTLE GIRL’S MOM: That is a weave. ME: No, it’s my hair.

It is a mere fact that us women that have long natural hair like me that grow out of our heads, always manage to get a hater or naysayers that believe that our hair is not real. In the society with all the fakers, weave wearers, and wig junkies it makes it hard for those of us that like to keep it real. It is also true that we were conditioned through slavery to hate ourselves and the texture of our hair so we commit our scalps to abusive chemicals and hair that did not grow from our scalp. The truth of the matter is that all hair is good, the creator of all made it. This hate is correlated with the term “Texturism.”

Good Hair (we have it.) 

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Teach your children who they are, what they are in the Most High.

Teach your children to love their hair.

The answer is to repent of your sins, seek the Most High God of Israel, and keep His commandments.

“Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.” Ecclesiastes 12:13 KJV

How to Pray

Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen. Matthew 6: 9-12
Prayer times: Morning (sunrise 5am) Afternoon (12-3) Evening (sunset)
1. Position 
On your knees, raise your arms as reaching for the Most High face the east.
2. Gratitude 
Praise the Most High let HIM know who much you appreciate HIM, acknowledge how GREAT HE is, love him, bring into remembrance all that HE did for you. Worship HIS holy name.
3. Confess your sins 
Confess and ask for forgiveness of your sins (iniquities and transgressions.)
4. Petition 
Let your request to know what you need to the Most High.
5. In the name of the Messiah – Seal your prayer in the name of the Messiah or Savior.
Scriptures: Psalms 55:17, 1 Kings 8:28, 1 Kings 8:38, Proverbs 15:29, 2 Chronicles 32:20, Job 8:5, Psalms 73:28, Ephesians 3:14, Ephesians 6:18, Matthew 6:7
Facts about PRAYER: It changes things and a way of communicating with the Most High.

It’s a battle daily living within the gut of this monster we denote this world. My very psyche is levy daily with apprehension and juddering, it feels as if I am suffocating every moment to the point of feeling thirsty or excessive hung but yet never having enough to quench those appetites. It is as if I am watching an Opera while everyone else is watching the same show the only difference is that our perspicacious is like night and day. In whatever seat I sit in I must see the world through the eyes of the Most High to carry me through the dilemmas of life through his perception. I am not a perfect person, my flaws are endless, in my life I have made a lot of mistakes. But I do strive daily to be more like the Savior, keep the commandments. As long as there is breath in our bodies there is hope. Life every day like your last for no one is promised tomorrow. Our lives are like the vapor, we are here for a short time. Only the things you do for the Most High will last.

Read your bible because what we have been taught are lies. We still have to keep the 10 commandments. There is no rapture. When you die you go to Abraham’s Bosom (paradise) or Hades (Hell.) There is no such thing as once saved always saved. Nobody is saved right now. Hell is real. A man is appointed to die once, no reincarnation. If you do not repent and keep the commandments you will go to hell. The is only one true God – The Most High – the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and the nation of Israel. You must keep the Sabbath (Friday sundown to Saturday sundown). Sunday Church is the worship of the Sun God.

For those confessing being a part of the Nation of Israel, prayer is the best way to communicate with the Most High. Prayer is the vehicle for daily dialog with the One who created us. The importance of daily communication through prayer cannot be overestimated. It is so important that it is mentioned over 250 times in Scripture. So why is daily prayer so important? First, daily prayer gives us an opportunity to share all aspects of our lives including our circumstances daily with the Most High. Second, daily prayer gives us the chance to express our gratitude for all the things He provides out food, clothing, and shelter. Prayer provides the platform for confessing our sin and asking for help in overcoming that sin. Prayer is an act of worship and obedience. Prayer is a way to acknowledge who is really in control of our lives. Let’s take a look at each of these important reasons in a little more detail. The Prayer the Savior gave to us: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom comes, Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen. Matthew 6:9-13 KJV Prayer is the direct link to the Most High. Anoint yourself and your family with anointing oil as you pray for them.

The hypothetical logic of possessing the mind of Christ (1 Corinthians 2:16) introduces a spiritual connection but first we can’t leave our minds undisciplined. The Apostle Paul understood this well: “Philippians 4:8 (KJV) – “ Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.” Due to your spirit and soul connection you will never obtain the mind of the Savior without first reading the word regularly.

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Meditate on the words of the Most High daily.

We can hardly overstate the importance of integrity to a generation of believers so much like the world in ethical conduct. But integrity’s benefits of character, a clear conscience, deep intimacy with the Most High argue its importance. Our speech and conduct must be intentionally following the laws and statues of the Most High. “ If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man’s religion is vain. James 1:26 (KJV)” Our words should be offered on the altar.

Repent!

Dilemma 44 – " The Spirit, Soul, and the Body.

There are three critical components of mankind, the Spirit, Soul, and the Body. The body houses the soul and spirit.

1. (Spirit) Breath into nostrils the breath of life. The Spirit (Hebrew “Ruwach”)

Our human spirit is an element given to men to enable them to know the Most High intimately through a genuine relationship. Our human spirit is what connects us with the Most High spiritually. So to be connected with The Most High is to be alive spiritually Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;) Ephesians 2:5 KJV To be disconnected from the Most High is to be dead spiritually For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Christ our Lord. Romans 6:23 KJV Our human spirit is the element through which the Holy Spirit dwells in us as we keep his commandments and statues. Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me. Cast me not away from thy presence, and take not thy holy spirit from me. Psalms 51: 10-11 KJV When we sin the Holy Spirit departs from us.

We understand, receive, and discern spiritual truth through our human spirit by the anointing of the Holy Spirit But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you. John 14:26 KJV The human spirit is like blood in our physical body, which is symbolic of material life. When a limb of the body is deprived of blood, it withers and dies. It’s the same thing that transpires when we’re disconnected from the Most High due to sin our spirit man is dead as a result. Because the spirit becomes deprived of the rich spiritual nourishment the word, provision, and support that it desperately needs from the Most High’s word for it to be alive, healthy, and in good graces with the Most High. It all happens as a result of our human spirit being disconnected from God, which is spiritual death. When that happens, utter darkness has invaded the body, soul, and spirit. This leads to enmity with the Father. A condition that occurs after you sin. It disconnects the undeviating interaction with the Most High (your Father) the gate to the nucleus of our existence the Most High God of Israel. And they fell upon their faces, and said, O God, the God of the spirits of all flesh, shall one man sin, and wilt thou be wroth with all the congregation? Numbers 16:22 KJV This verse names the Most High as the God of the spirits that are possessed by all humanity.

Notice also that it mentions the flesh (body) of all mankind, connecting it with the spirit. It’s in our spirit that we have meaning and purpose in life. At the deepest level, our spirit gives us meaning and purpose and our spirit enables us to love one another, our self and the creator. It’s through our spirit that we have communion and fellowship with the Most High God. Our spirit gives us intuition between right and wrong. “For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would.” Galatians 5:17

Spirit: Holies of Holies

  (Hebrew “Ruwach”)

Revelation Worship Fears the Most High Faith Hope Prayer Intuition Charity Fruit of the Spirit

Our human spirit is an element given to men in order to enable them to know the Most High intimately through a genuine relationship. Our human spirit is what connects us with the Most High spiritually. So to be connected with The Most High is to be alive spiritually Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;) Ephesians 2:5 KJV To be disconnected from the Most High is to be dead spiritually For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Christ our Lord. Romans 6:23 KJV Our human spirit is the element through which the Holy Spirit dwells in us as we keep his commandments and statues. Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me. Cast me not away from thy presence, and take not thy holy spirit from me. Psalms 51: 10-11 KJV When we sin the Holy Spirit departs from us. We understand, receive, and discern spiritual truth through our human spirit by the anointing of the Holy Spirit But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you. John 14:26 KJV The human spirit is like blood in our physical body, which is symbolic of physical life. When a limb of the body is deprived of blood, it withers and dies. It’s the same thing that transpires when we’re disconnected from the Most High due to sin our spirit man is dead as a result. Because the spirit becomes deprived of the rich spiritual nourishment the word, provision, and support that it desperately needs from the Most High’s word in order for it to be alive, healthy, and in good graces with the Most High. It all happens as a result of our human spirit being disconnected from God, which is spiritual death. When that happens, utter darkness has invaded the body, soul, and spirit. This leads to enmity with the Father. A condition that occurs after you sin. It disconnects the undeviating interaction with the Most High (your Father) the gate to the nucleus of our existence the Most High God of Israel. And they fell upon their faces, and said, O God, the God of the spirits of all flesh, shall one man sin, and wilt thou be wroth with all the congregation? Numbers 16:22 KJV This verse names the Most High as the God of the spirits that are possessed by all humanity. Notice also that it mentions the flesh (body) of all mankind, connecting it with the spirit. It’s in our spirit that we have meaning and purpose in life. At the deepest level, our spirit gives us meaning and purpose and our spirit enables us to love one another, our self and the creator. It’s through our spirit that we have communion and fellowship with the Most High God. Our spirit gives us intuition between right and wrong. “For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would.” Galatians 5:17

2. (Soul) Man became a living soul. The Soul (Hebrew, “Nephesh” )

The soul is an immaterial element; in other words, the soul is spirit as well. It’s the very element in which intellect, emotion, and free will are exercised. The soul is the element which controls the body in these three areas. The soul is immortal in the sense that it can be annihilated; therefore, it remains alive even if the body is dead physically. Since it’s where free will is located; consequently, it’s the very element that carries the massive burden of sin. Our soul gives us the ability to think, choose, imagine, remember, and feel. Most importantly, the soul is the very embodiment of our mind and heart. As a result, our mind is the very part of our body that Satan and his demons contend against the truth persistently. If Satan can keep you in strong delusion and fulfilling the lusts of your flesh and eyes. Your mind will be held captive. You must flee from temptation. “There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13 KJV To flee from all temptations known to man. But he answered and said, It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God. Matthew 4:4 KJV The soul is the very part of man in which his conscience resides.

The consciousness of reasoning and evaluating sin. A conscience is given by God to keep a man from evil by releasing an intense onus and discomfort feeling before committing an act of sin. Lot of times, strong guilt and remorse are experienced after people have committed something that was in clear violation of breaking the commandments, laws, and statues with their own conscience their sense of right and wrong: the understanding of what is right and wrong that governs somebody’s thoughts and actions, urging him or her to do right rather than wrong. Our soul is what gives us our personality; it’s the real you. Often referred to as your heart. Our soul has three significant components — our mind, will, and emotions. Our brain has a conscious part and a subconscious part. The conscious mind is where we do our thinking and reasoning. The sub-conscious mind is where we hold our deep beliefs and our attitudes. It’s also where we have our feeling, our emotions and retain our memories. Our will is what gives us the ability to make choices. Through a very complicated way, our mind, our will, and our emotions are connected to the body through our endocrine, nervous, and immune systems. The soul is a slave to sin. Genesis 2:7 KJV states that Man was created as a “living soul.” The soul consists of the mind (which includes the conscience), the will and the emotions. The soul and the spirit are mysteriously tied together and makeup what the Scriptures call the “heart.” And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and man became a living soul. Genesis 2:7 KJV The writer of Proverbs declares, ” Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. Proverbs 4:23 KJV We see here that the “heart” which is part of the soul is central to our emotions and will. But the natural man receiveth, not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.1 Corinthians 2:14 KJV And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which can destroy both soul and body in hell. Matthew 10:28 KJV It is our soul that will go to either Abraham’s bosom or Hades after we die. But his flesh upon him shall have pain, and his soul within him shall mourn. Job 14:22 KJV

Soul: Inner Court

 (Hebrew, “Nephesh” )

Center of the Mind, will, and emotions conscious reasoning Memory Choice Carnal nature Thought processes

 The soul is an immaterial element; in other words, the soul is spirit as well. It’s the very element in which intellect, emotion, and free will are exercised. The soul is the element which controls the body in these three areas. The soul is immortal in the sense that it can be annihilated; therefore, it remains alive even if the body is dead physically. Since it’s where free will is located; consequently, it’s the very element that carries the massive burden of sin. Our soul gives us the ability to think, choose, imagine, remember, and feel. Most importantly, the soul is the very embodiment of our mind and heart. As a result, our mind is the very part of our body that Satan and his demons contend against the truth persistently. If Satan can keep you in strong delusion and fulfilling the lusts of your flesh and eyes. Your mind will be held captive. You must flee from temptation. “There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13 KJV In order to flee from all temptations known to man. But he answered and said, It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God. Matthew 4:4 KJV The soul is the very part of man in which his conscience resides. The consciousness of reasoning and evaluating sin. A conscience is given by God in order to keep the man from evil by releasing an intense onus and discomfort feeling before committing an act of sin. Lot of times, strong guilt and remorse are experienced after people have committed something that was in clear violation of breaking the commandments, laws, and statues with their own conscience their sense of right and wrong: the sense of what is right and wrong that governs somebody’s thoughts and actions, urging him or her to do right rather than wrong. Our soul is what gives us our personality it’s the real you. Often referred to as your heart. Our soul has three major components — our mind, will, and emotions. Our mind has a conscious part and a subconscious part. The conscious mind is where we do our thinking and reasoning. The sub-conscious mind is where we hold our deep beliefs and our attitudes. It’s also where we have our feeling, our emotions and retain our memories. Our will is what gives us the ability to make choices. Through a very complex way, our mind, our will, and our emotions are connected to the body through our endocrine, nervous and immune systems. The soul is a slave to sin. Genesis 2:7 KJV states that Man was created as a “living soul.” The soul consists of the mind (which includes the conscience), the will and the emotions. The soul and the spirit are mysteriously tied together and makeup what the Scriptures call the “heart.” And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and man became a living soul. Genesis 2:7 KJV The writer of Proverbs declares, ” Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. Proverbs 4:23 KJV We see here that the “heart” which is part of the soul is central to our emotions and will. But the natural man receiveth, not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.1 Corinthians 2:14 KJV And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell. Matthew 10:28 KJV It is our soul that will go to either Abraham’s bosom or Hades after we die. But his flesh upon him shall have pain, and his soul within him shall mourn. Job 14:22 KJV

3. (Body) formed from the dust of the ground. The Body (Hebrew, “ Graph”)

I beseech you, therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. Romans 12:1 KJV A body is allied with performing and committing to the will of the Most High. The Spirit and a Soul might have a body to occupy. A body is for doing things on this earth, so the prime reason we have a physical body is to do the will of the Most High on earth. Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God. Romans 6:13 KJV We have a physical body for procreating purposes. “And God blessed Noah and his sons, and said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth.” Genesis 9:1 KJV A physical body allows us to enjoy and fit into the creation. Another reason as to why we have a physical body is because we’re made to dwell in a physical world, so our physicality enables us to interact and connect with our surroundings in a wide variety of ways. This is the entire material or physical structure of a human being — it is the physical part of a person.

Man is made up of physical material, the body complies with these systems that operate together to give the most harmonious operations of the organization: Cardiovascular/Circulatory system: Circulates blood around the body via the heart, arteries, and veins, delivering oxygen and nutrients to organs and cells and carrying their waste products away. Digestive system / Excretory system: Mechanical and chemical processes that provide nutrients via the mouth, esophagus, stomach, and intestines. Eliminates waste from the body. Endocrine system: Provides biochemical communications within the organization using hormones. Exocrine system: Skin, hair, nails, sweat, and other exocrine glands. Lymphatic system / Immune system: The system comprising a network of lymphatic vessels that carry a clear fluid called lymph. Defends the body against disease-causing agents. Muscular system/Skeletal system: Enables the body to move using muscles. Bones supporting the body and its organs. Nervous system: Collects and processes information from the senses via nerves and the brain and tells the muscles to contract to cause physical actions. Renal system / Urinary system: The system where the kidneys filter blood.

Reproductive system: The sex organs required for the production of offspring. Respiratory system: The lungs and the trachea that bring air into the body. The body is the indirect correlation with the 5 senses: hearing, sight, touch, smell, and taste. The body is in close relationship with the soul. They hardly ever contradict themselves. The body works in line with the flesh. “Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,” Galatians 5:19 KJV “Therefore, brethren, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live after the flesh.” Romans 8:12 KJV When your soul and spirit live your body, it results in Death.

Body: Outer Court

 (Hebrew, “ Graph”)

The body carries out lust of the flesh through touch, taste, smell, sight, hearing, and feeling formed from the dust of the ground.

 I beseech you, therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. Romans 12:1 KJV A body is allied with performing and committing to the will of the Most High. The Spirit and a Soul might have a body to occupy. A body is for doing things on this earth, so the prime reason we have a physical body is for the purpose of doing the will of the Most High on earth. Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God. Romans 6:13 KJV We have a physical body for procreating purposes. “And God blessed Noah and his sons, and said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth.” Genesis 9:1 KJV

Death of the Body

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When we die the silver cord is broken… Our spirit and soul live in a body so when we die the silver cord is broken… Our soul pays the price for what our physical body does. When your cord breaks where will you be in Abraham’s bosom (at rest) or Hades (in torment)

“Or ever the silver cord be loosed, or the golden bowl be broken, or the pitcher be broken at the fountain or the wheel broken at the cistern.” Ecclesiastes 12:6

Hostilities and battles have inexorably the ability to turns a person’s point of view to the most intriguing thought-provoking questions about death. Life within itself is an unexplained phenomenon that ends at any time with reason or motive. Is it a climax to a bigger plan or the divine will of the Most High God? Don’t sorrow for the wounded lamb that hops to his mother, for the broken-winged blue jay that has flown away up the mountain. This is the sentiment when a loved one has departed from this world. While we lament over our loss at of our loved ones, we can revel in the fact of knowing that your loved ones went into Abraham bosom. Some deaths are met with joy, peace, longsuffering, and mourning. At the end of your life, judgment is set your body returns to the dirt, and your spirit to the Most High, your soul will enter Abraham’s bosom or Hades depending on you keep the laws and commandments of the Most High God of Israel. You exist no more your like a dream that is over, but the memories of you are trapped in the minds of your loved ones that were left behind. The loss of my husband has left me tormented with longing to touch, to feel, to talk, to get encouragement, to bask in the shadow of his glow, to walk side by side as the moon appears before our eyes, to serve him with reverence, due benevolence, love, to breath each others air, to share that last piece of cheesecake, to know that someone is there for you to accept me as I am. Death is final, and that devastation leaves you with not much to be desired but a feeling of peace in knowing that you loved one is in a better place with no pain and suffering. “And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:” Hebrews 9:27 KJV Our bodies are decaying every moment we are lead to believe that we are to pay attention to our physical body only. The spirit is knocked out with a punch. We live eternal through our spirits. In the following chapters, you will experience the direct correlation between the connection of spirit, soul, and body. The body and soul are subject to the Spirit, and your spirit is to the Most High God of Israel. Repent! Turn back from your wicked ways! No one is promised tomorrow!

Have you ever wondered where your soul goes after it has departed your body? The world would have you to believe that everyone will enter the pearly gates of heaven or be reincarnated as another person or animal. In reality, where you go is determined on how you lived your life, did you live a life of sin, or did you keep the commandments?  Let’s first get it straight that you will not leave this earth until the Most High sends the decree, and your soul is required of you on that day. The Most High God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob is in control over everything including your life. For HE is the one true and living God.

This is what happens to your soul after it leaves your body.

And I answered and said,

   “Then will time be given the souls after they are separated

 from the bodies, to see what you have told me of?"

   “They have freedom for seven days, so that during these seven days they may see the things of which you have been told, and afterwards they shall be gathered in their habitations.”

So after your soul departs from your body, you will be given seven days before going into Abraham’s Bosom/Paradise (place of rest) or Hades (place of torment.) In regards to death, whether going into Abraham’s Bosom or a place of torment, it is explained profoundly in the Holy Bible, in the parable of the rich man and Lazarus.

“There was a certain rich man, which was clothed in purple and fine linen, and fared sumptuously every day: And there was a certain beggar named Lazarus, which was laid at his gate, full of sores, And desiring to be fed with the crumbs which fell from the rich man’s table: moreover the dogs came and licked his sores. And it came to pass, that the beggar died, and was carried by the angels into Abraham’s bosom: the rich man also died, and was buried; And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments and seeth Abraham afar off and Lazarus in his bosom. And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame. But Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented. Ab beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they pass to us, that would come from thence. Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father’s house: For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment. Abraham saith unto him, They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them. And he said, Nay, father Abraham: but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent. And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, through one rose from the dead.” Luke 16:23-31 KJV Bible 8

Death of the Body

Hostilities and battles have inexorably the ability to turns a person’s point of view to the most intriguing thought-provoking questions about death. Life within itself is an unexplained phenomenon that ends at any time with reason or motive. Is it a climax to a bigger plan or the divine will of the Most High God? Don’t sorrow for the wounded lamb that hops to his mother, for the broken-winged blue jay that has flown away up the mountain. This is the sentiment when a loved one has departed from this world. While we lament over our loss at of our loved ones, we can revel in the fact of knowing that your loved ones went into Abraham bosom. Some deaths are met with joy, peace, longsuffering, and mourning. At the end of your life, judgment is set your body returns to the dirt, and your spirit to the Most High, your soul will enter Abraham’s bosom or Hades depending on you keep the laws and commandments of the Most High God of Israel. You exist no more your like a dream that is over, but the memories of you are trapped in the minds of your loved ones that were left behind. The loss of my husband has left me tormented with a longing to touch, to feel, to talk, to get encouragement. I miss basking in the shadow of his glow. Walking side by side as the moon appears before our eyes, to serve him with reverence, due benevolence, love, to breath each other’s air, to share that last piece of cheesecake, to know that someone is there for you to accept me as I am. Death is final, and that devastation leaves you with not much to be desired but a feeling of peace in knowing that you loved one is in a better place with no pain and suffering.

“And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:” Hebrews 9:27 KJV

Our bodies are decaying every moment we are lead to believe that we are to pay attention to our physical body only. The spirit is knocked out with a punch. We live eternal through our spirits. In the following chapters you will experience the direct correlation between the connection of spirit, soul, and body. The body and soul is subject to the Spirit and your spirit is to the Most High God of Israel.

Now concerning death, the teaching is: When the decisive decree has gone out from the Most High that a person shall die, as the spirit leaves the body to return again to him who gave it, first of all, it adores the glory of the Most High. If it is one of those who have shown scorn and have not kept the way of the Most Hig, who have despised his law and hated those who fear God such spirits shall not enter into habitations, but shall immediately wander about in torments, always grieving and sad, in SEVEN WAYS:



1. The FIRST WAY is that they have scorned the Law of the Most High.

2. The SECOND WAY is that they can no longer make a good respentance, so that they may live.

3. The THIRD WAY they shall see the reward laid up for those who have trusted the covenants of the Most High.

4. The FOURTH WAY they shall consider the torment laid up for themselves in the last days.

5. The FIFTH WAY they shall see how the habitations of the others are guarded by angels in profound quiet.

6. The SIXTH WAY they shall see how some of them will crossover into torments.

7. The SEVENTH WAY which is worse than all the ways that have been mentioned, because they shall utterly waste away in confusion and be consumed with shame, and shall wither with fear at seeing the glory of the Most High in whose presence they sinned while they were alive, and in whose presence they are to be judged in the last times.



Now, this is the order of those who have kept the ways of the Most High, when they shall be separated from their mortal body. During the time that they lived in it, they laboriously served the Most High and withstood danger every hour so that they might keep the law of the Lawgiver perfectly. Therefore this is the teaching concerning them; First of all, they shall see with great joy the glory of him who receives them, for they shall have rest in 7 ORDERS.


1. The FIRST ORDER  is that they have striven with much toil to conquer the

wicked thought that was formed with them so that it should not lead them away from life to death.


2. The SECOND ORDER  is that they see the labyrinth in which the souls of the ungodly wander, and the punishment that awaits them.


3. The THIRD ORDER is that they see the testimony that he who formed them had borne to them because when they were them alive, they faithfully observed the law which was given.


4. The FOURTH ORDER is that they understand the rest which they now enjoy, gathered in their chambers, in great quietness, watched over by angels, and the glory that awaits them in the last days.


5. The FIFTH ORDER is that they exult that they have now escaped what is corruptible and will possess the future as their inheritance, and besides perceive the narrowness and toilsomeness from which they have been freed and the spaciousness they are destined to receive and enjoy in immortality.


6. The SIXTH ORDER  is that it is shown to them how their face is destined to shine like the sun, and how they are to be made like the light of the stars and be incorruptible thenceforth.


7. The SEVENTH ORDER  which is higher than all  those that have been mentioned, is that they will exult boldly,  and that they will trust confidently, and rejoice fearlessly,  life, and from whom they are to receive their reward when  for they hasten to see the face of him whom they served in

they are glorified.



2 Esdras Chapter 7: 76-104 (TNOAA) Sources: The New Oxford Annotated Apocrypha 1611 Holy Bible WAKE UP and REPENT of your sins before its too late!!! Stop sinning Follow the Most High Worship and Praise HIM Keep the commandments Pray and Fast This day may be your last so Repent!

REPENT!



 The answer is to repent of your sins, seek the Most High God of Israel, and keep His commandments.

“Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.” Ecclesiastes 12:13 KJV


Dilemma 6 – "Sexual Sin"

Every other sin that a man commits is outside his body, but the immoral man (fornicator) sins against his own body (1 Corinthians 6:18) Sex glands in the body are part of the autonomic nervous system. Normal sexual functioning is a regular, rhythmic cycle of life. But when the Messiah said, “But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. Matthew 5:28 KJV 
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The Messiah intended us to have relations within a marital union. The word for lust is apothems. The prefix epi means “to add to.” signifying that something is being added to a regular drive. The only way to control your sexual drive is to manage your thought life realizing that each time a man connects with a woman sexually and releases his life form energy within her, he leaves a part of his information (DNA) in her birth canal. The desire for sex is the most powerful of human desires. “When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will-power, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other times,” says Napoleon Hill in his classic book, Think and Grow Rich. Sexual lust demands physical expression, and that is where, Roman 6 comes into play, “ Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof.” Romans 6:12 (KJV) Commend not a man for his beauty; neither abhor a man for his outward appearance Ecclesiasticus 11:2 Apocrypha
 
The Sexual  Satanic Ritual of  Ass Worship

We truly live in a culture of ASS worship. We have a culture of attention whoring, of superficial likes and followers on social media. We are living in a generation where dressing to impress is a thing of the past. And acting ratchet, twerking, being practically naked in public or all over the internet showing off your assets to the world is the latest trend. No matter how big or small the ASS is, it should be displayed, that seems to be the new thing. No matter how big or small the breasts are, they must be out in the open. This culture is lust driven, whether you the pursuer or the initiator. When you only display your gluteus maxima , do you think men will care about your mind or your well-being? Visually you leave nothing to the imagination your appeal to the lust within the male psyche. Will you become his wife, absolutely not. When you put more attention into how much your ASS is exposed to the general public, you will be overlooked in terms of intelligence. Never let your beauty be the only advantage of getting attention or seeking favorability. You should care about what you project and what you display. Stop allow men to worship your body.

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They want to keep us focus on basic knowledge while serving the creation but not the creator like, for example, “Tossing the Salad” To lick and pleasure the anus. What are the origins of such worship? Baal worship especially called for sensual indulgence. Partly male and partly female deity having the physical characteristics of both sexes; hermaphrodite. The sun god/ moon goddess is androgynous, which means the blending masculine and feminine: neither male nor female in appearance but having both conventional masculine and feminine traits and giving an impression of ambiguous sexual identity. The lord of the opening the anal cavity the offering he received was the residue of one’ digestion from temple prostitutes. The worship of this idol consisted in exposing that part of the body which all persons usually take the utmost care to conceal. It is related that on one occasion a strange ruler came to the place where Peor was worshiped, to sacrifice to him; but when he heard of this silly practice, he caused his soldiers to attack and kill the worshipers of the god (Sifre, Num. 131; Sanh. 106a). The same sources mention various other facts concerning the cult, all of which give the impression that it still existed at the time of the Tannaim. That the statements of the Rabbis are not wholly imaginative and do not take their coloring from the rites of some heathen or antinomian-Gnostic sects is shown by the fact that the worship of Peor is ridiculed. Nowhere stigmatized as moral depravity, by the Rabbis, which latter might have been expected, had the assertions of the Rabbis been based on the Gnostic cults mentioned. source: Jewish encyclopedia

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And Israel joined himself unto Baalpeor: and the anger of the LORD was kindled against Israel. Numbers 25:3 KJV And Israel joined himself unto Baalpeor: and the anger of the LORD was kindled against Israel. Numbers 25:3. And shed innocent blood, even the blood of their sons and of their daughters, whom they sacrificed unto the idols of Canaan: and the land was polluted with blood. Psalm 106:38 KJV

Osculum infame is the name of a witch’s supposed ritual greeting upon meeting with the Devil. The name means The Shameful Kiss, or The Kiss of Shame since it involved kissing the devil’s anus, his other mouth. According to folklore, it was this kiss that allowed the Devil to seduce women. As explained in the Infernal Dictionary how the witches go forth in their rituals for the devil by J. Collin De Plancy (1592) Another term for this behavior falls under the lines of Sodomy which is any of the sexual acts regarded as perverted, especially anal intercourse, oral-anal contact, or sexual intercourse with an animal.

There shall be no whore of the daughters of Israel, nor a sodomite of the sons of Israel. Deuteronomy 23:17King James Version (KJV)

Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonor their own bodies between themselves: Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. For this cause, God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. Romans 1:24-27King James Version (KJV)

This sexual revolution spreads even further to ancient Egyptian. The Turin Erotic Papyrus (Papyrus 55001, also called the Erotic Papyrus or even Turin Papyrus) is an ancient Egyptian papyrus scroll-painting that was created during the Ramesside Period, approximately in 1150 B.C. Discovered in Deir el-Medina in the early 19th century, it has been dubbed “world’s first men’s mag.” Measuring 8.5 feet (2.6 m) by 10 inches (25 cm), it consists of two parts, one of which contains twelve erotic vignettes depicting various sex positions. It is currently housed by the Museo Egizio in Turin, Italy. Containing twelve successive scenes, the erotic section takes up two-thirds of the Turin Papyrus. Not confirming the convention of human perfection in ancient Egyptian art, the men depicted on the papyrus are “scruffy, balding, short, and paunchy” with exaggeratedly large genitalia.
In contrast, the women are nubile and appear with canonical erotic images of convolvulus leaves, Hathoric imagery, lotus flowers, monkeys, and sistra. Overall, the artistic merit of the pictures is high, suggesting that the Erotic Papyrus had an elite owner and audience. The various male images have also been interpreted as a single protagonist, who has several encounters with a courtesan. And Israel joined himself unto Baalpeor: and the anger of the LORD was kindled against Israel. Numbers 25:3. And shed innocent blood, even the blood of their sons and of their daughters, whom they sacrificed unto the idols of Canaan: and the land was polluted with blood. Psalm 106:38 There are physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual aspects of sexual intercourse. There is often significant emotional trauma associated with sexual immorality, and it usually manifests itself in a variety of ways, including the development of a soul tie. Soul ties are exactly what they sound like. They are ties from one person’s soul to another person’s soul. According to 1 Thessalonians 5:23, man is made up of three parts: spirit, soul, and body. Soul ties are intimate bonds to another human being.

1 Corinthians 6:12-20 says: All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any. Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. And God hath both raised up the Lord, and will also raise up us by his own power. Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. 17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.

In these verses, Paul made it perfectly clear to the Corinthian Christians sexual intercourse is more than a biological experience; it involves a communion of life. Every time you have sexual intercourse with someone, you become one flesh with that person. You are united to that person in every way possible. Your spirit, emotions, every aspect of your being is combined with that person. It is not just a physical activity where you release sexual tension. You become joined to the person or people you have sex with. One of the meanings of the world participated in the Greek means “glued to” so when you have sex with someone that you are not married to you become glued to them. Whenever you pull apart something that has been glued together, there is always damage to one or both parts and some times it is excruciating to disconnect the parts. That is why the emotional trauma after single adults are involved in sexual immorality is so intense. Sometimes when there is a separation of something glued together, a portion of one of the parts may remain attached even when the two regions have separated. Some of us have glued ourselves to all kinds of people through fornication and adultery, and that is why our lives are so messed up, and we are not free to live for Jesus. Only the power of God can set you free from the entrapments sexual immorality bring into your lives. Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof. Romans 6:12 (KJV)

Oral Sex and Baal-Poer Worship

The way the Most High created us sexually to face each other, to look into each other’s eyes when they are the only creation that looks face to face. Anything other than what the Most High intended is an act of sexual immorality. We are not to engage in such practices. Oral Sex is the act of stimulating a person’s genitals with your mouth, lips, or tongue. This could involve sucking or licking their penis (also called fellatio), vagina, vulva or clitoris (cunnilingus), or anus (anilingus). The bible says, “They joined themselves unto “Baal-Peor” and ate sacrifices to the dead.” Immoral sexual acts which do not bring life into this world such as masturbation, homosexual acts, multiple partners, sex involving objects or devices, animals, anal sex, and Oral sex. These acts are unnatural because they violate natural law and are not open to life. Humans were designed by Yahuah so that sexual relations would consist in acts of genital-to-genital intercourse; bring life between a man and a woman. Other kinds of actions are contrary to this intention. The Scriptures speak of an incident where Israel has led astray into sexual sin. The seriousness of this event is so significant that the Savior warns the assembly in Revelations against this sort of idolatry. He wrote: “But I have a few things against thee because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balac to cast a stumbling block before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed unto idols, and to commit fornication.” Revelations 2:14. What was the stumbling block Balaam offered to King Balak? It was the worship of Baal-Peor. After Balaam departs from Moab, we see the ramifications of this instruction as Israel joins itself to Baal-Peor: “Now Israel remained in Acacia Grove, and the people began to commit harlotry with the women of Moab. They invited the people to the sacrifices of their gods, and the people ate and bowed down to their gods. So Israel was joined to Baal of Peor, and the anger of the Savior was aroused against Israel.” Numbers 25:1-3. This caused a plague on the nation of Israel, which resulted in 24,00 slain (Numbers 31:16).

So what is Baal-Peor?

Baal-Peor is a Moabite god who was worshiped with obscene rituals. The name means “Lord of the opening” from Baal meaning owner/ husband and Peor coming from pa’ar meaning “open wide.” They were killed for idolatry. The Savior said, “I found Israel Like grapes in the wilderness; I saw your fathers As the firstfruits on the fig tree in its first season. But they went to Baal Peor, And separated themselves to that shame; They became an abomination like the thing they loved.” Hosea 9:10. The worship of Baal-Peor IS an abomination. Notice that those who join themselves to Baal-Peor also “become “AN ABOMINATION” before Yahuah. Those who delight and love to partake in Peor’s rites shall be guilty of the love idolatry…. Therefore hell hath enlarged herself, and opened her mouth without measure: and their glory, and their multitude, and their pomp, and he that rejoiced shall descend into it. Isaiah 5:14. The act of Homosexual sex (sodomy) is considered an abomination in the sight of the Messiah.

Many believe that homosexuality began with European civilizations. It was then adopted their generations. It was depicted in Grecian and Roman art. Homosexuality has made its way through many cultures since the beginning of time.

So he shall give them up to uncleanness through the Lusts of their own hearts, to dishonor their own bodies between themselves: They dishonor themselves by participating in sodomy. The Hebrew word for sodomy is “burning” Sodomy is defined as Anal or Oral copulation in every dictionary look it up. It is still considered sodomy when it pertains to the same sex as well. Its idolatry, and considered uncleanness. Besides physically unclean, it has spiritual components. Romans Ch1 describe man’s degradation into reprobation, To become reprobate takes time. You don’t wake up reprobate. There are a series of steps that take you further into sin. If you don’t turn away from it……The Messiah said that for this cause I will give them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature. And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet. Romans 1:26-28. And even as they did not like to retain Yahuah in their knowledge, He gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; This is what has happened with so many today concerning sodomy practices. They have been given over to it, and now they love it and see nothing wrong with partaking in this rite. Open wide is concerning cavities of the body. Baal Peor is not just about one specific opening, but all opportunities of the body that can be corrupted for worship and sexual purposes. One of the main rites or rituals of Baal Peor is to get people to participate in eating from places where body waste comes from. Those who delight and love to partake in Peor’s rites shall be guilty of the love idolatry…. Baal Peor possesses people through lust of their eyes and pierces their minds (Pornography is another opening) Sexual devices, sex dolls, toys, etc. In fact, the art of pole dancing is another tool used in the worship of Baal Peor. It’s nothing more than a modern-day Asherah Penis Pole. Pole dancing ensnares the eyes and corrupts the mind. The enemy seeks to desensitize men by pretending that these acts are good. They even came up with “Pole dancing for the Savior” Baal Peor does one of many things. It trains a person to lose all inhibitions. It is an idol whose form of worship also includes defecation before it. The worshiper would bare their backside and defecate in honor of the icon. Peor was the epitome of idolatry! It encourages shameful licentiousness sin. Some say that the Savior only disapproves of this act as it relates to temple prostitutes, yet the act itself is considered idolatry no matter who performs it. One does not have to be a temple whore of Baal for the law to be sinful. These are Homosexual acts of Baal, no matter what gender. Temple prostitutes would perform the action on anyone who came to them. The law joins you to Baal (Baal indwells the participant). The marriage bed should be kept in honor (Heb 13:4). Sexual fornication or pornea, which means illicit sexual intercourse is sex acts that the Savior deems illicit, and are not acceptable because it defiles the marriage bed. So ask yourself again, are acts of sodomy considered unlawful? Remember that children can only come as a result of natural intercourse. The action of any kind of other sex is not gendered specific. It formats the mind to be A-sexual. So again, “The act is considered sodomy even when it pertains to the opposite sex. Heterosexuals who participate in this act are “sodomites” by the very definition of the word. It doesn’t take long in reviewing the Scriptures to understand how the Savior feels about sodomy if you don’t close your eyes to see it. The Bible is not silent on this topic if you study the deity Baal Peor and understand what it requires to worship it.

Sexual Sin open your soul up to Soul ties, beware!

Do you remember your first kiss, your first touch, or your first love? Sure, you do! Chances are that you were intimate with him or her, and you entered the world of the soul tie. Maybe you gave in gradually, and it felt good. Did he or she melt your heart? You felt that they would be with you forever. Well, in this case, they are. A soul tie is like a linkage in the soul realm between two people. It links their souls together, which can bring forth both beneficial results or negative results. The positive effect of a soul tie: In a godly marriage, the Most High links the two together and the Bible tells us that they become one flesh. As a result of them becoming one flesh, it binds them together, and they will uniquely cleave onto one another. The purpose of this cleaving is to build a very healthy, strong, and close relationship between a man and a woman in marriage as the Most High intended. These ties are physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual aspects of sexual intercourse. There is often significant emotional trauma associated with sexual immorality, and it usually manifests itself in a variety of ways, including the development of a soul tie. Soul ties are exactly what they sound like. They are ties from one person’s soul to another person’s soul. Matthew 19:5, “And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh.” Soul ties can also be found in long-distance internet talking or close in person friendships. They are not just limited to a marriage, as we can see with King David and Jonathan in friendship. 1 Samuel 18:1, “And it came to pass when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.” The negative effect of a soul tie: Soul ties can also be used for the devil’s advantage by tying your soul to another person, he has ultimate control over you. And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her. And his soul clave unto Dinah the daughter of Jacob, and he loved the damsel, and spake kindly unto the damsel. Genesis 34:2-3 The link of unresolved emotions has encamped a person’s spirit. The feelings are still strong years down the road. Their first lover becomes the trademark or standard for all other men or women. He or she has another spouse and children but still desiring the first original person they slept with. This is why you must only join with the person the Most High wants you to be with. As we ask the Most High for things, we can surely inquire who we should be with as a lifetime partner in marriage. Demonic spirits or familiar spirits can also take advantage of ungodly soul ties, and use them to transfer spirits from one person to another. “And the Babylonians came to her into the bed of love, and they defiled her with their whoredom, and she was polluted with them, and her mind was alienated from them.” Ezekiel 23:17 Many people have equated this as Astral projection (or astral travel) is a term used in esotericism to describe a willful out-of-body experience (OBE), a supposed form of telepathy, that assumes the existence of a soul or consciousness called an “astral body” that is separate from the physical body and capable of traveling outside of it throughout the universe. The idea of astral travel is rooted in esotericism and occultism and was promoted by 19th-century Theosophists—philosophers who explored the mystical and preternatural origins of the natural world. It is sometimes reported in association with dreams, and forms of meditation. Some individuals have reported perceptions similar to descriptions of astral projection that were induced through various hallucinogenic and hypnotic means (including self-hypnosis). There is no scientific evidence that there is a consciousness or soul which is separate from normal neural activity or that one can consciously leave the body and make observations. Claims of scientific evidence of astral projection are pseudoscientific. When in fact, astral projection, could be associated with familiar spirits, that make you think you are leaving the body and visiting other places. Anton LaVey, the founder of the Satanic Bible, often was quoted as saying he travels a lot through this and had sex with many women that he desired by this. All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any. Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. And God hath both raised up the Lord and will also raise up us by his own power. Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of a harlot? God forbid. What? know ye not that he which is joined to a harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body, but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which is God’s.” When men or women decide to have multiple partners, it can send mixed emotional signals to the inside of the body through a sexual connection. Women must be cautious of the spiritual forces polluting their temple. Men are sub planters .. Women are incubators, she receives into her wound, so all that man is and what is motivating him will pass into the womb. So her heart longs for a man that has been out of her life

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What is a soul tie?

The Bible speaks of what is today known as soul ties. In the Bible, it doesn’t use the word soul tie, but it speaks of them when it talks about souls being knit together, becoming one flesh, etc. A soul tie can serve many functions, but in it’s purest form, it ties two souls together in the spiritual realm. Soul ties between married couples draw them together like magnets, while soul ties between fornicators can draw a beaten and abused the woman to the man who is the natural realm she would hate and run from, but instead, she runs to him even though he doesn’t love her, and treats her like dirt. In the demonic world, unholy soul ties can serve as bridges between two people to pass satanic garbage through. I helped a young man not too long ago break free from downright awful visitations from demons, all due to an ungodly soul tie he had with a witch. The man was a Christian, and the only thing that allowed her to send demonic torment his way is through the soul tie. Other soul ties can do things such as allow one person to manipulate and control another person, and the other person is unaware to what is going on or knows what is going on, but for no real reason, allows it to continue.

How soul ties are formed

I believe there are other ways in which soul ties are formed, but here are some that I am aware of. 1. Sexual relations: Godly soul ties are formed when a couple are married (Ephesians 5:31, “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.”), and the Godly soul tie between a husband and the wife that God intended him to have is unbreakable by man (Mark 10:7-9). However, when a person has ungodly sexual relations with another person, an immoral soul tie is then formed (1 Corinthians 6:16, “What? know ye not that he which is joined to a harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.”). This soul tie fragments the soul and is destructive. People who have many past relationships find it very difficult to ‘bond’ or be joined to anybody because their soul is fragmented. 2. Friendships like King David and Jonathan had a right soul tie as a result of a good bond (1 Samuel 18:1.) “And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.”), but lousy soul ties can form from bad relationships as well. Idolizing somebody can cause an evil soul tie. 3. Worship of a celebrity: You can create a soul tie with a star by becoming obsessed with their music. Which explains the strong pull towards certain music that seems almost irresistible. 4. Vows agreements: Vows are known to bind the soul (Numbers 30:2), marriage itself consists of vows and links the two people together (Ephesians 5:31), therefore I have little reason to overlook the concept of promises or commitments as being a means to create a soul tie. 5. Verbal communication through phone calls or internet: In the form of Spiritual adultery which is unfaithfulness to the Most High or your spouse. Spiritually adultery is analogous to the unfaithfulness of one’s spouse: “‘But like a woman faithless to her lover, even so, have you been faithless to me, O house of Israel,’ says the LORD” (Jeremiah 3:20) When a person gives there time to others in intimate talk and time, not necessarily sex but your emotions are with the person. This can happen in these days of Facebook and Online dating services, this is predicated on talking to an individual apart from your spouse on private matters. The positive effect of a soul tie: In a godly marriage, God links the two together, and the Bible tells us that they become one flesh. As a result of them becoming one flesh, it binds them together, and they will uniquely cleave onto one another. The purpose of this cleaving is to build a very healthy, active, and close relationship between a man and a woman. “And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh.” Matthew 19:5, KJV The negative effect of a soul tie: Soul ties can also be used for the devil’s advantage. Soul ties formed from sex outside of marriage causes a person to become defiled: “And the Babylonians came to her into the bed of love, and they defiled her with their whoredom, and she was polluted with them.” Ezekiel 23:17 KJV Demonic connection with soul ties. Demonic spirits can also take advantage of ungodly soul ties and use them to transfer spirits from one person to another.

My conversation with Dr Samuel Okoro, a clinical psychologist
Q: What can you tell me about soul ties? Dr. Okoro: They are transferred from physical to spiritual. A woman becomes one with the man she has sex with. This famous quote is so factual when it comes to having sexual intercourse, “When you sleep with someone you are sleeping with everyone they slept with,” so your emotion are tired together with sex. Q: Anything else you want to add about soul ties? Dr. Okoro: I remember one young woman I led through a deliverance as an elder; she was facing severe demonic visitations and torment all thanks to an ungodly soul tie. I led her to broke the soul tie, and the attacks stopped completely! She had to renounce that man that she gave her body too. Soul ties have their share of memories and feelings attached to it. In the book “ Deliverance from Incubus & Succubus: Sex Demons of the Night” by Apostle Gedeon Landu uncovers the spirits of Incubus & the Succubus demons that have sex with people as they sleep. He states that the demon says, “No, I’m not going, she’s my wife..” or “He’s my husband.” This demonstrates their possessive nature over the soul of the victim, and the strength of the covenant established through sex. Incubus and succubus are not usually willing to let go of their victim, because that covenant is binding through the access they are given” The worship of our bodies is energy-seeping. The act of worship allows the person that penetrates you enslave you emotionally for it weakens them as you become one as in a marriage. Interview with Mya, a tax attorney Q: What was your experience with soul ties? Mya: I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years, this guy was the first man I have sex with. During the time of the relationship, he repeatedly beat me, cheated on me, and abandoned me many times. I could not for my life shake this guy loose, although, he treated me like shit. Q: How did you break loose from him? Mya: I repented from sleeping with him outside a commitment of marriage, developed a real relationship with Christ, and I moved out of the apartment we shared into an apartment 100 miles away. Through time I was set free totally. Ran into him years later and I had no feelings for him. And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. Mark 10:8 KJV Bible The term “one flesh” comes from the Genesis account of the creation of Eve. Genesis 2:21-24 describes the process by which God created Eve from a rib taken from Adam’s side as he slept. Adam recognized that Eve was part of him—they were, in fact, “one flesh.” The term “one flesh” means that just as our bodies are one whole entity and cannot be divided into pieces and still be a whole, so God intended it to be with the marital relationship between man and woman. There are no longer two entities (two individuals), but now there is one entity (a married couple). This will make you think twice before opening your legs for every Mark, David, and Shaun… DNA From Sperm Of Ex-Partners Lingers In Female Flies And Influences The Genetics Of Her Offspring by Dana Dovey on medicaldaily.com states that “Researchers found out that any man that has unprotected sex will permanently leave his DNA to his partner’s body after ejaculation. the semen which released thru ejaculation contains lymphocytes that will pass through the woman’s bloodstream and will definitely stay her organs. It has been proven through blood samples from various body parts and brain tissue in women where they have detected the presence of – This Male DNA can stay in a woman’s body for decades. So, when a woman and man have a child with her present husband, it is possible that traces of the man she slept with previously will still be in her body.” When you have sex with others, you develop what you call a “Soul Tie” with the individual through the confines of marriage. A soul tie is a bond of souls of two people that have sex through that union it links their mind, will, and emotions into their soulish realm together, which can bring forth both beneficial results or negative results. In a godly marriage, as we marry, we have sought that marries us together, linking us together through that action. As a result, we become one flesh, we cleave to each other, we become closer, more intimate, and in the eyes of the Most High we are married in the spirit, soul to soul. “And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh.” Matthew 19:5 KJV How to break a soul tie? 1. Repent of all sins (Turn away from the sins) change your mind. 2. Renounce the covenant created with the person/an or persons 4. Give back any gifts that link you to the person/and or persons. 5. Fast Now pray this prayer verbally for deliverance Heavenly Father. God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. Forgive me for my sins. I renounce and break myself from an ungodly soul tie or satanic bondage, knowing or unknowingly formed between myself and ________ you say whatever we bound on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever we loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. I bound the soul tie. In the Savior’s name. Amen
Masturbation

The blood rushes to your face and lower region as your eyes are scorching through her or his clothing. No one is there just you and your computer screen – Envisioning your lust, those images of that naked body stimulating your senses as you move into ecstasy and spill your seed. Learn here why there is no excuse to claim to be a child of the Most High and masturbate at the same time.

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My interview with D-Jay
Q: How long did you masturbate? Did you masturbate while you were married?

D-Jay: Since I was a teenager yes I had a porn addiction so I masturbated all day long.

Q: How has the act affected your life?

D-Jay: It destroyed my marriage it ended. I made my wife watch porn with me and do all kinds of ungodly things.

Q: How did you get delivered?

D-Jay: When I met you a few years back you revealed to me the truth and that set my thinking free.

Q: What advice would you give to someone struggling with this sin?

D-Jay: Fast and seek the creator for deliverance. Watching porn and masturbation will destroy your life.

My interview with Frederick Jenkins

Q: What is your experience with masturbation?

Frederick: It is like living a fantasy when you have the porn element with it. It is like making love with the beautiful woman that never gets tired that is perfect all the time. It gives you a false sense of gratification. It doesn’t last, and when you wake up, you feel guilty. I even stating sucking myself off for pleasure.

Q: When did you start masturbating and how did you stop?

Frederick: I was molested when I was 6, it started then. I know that there was a demonic presence with me from that point on. Now I am 50, and how I broke out of that funk. I prayed and did some fasting. It was not easy. Every time I took a shower, I had to take a cold one because that was when I masturbated. I have not masturbated in 10 years now. A lot of people are under the illusion that masturbation is referenced in the story of Onan who spilled his seed on the ground instead of fathering a child like he was told with his dead brother’s wife, but it has no relation at all with masturbation.

Genesis 38:8-10 KJV And Judah said unto Onan, Go in unto thy brother’s wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy brother. And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother’s wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the Lord: wherefore he slew him also.

There is really nothing in the bible that talks about masturbation but the principles of lust are clearly stated in the Scripture, but the Savior states in Matthew 5:28 KJV,

But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

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In 1 Thessalonians 4: 3-5 KJV, Apostle Paul states that we should, For this is the will of the Most High, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not the Most High. Sex is a powerful thing, and just say a man finds a way to please himself, that denotes the chase of finding or winning the affection of a woman in marriage to please those urges which takes away the sanctification of the marital union. It feeds the carnality of the flesh. Beware and not feed your flesh.

Steps to be delivered from masturbation:
1. Fast
2. Pray
3. Stop watching porn
4. Better to marry than to burn
5. Get in the word.

 “For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit.”  Proverbs 23:27

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My interview with a 39 year old white woman, who wants to remain anonymous. She reveals the secrets on how she seduces men for a living.

——-Question: So in what ways have you seduced men?——-

1. I Praise them.

I tell them what they want to hear about themselves. Oh, baby, you are wonderful Your manhood is big etc.… The Bible says,  With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him — Proverbs 7: 21 KJV

2. I chase them.

I buy them gifts I go see them unannounced. Be very present in their day to day operations Call them many times during the day or night. I keep them for their girlfriends and wives. Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner. Proverbs 7:12

3. I become his dream girl

I convince him that I am into his interests If its church, I can be the church girl And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of a harlot, and subtil of heart. Proverbs 7:10

4. I will seduce him

Put certain scents on my body to entice him I will show him with my body Whatever gets he off I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon. Proverbs 7:17

5. I will play the victim

I will make him fill sorry for me To buy me gifts I will tell him I need money for this and that but really don’t He hath taken a bag of money with him and will come home at the day appointed. Proverbs 7:20

6. I will impress him

I will give him the appearance that I am smart and innocent. Wear fancy clothes to give the illusion of wealth. I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt Proverbs 7:15 KJV.

7. I will lie to him

Tell him what he wants to hear, you know how great he is. How much I love him That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words. Proverbs 7:6

8. I will be his play wife

I will cook for him and give him a bath. Passing through the street near her corner, and he went the way to her house. Proverbs 7:8

9. I will give the illusion that I love the Most High

Tell him to pray for me Let’s study the Bible together

Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death. Proverbs 7:27 KJV In 1 Thessalonians 4:7-8, “God has called us to be holy, not to live impure lives. Anyone who refuses to live by these rules is not disobeying worldly knowledge, the world tell you to lust and sleep around. The true disobeying is in rejecting the laws of the Most High. ” If you currently struggle with lust, it is time to come clean before the Most High and ask for his forgiveness, fast, repent, and live a holy life set apart from sin.

My conversation with Melvin Burch, Author of “Book of Poems: Esoterically Written”

Q: How does a man overcome lust?

Melvin: “Lust will always be there. To overcome it is to deny yourself totally” All scriptures are from the KJV of the Bible: 1 John 2:16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father but is of the world. John 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world. Luke 9:23 And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me. If Christ overcame the world, then we can follow his footsteps.

Q: What would you tell black men about being men?

Melvin: The Bible tells us that Men have to step up and become the head again. Everything is reverse these days. The woman has stepped up into pastoral positions of authority. Ezekiel 34:31 And ye my flock, the flock of my pasture, are men, and I am your God, saith the Lord God. Luke 12:48 But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more. We have a job to do. We Have to be more involved with our kids and not be baby daddies. This is a hard thing to teach in these days because we have the court system in the middle.

Confessions of a lustful man….

A child hood friend of mine, very lustful man posted this under one of my photos.

He wrote…

“I stood immobilized at your entrance in the room paralyzed by your beauty and the sweet anticipation of your body cleaving to mine. It is so Hard to averted my eyes elsewhere from your beauty just thinking the way those taught strings over your shoulders are holding, cradling the soft and supple milk mounds like a frustrated hammock, suspending with care and desire, the round, jiggling way they sway as you move, unable to escape from the modest black dress as it confines them. Your small and taut waist, curvy backside and legs that went on forever.  Your body is perfection literally to die for.  Your big mesmerizing eyes, your long dark mane was loose and wild with several strands framing her face. At that moment,  I silently vowed I would worship the ground you walk on.”

Did you know that LUST was an open doorway into the spirit realm? Not only that: it’s a one way door, meaning that whatever lies on the other side of that door has permission to enter your life by the simple act of you lusting after it. The spirit realm is a very real inter-dimensional world that exists right alongside our three dimensional world of reality. To keep it simple, let’s just say it’s an extra layer of a deeper reality that we all swim in daily. Most just do so unaware. When the Messiah warned us not to lust after women, it had a deeper purpose than just stopping men from being “poon” hounds. He was actually showing you how to keep yourself from being invaded by one of these foul spirits of lust. Your lust is the open invitation and legal grounds for these spirits of lust to enter you and control your life to enslave you to that lust.  That lust will utterly consume your life. Turn your eyes away my brother; look to the east where thy help comes from — Michael Sanders

Incubus/Succubus Demons 
Known as the night terrors, husband and wife spirits, and marine spirits.

Charlie as he stepped into the shower, he remembered the night before…
Well past midnight, Charlie awaken, still caught by sleep and consciousness. He felt a presence on top of him, the presence held his mouth closed. He could see nothing but he knew something was there to pleasure his body. He began to shoot out to the Most High to help him move, but to no avail, the presence stayed with him for a least a few minutes then he was pleased and felt violated.
Throughout the day he wondered what had happened to him the night before…
Caught between sleep and consciousness, this encounter has only happened to me a few times, the last time in particular was last year. In a dream, after reaching for a pillow that falls from my bed, something grabbed me, was on top of me – I couldn‘t speak or move. I didn’t see anything. I called on the name of the Most High and it left after a few seconds. I felt violated and confused, nevertheless, I woke up. (True Story) I have experienced Night Paralyze, like many people all over the world. What I found helped was to is to anoint your bed and yourself with anointing oil.
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Often called night paralyze, night terrors, succubus, husband or wife spirits, and night stalkers. There are hordes of human beings who are afflicted with various degrees of problems in their waking life because they have had a sexual encounter or more in their dream with a spirit spouse. This phenomenon, depending on the degree of attack, is known by several names including sleep paralysis and night terror, which results from the unwanted visit by spirit entities known generally as night visitors or better yet, Incubus and the Succubus aka Sex demons. Frequently, the people involved in such spiritual, sexual encounters and relationships or marriages are not even aware they have been violating by a sex demon. These spirits are introduced in my masturbation but not in all cases like mine, for example. More often than not, it turns out that the Incubus (Male sex demon) or the Succubus (Female sex demon) was actually ‘invited,’ though unknowingly and indirectly, by the victim through careless daily, yet spiritual, habits and ignorance. Now, at this point, I’d like to point your attention to specific issues of interest aimed at quickly getting to the root of the night terror the paralyzes spirit that wants nothing better than to use your body sexually by sexual encounters in your dream. One of the various things that attract a spirit husband or spirit wife to a human being is ‘sexual appeal’ as in sleeping naked, or some attacks can be the result of astral projection.

The Holy Bible states that in the biblical days of Noah, that even the Angels of God in Heaven couldn’t resist the beauty of human maidens on earth as they came down to choose wives for themselves. Read the interesting story in the book of Genesis, chapter 6 and the book of Enoch. “There were giants in the earth in those days; and also after that, when the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.” Genesis 6:4 Most of the information we have about the Watchers and their activities come from the Book of Enoch. Praying, anointing your bed with oil, and fasting will send the incubus and succubus demons away.

How to break free from the succubus/incubus demons:
1. Fast
2. Prayer
3. Repent of all sins
4. Put anointing oil on you and your bed.

Sex is a form of worship in a marriage. It is a beautiful thing the Most High gave mankind to enjoy the bonds of marriage. All SEX without marriage is unlawful. So think about it the next time you want to hop into bed with someone that you are not married too, you are wrong for that Ladies and Gentlemen.

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“Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” Hebrews 13:4 KJV

My conversation with Melvin Burch, Author of “Book of Poems: Esoterically Written”

Q: How does a man overcome lust?

Melvin: “Lust will always be there. To overcome it is to deny yourself totally” All scriptures are from the KJV of the Bible: 1 John 2:16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father but is of the world. John 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world. Luke 9:23 And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me. If Christ overcame the world then we can follow in his footsteps.

Q: What would you tell black men about being men?

Melvin: The Bible tells us that Men have to step up and become the head again. Everything is reverse these days. The woman has stepped up into pastoral positions of authority. Ezekiel 34:31 And ye my flock, the flock of my pasture, are men, and I am your God, saith the Lord God. Luke 12:48 But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more. We have a job to do. We Have to be more involved with our kids and not be baby daddies. This is a hard thing to teach in these days because we have the court system in the middle.
Repent of all of your sins! Ask for forgiveness.
 

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9 KJV

 
Fast
 
Howbeit this kind goeth not out but by prayer and fasting. Matthew 17:21 KJV
Pray this prayer for deliverance:
My Heavenly Father,
I praise you. I worship you. I glorify your name.
I renounce all sin in my life. Forgive for my sins. I denounce the spirits of sexual immorality, homosexuality, fornication, adultery and any alters built, soul ties, or covenant agreements with any dark spirits or demons. I thank you, I praise you and worship you and you only.
I pray this in the name of the Messiah, your son, the Savior of this world. Amen.
Go and sin no more…
The answer is to repent of your sins, seek the Most High God of Israel, and keep His commandments.

“Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.” Ecclesiastes 12:13 KJV

Dilemma 48 – "Singleness"

 

1. Being Single is a gift from the Most High.

I spend my day looking to the hills in which my help comes from. I can worship with full attention and clarity… Only concerned with the things of the Most High God of Israel… So much of our society is inoculated that being single is terrible when indeed it’s a gift.  The Savior says it is right “for those to whom it has been given” (Matthew 19:11 KJV). But there is a gift or singleness, only you can determine if you possess it. Some may be lonely, while others can entertain themselves. Some long for affection while others don’t need it. Apostle Paul speaks of it as a gift. (1 Corinthians 7:7 KJV)Marriage is a gift to most, and so is being single. Pray to the Most High for what you want. Be content in whatever state you are in, you are there for a purpose. So rejoice and be happy in that state.

Emmanuel Sdi speaks on being single,

“I love being single. I get to spend all my time with the Most High. No pressure, just sheer happiness.”

2. Being Single has its virtues.

I can do the Most High business whatever, and whenever he requires me to do it that is a virtue… In the new testament Apostle, Paul mentions two advantages of singleness in 1 Corinthians 7 KJV. Single people are spared the “troubles” of marriage. In marriage there are many troubles, you have to be concerned about the other person. It can’t be taken lightly because what the Most High joins together will stay together. So you have the task of wanting on the Most High to bring you a mate suitable for you.  Single people can devote themselves more fully to the Most High’s work.  “An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife—and his interests are divided” He or She can worship anytime they like and drop everything to do the work of the Most High (1 Cor. 7:32-34).

Lena Garth speaks on being single,

“I don’t envy those married people having to deal with each other problems. Please each other daily. Dealing with children. I can just come and go as I please. Doing my mission work is much easy, and if I were married, it would be harder, I imagine.”

3. Being Single is problematic.

It is not suitable for man to be alone… Will lust consume you, shackle your soul, cause you to masturbate, or fornicate? When the Most High saw Adam in the garden busy, he said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him” (Genesis 2:18). So Eve was created to meet Adam’s need for companionship, and the two came together in the lifelong, sexual relationship of marriage. Although the New Testament is positive about singleness, there’s no doubt marriage is regarded as the norm. The society promotes it as the only acceptable way to go. It is God’s loving gift to humanity and the chief context in which our desire for intimacy is met. Single people are, therefore, likely to struggle with loneliness and sexual temptation. Those struggles are certainly not exclusive to the unmarried, but they are very much a part of the single condition. Some will seek to lessen them by getting married. Others will either choose not to marry or will feel unable to because of their circumstances, personality, or sexual attraction. They are likely to face a lifelong battle with loneliness and sexual temptation. Those two battles are closely related. The lonelier we are, the more likely we are to struggle with sexual fantasy, watch pornography, and fall into sin. We need to be proactive in seeking help in these areas. We aren’t designed to be on our own, and if we aren’t to be married, whether in the short or long term, we should seek to satisfy our need for intimacy in other relationships. That will mean taking the initiative in keeping in close contact with friends and family. And we must be self-disciplined in “fleeing from sexual immorality” (1 Corinthians 6:18). It often helps to have one or two close friends to whom we are accountable in this area. Stay clear of pornography and masturbation, fast, and pray that you don’t fall into temptation.

ZakaYah Banath Yasharahla speaks on being single (not edited)

“To hell with this independent woman, I don’t need no man, do bad all by myself thing…I’m ready to be dependent on my king to lead, guide, protect and provide for me and in turn I will support, help, nurture and love him in his endeavors. Do you know how tiring and debasing it is to have to go out into the world every day as a woman and deal with disrespectful males, harsh work environments, taking orders from other men, and building someone else’s (mostly heathens) wealth when I could be helping my future husband build our empire based on righteous, scriptural principles? Do you know how stressful it is to juggle a career and a household? I’m not trying to win the “Strong Black Woman of the Year” award, I desire to be the feminine, soft, sweet, quiet, nurturing skilled in home economics, family oriented virtuous woman that Yah designed me to be, not no damn superhero, kick a**, lousy b**** like how you see these white women on movies and TV. I just came back from experiencing a few days of what it’s like to be my feminine self, to be the natural nurturer that I am, to be taken care of, to be looking out for, to happily serve a man of Yah who deserved to be served as he was busy being about his Fathers business. I didn’t feel degraded or disrespected, I actually felt good about the whole experience. It’s a beautiful thing to serve, to love, to listen, to comfort, to be sweet and caring, to be vulnerable and sensitive as a woman, that’s our nature, and it’s high time to get back to life. I’m tired of having to defend myself from males outside my home, tired of being exposed to their worldly ways, tired of them thinking that all women want to be treated like them (thanks to all the feminists), I’m just tired of it all. I want to be in my element of keeping the home, I want to wake up every day knowing that the work I’m about to do for the rest of the day will be to the glory of the Most High first, and my household second. I want to be able to dress like a modest Hebrew Israelite woman without having to get permission or approval from some heathen at work. I want to be able to keep the laws, statutes, and commandments, the High Holy days, the feasts without having to take time off work or getting approved ahead of time. This is the price a woman pays when she decides she wants to walk in a man’s shoes. Being independent of him and his guidance and headship and I must say that it’s a massive mistake unless she desires to be out in the filthy world dealing with all sorts of unclean spirits and has no desire to be a woman of TMH. Yes, I know many of us HAVE to work because we have no head, or he isn’t making enough money to support the household, but we should all DESIRE to be virtuous keepers at home and modest women of the Most High. I’m praying for the day to come when I can let all the stresses of being “superwoman” go, and I can lay my burdens down and be who I was created to be a helpmeet.”

4. Singleness is undeviating.

The single will marry that is a given.  Others will remain single throughout their lives. But no follower of the Most High is single for eternity. Human marriage reflects the marriage the Most High wants to enjoy with his people forever. The Holy Bible speaks of the Savior as the bridegroom who will one day return to take his bride, the church, to be with him in the perfect new world. At this time, all pain and suffering will cease. The Most High will dry the eyes His chosen people. That day will be awesome to bask in His glory, the lamb of the Most High has come, and we shall reign with Him forever. (Revelations 7:17.)

Samuel Geitz speaks on being single, 

“I look forward to getting married, but at 40 it seems so hard to find someone in the truth. I pray that I will experience married before I die. Pray for me to find my Sarah.”

The “Six Commandments” for Single Women
1. Seek the Most High… the bible is your blueprint for life.
You have to study to show thyself approved. Majority of your time should be spent in the Bible.
2. Stay in your parents’ house until you get married.
Our ancestor’s daughter proudly stayed with Daddy and Mommy, this gives you a sense of protection being in your father’s home.
3. Don’t listen to the man that says, “The Most High told me that you would be my wife.”
I experienced this after my husband died., numerous men coming out of nowhere, and some I knew personally speaking those words to me. They all were liars. As I began to pray, the Most High revealed all to me. Now one guy told me that the Most High said, “That is your wife go get her.” This guy had never seen me before, but he turned out to be mentally insane, a liar, lacked integrity, don’t keep the Sabbath, etc.… Be meticulous ladies and gentlemen. Always take everything to the Most High in prayer concerning these men an women. The Most High will reveal all to you.
4. Keep your body healthy.
Eat lots of fruits and vegetables for a healthy body and mind.
5. Dress modest – Cover your body parts.
This avoids unwanted attention from men. You don’t want to cause them to lust after you.
6. Stay a virgin until marriage.
No one deserves your body other than your husband.

The answer is to repent of your sins, seek the Most High God of Israel, and keep His commandments.

“Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.” Ecclesiastes 12:13 KJV

Dilemma 9 – "Vanity"

She hopes that when she walks into a room that every eye is on her. She stalks her prey intently. She desires to be the most beautiful woman in the room. Her desire is for the world to feed her insecurity. Longs for every guy to get off on her beauty that’s why she exposes her body parts. She wants to be valued, adored, and loved at any cost. She seeks out individuals that will worship her like a goddess. She has an unnatural sense of self importance. Requires excessive admiration and attention. She is arrogant and Haughty. Takes advantage of others kindness. Fantasies about being the person with unlimited admiration. She purchases costly attire, name brands items and accessories to be admired. Has a unnatural sense of self entitlement. Her beauty is mystifying in a demonic sort of way. Her eyes a full with lust and desire. Most men are snared into her trap of sin. People often worship the ground she walks on. She wants the world to bow down to her very existence. And her name is VANITY.

 
Truthfully, how does a black woman fare in this beauty-paranoid urbanity?

The Daughters of Zion are now becoming “mature“ in the ways of the Most High. While others still marvel at the relics of being that symbol of beauty. You can see how this narcissism explodes the life nock of your existence. You gaze that image of beauty still stuck in your eyes, as you gaze from picture to picture wondering when it will be your chance, to imitate the greek god of narcissus, who tragically fell in love with the sight of his reflection, not realizing it was his own image in the water. Or the likes of Oscar Wilde’s depiction of the portrait “Dorian Gray” wish that he would never grow old but his soul was lost. Like most women that mere obsession into this filtered beauty showcased on the internet. The fascination with being beautiful has gone from desire to obsession. The biggest devil of them all, Satan – Lucifer was cast out of heaven because of pride in his beauty, after all, it was said he was the most beautiful of them all. Son of man, take up a lamentation upon the king of Tyrus, and say unto him, Thus saith the Lord GOD; Thou sealest up the sum, full of wisdom, and perfect in beauty. Thou hast been in Eden the garden of God; every precious stone was thy covering, the sardius, topaz, and the diamond, the beryl, the onyx, and the jasper, the sapphire, the emerald, and the carbuncle, and gold: the workmanship of thy tabrets and of thy pipes was prepared in thee in the day that thou wast created. Thou art the anointed cherub that covereth; and I have set thee so: thou wast upon the holy mountain of God; thou hast walked up and down in the midst of the stones of fire. Thou wast perfect in thy ways from the day that thou wast created, till iniquity was found in thee. Ezekiel 28:12 KJV Beauty isn’t everything it’s the only thing so we are told. To be a recipient of beauty many would envy, kill, starve to death, stuff, tuck, or even sale their soul to the devil to look like me boasts the neon demon of Vanity., the god of pride, narcissism, self-importance, conceit, arrogance, egotism, worthlessness, presumptuous, and bigheadedness. It is safe to say that every woman wants to possess what she has. By the time I was 10 years old, I had heard an eruption of phrases that solidified me as being “beautiful“ or “pretty”, numerous times, being declared as such at this young age, it became embedded in my psyche. For young girls out there it is much better to learn to be smart or learn what it takes to develop your character. The character thing is something I learned much later but on the other hand, I was always smart and intrigued by knowledge. I often found myself, in that trap of consciously trying to impress people. Always concerned if they liked me or not. Bought them gifts to achieve lasting friendship but to my dismay they still envied me or hated me. If wasn’t until I came into the knowledge of the truth (about who I am and who the Most High is to me) about 5 years ago, that I realize that I hadn’t really been myself this whole time, the reflection in the mirror was in fact, “The Neon Demon: Vanity” and that was a huge wakeup call. You see this image of beauty that had men drooling and panting wasn’t really me. Eccentrically, I felt his eyes on me; almost boring a hole in my flesh, our eyes met. I thought to myself, “Another man beguiled by my physical attributes.” It actually made me happy to see his jaws-drop knowing that he would never have me. I am not that kind of girl to sleep with any man until marriage but I must admit that my fun came with him just looking at me. Here he comes, what will it be this time am I beautiful or sexy. Not knowing subconsciously that I was causing a man to lust by my attire, it was like a game to me. I loved the attention I got. My attire consist of long fitted dresses with a split down the side that classy but sexy edginess. The truth of the matter is that if a man notices a woman and finds her attractive, even in a sexual way, with all her clothes on. Then it is not the woman’s fault she is gazing on her beauty, but if she purposely sets out to cause him to lust after her beauty then it is an iniquity, and then with the action of sex it becomes sin.After I arise every morning, I drop to my knees and raise my hands giving all Praise to my Abba Father while torn between a desire to awaken the world to the knowledge of the Most High God and enjoy my life. The lighting is always perfect when I am in front of the mirror. It’s hard to resist not to stare at me while being grateful that I made it another day. My thoughts reflect on how good the Most High is and this internal change He has taken mine through. The selfless love that overwhelms my spirit, my soul, and my body. I look at me and think about how I was created in HIS image and likeness. The world around me has changed, and especially my thoughts on physical beauty. Beauty isn’t everything; it’s the only thing, so we are told. To be a recipient of grace many would envy, kill, starve to death, stuff, tuck, or even sell their soul to the devil to look like me boasts the neon demon of Vanity., the god of pride, narcissism, self-importance, conceit, arrogance, egotism, worthlessness, presumptuous, and pigheadedness. It is safe to say that every woman wants to possess what she has. By the time I was 10 years old, I had heard an eruption of phrases that solidified me as being “beautiful“ or “pretty,” numerous times, being declared as such at this young age, it became embedded in my psyche. For young girls out there, it is much better to learn to be smart or learn what it takes to develop your character. The character thing is something I learned much later, but on the other hand, I was always smart and intrigued by knowledge. I often found myself, in that trap of consciously trying to impress people. Always concerned if they liked me or not. Bought them gifts to achieve lasting friendship, but to my dismay, they still envied me or hated me. If wasn’t until I came into the knowledge of the truth (about who I am and who the Most High is to me) about 5 years ago, that I realize that I hadn’t really been myself this whole time, the reflection in the mirror was in fact, “Vanity” and that was a massive wake up call. You see this image of beauty that had men drooling and panting wasn’t really me.

Eccentrically, I felt his eyes on me; almost boring a hole in my flesh, our eyes met. I thought to myself, “Another man beguiled by my physical attributes.” It actually made me happy to see his jaws-drop knowing that he would never have me. I am not that kind of girl to sleep with any man until marriage but I must admit that my fun came with him just looking at me. Here he comes, what will it be this time am I beautiful or sexy.

Not knowing subconsciously that I was causing a man to lust by my attire, it was like a game to me. I loved the attention I got. My attire consists of long fitted dresses with a split down the side that classy but sexy edginess. The truth of the matter is that if a man notices a woman and finds her attractive, even in a sexual way, with all her clothes on. Then it is not the woman’s fault she is gazing on her beauty, but if she purposely sets out to cause him to lust after her beauty then it is iniquity, and then with the act of sex it becomes sin. So the world tells us to be more beautiful, erogenous and poised while governing your body by the way we sway our hips, exposing our breasts and rear end deliberately in hopes of manipulating men, arousing them sexually with one single glance. Letting other women or even mothers, tell you to wear seducing outfits in hopes of attracting men.

There is much to be said about a woman who can humbly modestly present herself while everything surrounding her in based on how you look. She is bombarded with influences telling her to walk talk look dress and act like a woman with no maker, no guidance, no soul in an ignorant world, a bright light in the darkness! This breed of woman is scarce! But she exists, I am living proof now. If you are a woman that has no shame exposing herself by wearing tight or revealing clothes where your breast, thighs, and even labia (camel toe) can be seen. Please reconsider your spirit and be truthful with yourself about just what you are really doing. Because what we say, do and how we dress affects others, especially those that are younger and more impressionable, all young sisters you should see as your daughters. There is much to be said about a woman that presents yourself in such a way. You have the same body parts every other woman has. A man can quickly get that somewhere else. There is always another female with more to share. What he can’t understand is someone who has that unique personality coupled with the Most High’s character. It is your character that will keep him not your bottom size. If you notice, most women you see with these attributes, have no man with a house full of kids. It is your character that will keep him at the end of the day. Tight jeans, tight dresses, short shorts, and leggings leave nothing to the imagination only reveal the intimate details of your body. These clothing options are the fashion equivalent of too much information. This gratuitous divulgence of assets repels where skin tight clothing or private physical attribute revealers presumably with the hope to entice men. In layman’s terms, you know what you are doing, and the Most High is watching. You will be judge, ladies!

“But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7 KJV

So the world tells us to be more beautiful, erogenous and poised while governing your body by the way we sway our hips, exposing our breasts and rear end deliberately in hopes of manipulating men, arousing them sexually with one single glance. Letting other women or even mothers, tell you to wear seducing outfits in hopes of attracting men. There is much to be said about a woman who can humbly modestly present herself while everything surrounding her in based on how you look. She is bombarded with influences telling her to walk talk look dress and act like a woman with no maker, no guidance, no soul in an ignorant world, a bright light in the darkness! This breed of woman is scarce! But she exists, I am living proof now. If you are a woman that has no shame exposing herself by wearing tight or revealing clothes where your breast, thighs, and even labia (camel toe) can be seen. Please reconsider your spirit and be truthful with yourself about just what you are really doing. Because what we say, do and how we dress affects others, especially those that are younger and more impressionable, all young sisters you should see as your daughters. There is much to be said about a woman that presents yourself in such a way. You have the same body parts every other woman has. A man can quickly get that somewhere else. There is always another female with more to share. What he can’t understand is someone who has that unique personality coupled with the Most High’s character. It is your character that will keep him not your bottom size. If you notice, most women you see with these attributes, have no man with a house full of kids. It is your character that will keep him at the end of the day. Tight jeans, tight dresses, short shorts, and leggings leave nothing to the imagination only reveal the intimate details of your body. These clothing options are the fashion equivalent of too much information. This gratuitous divulgence of assets repels where skin tight clothing or private physical attribute revealers presumably with the hope to entice men. In layman’s terms, you know what you are doing, and the Most High is watching. You will be judge, ladies!

Ecclesiasticus 26:9-12 KJVA 9 The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty(prideful) looks and eyelids. 10 If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty. 11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass(sin) against thee. 12 She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveller when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow. The most High did NOT create our sisters to be bad bitches! But contrarily, to be women that fear the most High God and to be ashamed of exposing themselves. Ecclesiasticus 26:25 KJV 25 A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog; but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord.

The “Sexual Objectification” and “The Moral Decay” of the women of color.

A sunny day at the park, I walked and repeatedly pranced over the leaves as they sunbathed beneath my feet, At 9 years old, I was wearing shorts, not to short but I jacked them up higher, leaving my buttocks exposed a little. I was at the park alone that day, I was prancing around as I walk I felt a wind, and then something bizarre happened, all of a sudden, something, maybe an entity that felt like it was trying to enter my body. I resisted, and it blows away like the wind. We live in a spiritual world, a sometimes our actions can invite spirits of sexual perversions to attack us at any age.

My interview with Harold, a Barrister from Canada

Q: So, Harold, what do you think about all the ladies showing their body parts on social media?

Harold: I think they need to re-evaluate what they are putting out there, what message they are sending about themselves – Are you a whore or a lady? For me I prefer the beautiful lady that covers her body leaving something to the imagination like you, for example, you are the epitome of beauty and you always wear a nice dress that accentuates your curves but leaves a lot to the imagination.

Q: Thank you! .. Why do you think about men praise these woman that wear nothing literally?

Harold: A man is going to praise a whore because he is thinking about sex with her, getting that thrill. Men are visual hell we can look but these types of women will be never be taken to meet Momma. Most of the guys that compliment these whorish women are Simps and Captain-save-a hoes. The woman only degrades themselves by the way the dress, it’s not pretty and they will never get a good man. Real talk they will sex you and move to the next one showing her booty. Ladies wake up!

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And let your adorning be — Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. I Peter 3:3-4 King James Version Bible. Don’t let your soul purpose of existence by the way you look! Peace Israel, if you are a sister that has no shame in exposing herself by wearing tight or revealing clothes where your breast, thighs and even labia(camel toe) can be seen. Please reconsider your spirit and be truthful with yourself about just what you are really doing. Because what we say, do and how we dress affects others especially those that are younger and more impressionable, all young sisters you should see as your daughters.

Photo Courtesy of Nathalie Gonzalez

Ecclesiasticus 26:9-12 KJVA 9 The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty(prideful) looks and eyelids. 10 If thy daughter is shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuses herself through overmuch liberty. 11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass(sin) against thee. 12 She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveler when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow. The most High did NOT create our sisters to be bad bitches! But contrarily, to be women that fear the most High God and to be ashamed of exposing themselves. Ecclesiasticus 26:25 KJV 25 A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog, but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord. Titus 2:3-5 KJV 3 The aged women likewise, that they are in behavior as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

The fascination of the body has been around as long as the earth, many want to place it on a pedestal for all to see, acquire it, and lust after it. This was definitely the sad demise of and in the case of South African “Sarah Saartjie Brightman” the Hottentot Venus. For those of you that don’t know was made famous for her curvaceous body, large buttocks that were exhibited as freak show attractions in 19th-century Europe in the early 1800s in England and France then later after her death she was given up to science for study, her private parts were on display in a jar. They call her the “Hottentot Venus” the Europeans were so spellbound by her body structure; it was like nothing they had seen before. She was degraded unto death.

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The counterproductive is the production of our identity we must abort the hyper-sexualized image. Beauty in itself is not something for you to inspire to chase after, you either have it or you don’t so the thought of being so self-absorbed in the way one looks is preposterous leads you into the trap of the lust. Through the era of social media etc. We are inclined to adopt a sexy image and pass it around. We must develop Standard and Modesty about us. Being considered ‘Gorgeous” or “Beautiful” is a lot more conservative than being considered sexy is being and inspiring lust. The joy of the social media high… What would you do without the admiration of the adoring public? Unfortunately Sarah didn’t have a choice but the women are today must be responsible for their own image.
 
Twitter 20 likes – 2400 followers Facebook 2000 likes – 5000 friends Youtube 89,000 likes 1 million followers
Social Media is designed to keep you self absorbed, narcissistic.

Forlornly, I witness an enormous cessation between women around the world where social media sites that promote instant celebrity. The narcissist viewpoint is creating a stifling ecosystem on the internet filled with envy, hatred, insecurity, and cyberbullying. The beauty critics and fashion industry define beauty as impeccable. This fallacy is caused by photoshop, filters, lighting, smoke, and mirrors. Both men and women love this attention, relying on their body parts to grab attention. In the Bible – Sarah, Abraham’s wife, even in old age she was considered beautiful, Joseph, David, Rachel, and Queen Esther, were deemed to be lovely people. Their aesthetics were superb no reference to them being sexy. Ladies you need to think twice about the “oversexed/ ravish me/ come hither” on social media. I mean seriously, What are you trying to do? I know you want a man, but come on, many other women are doing the same things you are such fierce competition all wanting the admiration. Your actions are causing men to fall into lust. A true daughter of Zion wouldn’t cause a man to stumble. You should be ashamed of yourself in tight or revealing clothes where your breast, thighs and even labia (camel toe) can be seen. Please reconsider your spirit and be truthful with yourself about just what you are really doing. Do you want the attention that bad? My worst comment under one of my photographs on Facebook, “My nuts are doing pushups.” Now, this was under a photo where I was completely covered. Another under the same picture, “You can turn heads with your clothes on.” Think about the younger girls that are watching your every action and that will impersonate your activities later on done the line, becoming just another woman with no respect.

Eccentrically, I felt his eyes on me; almost boring a hole in my flesh, our eyes met. I thought to myself, “Another man beguiled by my physical attributes.” It actually made me happy to see his jaws-drop knowing that he would never have me. I am not that kind of girl to sleep with any man until marriage but I must admit that my fun came with him just looking at me. Here he comes, what will it be this time am I beautiful or sexy.

Not knowing subconsciously that I was causing a man to lust by my attire, it was like a game to me. I loved the attention I got. My attire consists of long fitted dresses with a split down the side that classy but sexy edginess. The truth of the matter is that if a man notices a woman and finds her attractive, even in a sexual way, with all her clothes on. Then it is not the woman’s fault she is gazing on her beauty, but if she purposely sets out to cause him to lust after her beauty then it is an iniquity, and then with the act of sex it becomes sin.

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So the world tells us to be more beautiful, erogenous and poised while governing your body by the way we sway our hips, exposing our breasts and rear end deliberately in hopes of manipulating men, arousing them sexually with one single glance. Letting other women or even mothers, tell you to wear seducing outfits in hopes of attracting men. There is much to be said about a woman who can humbly present herself in a modest way while everything surrounding her in based on how you look. She is bombarded with influences telling her to walk talk look dress and act like a woman with no maker, no guidance, no soul in an ignorant world, a bright light in the darkness! This breed of woman is extremely rare! But she exists, I am living proof now. If you are a woman that has no shame exposing herself by wearing tight or revealing clothes where your breast, thighs and even labia (camel toe) can be seen. Please reconsider your spirit and be truthful with yourself about just what you are really doing. Because what we say, do and how we dress affects others especially those that are younger and more impressionable, all young sisters you should see as your daughters. There is much to be said about a woman that presents yourself in such a way. You have the same body parts every other woman has. A man can easily get that somewhere else. There is always another female with more to share. What he can’t get is someone who has that unique personality coupled with the Most High’s character. It is your character that will keep him not your bottom size. If you notice, most women you see with these attributes, have no man with a house full of kids. It is your character that will keep him at the end of the day. Tight jeans, tight dresses, short shorts, and leggings leave nothing to the imagination only reveal the intimate details of your body. These clothing options are fashion equivalent of too much information. This gratuitous divulgence of assets repels where skin tight clothing or private bodily attribute revealers presumably with the hope to entice men. In layman’s terms, you know what you are doing and the Most High is watching. You will be judge ladies!

Ecclesiasticus 26:9-12 KJVA 9 The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty(prideful) looks and eyelids. 10 If thy daughter is shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuses herself through overmuch liberty. 11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass(sin) against thee. 12 She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveler when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow.

Despite it all, I remained a virgin until marriage. Teach your daughters how to dress and keep themselves pure.

The attention whore syndrome. Females certainly aren’t the only ones who can be attention whores, but, whether through sexism or because it truly is more common among females (I think the verdict is definitely still out on that one), this dreadful disorder is most commonly associated with females. Attention whores are a sad breed of female that thrives upon and is therefore in constant, desperate need of attention – particularly of the male variety. It doesn’t matter whether she’s romantically interested in a guy or not, the attention whore wants as much attention from as many people as possible, and is willing to degrade herself in the process. If you’re one of those guys who says, “Well, isn’t that just how girls are?” then don’t bother reading any further. If your opinion of women and expectations of how you should be treated by them are that low, an attention whore is probably all that you deserve.

 
An attention whore is an unhealthy, dysfunctional person who likely did not get what she needed as a child to mature into a secure adult. Just because there are (unfortunately) quite a few of them, doesn’t mean “attention whore” is the natural state of the female. Conversely, just because there are lots of shitty men out there, it doesn’t mean “scumbag” is the natural state of the male. Being roped in by an attention whore will never lead you anywhere right. If she’s not interested in you, the attention whore is capable of leading you on quite mercilessly. And if she is interested in you and you get into a real relationship with her, you’re in for some real hell. While some attention whores are incapable of being physically faithful to just one guy, you better believe that, whether physically or emotionally, she will continuously be carrying on inappropriate relationships with other guys in one way or another. The attention of one man is never enough for this kind of creature, and being in a relationship will hardly slow down her constant care whoring behavior. — Emmanuel Valerio

Seduce him with your love. Entice him with your intellect. Blow his mind with your brilliance. YOU all have the same thing between your legs, but you have got to bring something to the table that the next woman can’t, or won’t, so that you can have what many of them don’t. YOU must be intuitive enough to realize that engaging of the minds leads to marrying of the souls. If the only thing you have to offer is a pretty face, nice body and good sex, you ain’t worth a penny.

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What is it with females taking pictures with their ASS facing the camera? We truly live in a culture of ASS worship. We have a culture of attention whoring creatures who have nothing to offer you but their looks. We are living in a generation where dressing to impress is a thing of the past, and behaving like a whore, twerking, being practically naked all over the internet to show off your assets to the world is the latest and cool trend. No matter how big or small the ASS is, it must be displayed. No matter how big or small the breasts are, they must be out in the open. This culture is disgusting. When you bare it all and leave little to the imagination, best believe no real Man is thinking about bringing you home to the family. When all you care about is your looks, no one will truly care about your personality or your intellect. Stop worshiping your assets and get some self respect. You have a brain, use it! Love and respect yourself to be more than just a another random piece of ASS and a nice body. Don’t just worship your body and it’s parts, love and respect it, be conscious of your body’s message. Be the best you can be without displaying the best that your body can offer. You will get further with a quality man using what’s between your ears (BRAIN), not what between your legs (VAGINA). The quality of man you attract says a lot about you, if you always end up with a bum, the one you need to be checking is yourself. Most of you have shitty decision making skills. Always assuming that you have it going on because many guys are after you, but did you forget that low gas prices ALWAYS attracts a lot of customers? Its about quality, NOT quantity. What you have is perverted minded creatures like yourself chasing whats between you legs, NOT YOU. You keep getting your heart broken because you keep giving the key to your heart to people who only want the security code to your panties. Stop saving a permanent place in your heart for someone who only has something temporary in mind for you. Just because these professional ASS kissers like your looks, doesn’t mean that they respect it. There’s NOTHING honorable about 1,000 flock of bums who are staring at your ass, breast, thighs and duck faces; imagining what they’d do to you in bed. You’re no longer a woman in their eyes, you’re an object, a piece of meat, a vain imagination in the mind of a luster. You want to be sexy and feel beautiful, I get it. But being respected and loved should mean more. Beauty is in modesty, and a real man will NEVER truly love a woman he can’t respect. —-  Emmanuel Valerio

100000 Likes via twitter or facebook… Just because the typical male likes your photos, you know the ones of your cleavage and your bottom. Really there is no respect in looking at or commenting on photos. You’re no longer a woman in their eyes, you’re an object, a piece of meat, a vain imagination in the mind of a lustful man. You want to be sexy and feel beautiful, I get it. But being respected and loved should mean more. Beauty is in modesty, and a real man will NEVER truly love a woman he can’t respect. “Don’t believe the likes”

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A woman of modest attire will always come out on top. Save your booty shots for your husband. The world doesn’t need to see it.


A real woman respects herself, the devaluing that occurs on social media is disturbing. Females with nothing to offer to use their good looks to achieve their agenda, they degrade themselves for attention. These females that show all their body on social media are whores, plain and simple, us men sure we look but these women we will never take them home to meet the family — Aaron.

Let me reveal to you a hidden truth, just because the typical ass kissing guy likes your looks through these social media or in real life, doesn’t mean that he respects it. There’s nothing honorable about 1,000 likes from a flock perverts who are staring at your ass, breast, thighs and pretty faces fully made up; imagining can they get you home and into their beds. You’re no longer a woman in their eyes, you’re an a whore, a thot, a piece of meat or a vain imagination in the mind of a whoremonger. You want to be sexy and feel beautiful, I get it. But being respected and loved should mean more. Beauty is in modesty, and a real man will never truly love a woman he can’t respect. You can accomplish much more with a quality man using your brain, not your vagina. “Don’t believe the likes”. God-fearing men are leaders, they don’t chase booty. A woman doesn’t need to show you her body to prove she’s a woman. Doesn’t need to walk around half-dressed to attract your attention. Doesn’t need to sleep with you to prove her love. Doesn’t need to be loud for you to listen to her voice. Doesn’t need to fight you to reveal her strength. Doesn’t need to argue to prove her education. Doesn’t need to put you down to lift herself up. Doesn’t need to say a word to prove that she’s a woman, but most importantly, a real woman doesn’t need you unbuttoning her shirt to get to her heart. She doesn’t need to open her legs to get appreciation. She does need to drive into that bible like her life depends on it, and her king will come.

In the 1900’s They forced women to strip naked in a zoo for humans, now females do it willingly: Therefore my people are gone into captivity because they have no knowledge: and their honorable men are famished, and their multitude dried up with thirst, Isaiah 5:13 KJV So tired of looking at the black women with the long flip weaves high-end sunglasses,, handbag, jeans, and overpriced stiletto heels. So dull carbon copy of the white women walking on rodeo drive in California. This look is so annoying! — Jackson

The world entices you with the lure of brand names, especially those high-end designer logos like Louis Vuitton and Hermes. It’s not only that the more you care about impressing other people with your appearance, the more likely you will to overspend. In fact, the more focused you are on your own thoughts, feelings, and impressions you make on others, the more you’ll seek outwardly-recognizable status symbols like handbags and overpriced clothing. Being vain is beyond just about looking good to others, but more importantly, about looking good to themselves. It’s a natural high. Social comparison theory, initially proposed by social psychologist Leon Festinger in 1954, centers on the belief that there is a drive within individuals to gain accurate self-evaluations. The theory explains how individuals evaluate their own opinions and abilities by comparing themselves to others in order to reduce uncertainty in these domains, and learn how to define the self. Following the initial theory, research began to focus on social comparison as a way of self-enhancement, introducing the concepts of downward and upward comparisons and expanding the motivations of social comparisons. Downward social comparison is a great coping process because it allows you to view a bad situation by looking at others who are worse off than you (poorer, less attractive, more stressed) and concluding that things aren’t really so bad. Upward social comparison can cause you to berate yourself unnecessarily because you feel that you’re being outdone by your neighbors, comrades, family, co-workers, and instagram-youtube-facebook friends. Your desire to impress people that could care less about, but not realizing that this disorder can promote psychological disorders.

D — Demon
I — Idol
V — Vixen
A — Arrogant
“Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.” Proverbs 16:18 KJV
DIVA NOUN [PLURAL DI·VAS, DI·VE] 1. a distinguished female singer; prima donna.
The Diva hypnotizes men with her beauty.

True Daughters of Zion are now becoming “mature“ in the ways of the Most High. While others still marvel at the relics of being that symbol of beauty. You can see how this narcissism explodes the life nock of your existence. You gaze that image of beauty still stuck in your eyes, as you gaze from picture to picture wondering when it will be your chance, to imitate the Greek god of narcissus, who tragically fell in love with the sight of his reflection, not realizing it was his own image in the water. Or the likes of Oscar Wilde’s depiction of the portrait “Dorian Gray” wish that he would never grow old but his soul was lost. Like most women, that minor obsession with this filtered beauty showcased on the internet. The fascination with being beautiful has gone from a desire to passion. The biggest devil of them all, Satan – Lucifer was cast out of heaven because of pride in his beauty, after all, it was said he was the most beautiful of them all. Son of man, take up a lamentation upon the king of Tyrus, and say unto him, Thus saith the Lord GOD; Thou sealest up the sum, full of wisdom, and perfect in beauty. Thou hast been in Eden the garden of God; every precious stone was thy covering, the sardius, topaz, and the diamond, the beryl, the onyx, and the jasper, the sapphire, the emerald, and the carbuncle, and gold: the workmanship of thy tabrets and of thy pipes was prepared in thee in the day that thou wast created. Thou art the anointed cherub that covereth; and I have set thee so: thou wast upon the holy mountain of God; thou hast walked up and down amid the stones of fire. Thou wast perfect in thy ways from the day that thou wast created, till iniquity was found in thee. Ezekiel 28:12 KJV

The Diva loves to be worshipped as a God.

Long weaved out hair, face full of makeup, revealing clothing and dancing around as she slays the crowds. As women of faith, we must break this idea of being noticed, worshipped, or being categorized as a “DIVA.” A Diva often operates as a diety while practicing magic, soothsaying, and other forms of idolatry and witchcraft in their exertion of power while in the presence of crowds of people. The pandemonium that she usually creates the work of the demon working through her. Every time you step into an arena with a Diva, you are partaking of a level of worship and trust me, it is not the Most High you are worshipping.

Celebrity worship syndrome is an obsessive-addictive disorder in which a person becomes overly involved with the details of a celebrity’s personal life. Psychologists have indicated that though many people obsess over glamorous film, television, sport and pop stars, the only common factor between them is that they are all figures in the public eye. The term Celebrity Worship Syndrome is, in fact, a misnomer.
Turn ye not unto idols, nor make yourselves molten gods: I am the LORD your God. Leviticus 19:4 KJV Thou shalt have no other gods before me. Exodus 20:3 KJV

The Bible even warns us of being haughty, arrogant, or narcissistic in the pursuit of physical beauty – Isaiah 3:16-24 KJV – “Moreover the Lord saith ,Because of the daughters of Zion are haughty, and walk with stretched forth necks and wanton necks and wandering eyes, walking and mincing as they go, and make a tinkling with their feet; Therefore the Lord will smite with a scab the crown of the head of the daughters of Zion, and the Lord will discover their secret parts….In that day the Lord will take away the bravery of their tinkling ornaments about their feet, and their cauls, and their round tires like the moon, the chains, and the bracelets and the mufflers, the bonnets, and the ornaments. But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the HEART. 1 Samuel 16:7 (KJV) Favor is deceitful, and beauty is VAIN: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. – Proverbs 31:30 KJV

If women love to vitiate themselves for attention, just imagine what they’ll do for money. When you present yourself as a erotic entity to a man, of course that’s how his perception of you will be. As a woman, you possess the exact same anatomy as every other woman does. There will always be someone else with a better body. Cajole him with your intellect and virtue. Keep your legs closed and you will be blessed with the quality man you seek.

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You could be like Judith, Queen Esther, Deborah, Sarah, Susanna…. Our matriarchs of the Bible, effective representation of women that loved the Most High in action, words, and deeds. In today’s society, everyone is looking for someone to worship and to follow. Unfortunately, there is a lack of role models in today’s society. Unfortunately, most of the women that man drools other today are witches like most celebrity women that can’t compare to the spiritual sisters of the Bible in looks or deeds. Beauty is more than your outer trapping, it is your character that resembles that of the Most High in action and acts.

The woman of beauty and obedience…

Judith… The account of Judith life could be written in novels, but it’s in the Apocrypha. It is an omen to women like me, you know the widows. No biblical female has ever been endowed with such wanton seduction, suspense, and violence as the beautiful Judith. As the story unfolds, there is a war, a threat to the lively hood of the Israelites. Holofernes, the general of King Nebuchadnezzar, has laid siege to the Israelite town of Bethulia, where Judith resides after her husband died. By the grace and the leading of the Most High God of Israel, Judith knows what she must do to preserve her people. After her beauty ritual, she lives the safety of her home and uses her womanly beautiful to seduce Holofernes, no sex but lowers him to his demise by her mere beauty. She decapitates him with his own sword and carries his bloody head out of the enemy camp in her food bag to display on the walls of Bethulia to her people. Judith is all an inspiration, now that is a woman of beauty and obedience. (Judith, the King James Version Bible with the Apocrypha.)

A woman of power and dignity….

Deborah….I remember some years back, I wanted to do a movie about Judgment, the Most High judgment on the world and sin via the lives of a few people. When I think of Judges, I think of Deborah, the righteous judges. Full of charisma and she was a prophet, adjudicating disputes of the people of that time. You know the Most High gave her a task to judge Israel. Her life focused on her military conquests. Judges Chapter 3, KJV Bible, focuses on her life. Deborah and her general Barak lead the Israelite army in a battle against the Canaanite king Jabin and his general Sisera. Definitely a ride or die chick. Now that’s a sister to write about… a woman of dignity and power!

The most beautiful woman in the world…

When I think of the Matriarch of woman, I think of Sarah, wife of Abraham, the grandfather of Jacob, who is the father of the 12 tribes of Israel. I often refer to myself as one of Sarah’s daughters. All Israelite women should aspire to be more like Sarah. Oh, and the beauty of Sarah is beyond compare. That even at an old age, she was still beautiful enough to catch the attention of the Pharaoh. Abraham esteemed Sarah highly in terms of beauty. As recording in Genesis 12 KJV Bible, the account of Abraham, where he stated that Sarah was his sister, for fear of the Pharoah killing him, to have Sarah… so he lied and claimed that she was his sister. So for all of you women that esteem yourselves, beautiful, think of Sarah, she was the real thing… The most beautiful woman in the world.

A woman of beauty and integrity….

Unfortunately, I can relate to dear sister Susanna, who was accused of having sex with two men. The men lied, their lust got the best of them. I have been charged with having sex with men I didn’t even know, but everyone around me knows I was a virgin, saving myself for marriage. That doesn’t stop the liars, the ones that want to smear your right name. Just as the Most High sent Daniel to prove the innocence of Susanna, he set others to come to my defense. Susanna’s story… on a sizzling day, sweating like a hot popsicle, Susanna decides to bath, she believes she is alone, but was being watched by two lusty voyeurs, who approach her than threatens to lie on her if she doesn’t act on their advances for sex. She chooses not to, and they lie on her. The Most High raises Daniel to help on the defense of Susanna, a woman of integrity. The Story of Susanna is chronicled in the Apocrypha. Such a woman of integrity and beauty…

A chosen woman of destiny….

I could just say that this is the mother of our Savior, the Messiah period. Enough said, but hey she is remarkable for being Chosen to carry such a phenomenon. She is written about in the New Testament of the King James Version Bible. She is a model of discipleship and motherhood. Such a woman of destiny. Just like these daughters of Zion, you too can be a beautiful woman of destiny, integrity, dignity, and obedience. Follow their examples of purity and subjection to the Most High God of Israel. You don’t have to model after the celebrities. The 4 types of women:

Ms. Independent (The Feminist)

The “Independent woman” was first birthed during the Feminist Movement as a way for a woman to have rights and be equal to men. Feminism in the United States began with 19th-century activism in favor of women’s voting rights. It gained speed and notoriety through the 20th and early 21st centuries. In general, feminism’s course led to broader comprehensiveness with regard to race and social class. In 2010, Feminism in parts of the western world has gone through three waves. First-wave feminism was oriented around the station of middle- or upper-class white women and involved suffrage and political equality. Second-wave feminism attempted to further combat social and cultural inequalities. Third-wave feminism is continuing to address the financial, social and cultural inequalities and includes renewed campaigning for greater influence of women in politics and media. In reaction to political activism, feminists have also had to maintain focus on women’s reproductive rights, such as the right to abortion. Feminism was created for population control, in fact, it is evil, its premise is to set the woman against the men to separate the family. See (Chapter 11) the objective of planned parenthood.

This movement lead to women exerting themselves other men, birthing the term “I don’t need a man.”

“For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king.” 1 Samuel 15:23 KJV

The independent woman is taught that she doesn’t need a man, when in fact she does. They are taught to hate men and their authority, their position as the head of the household. When protection and provision are absent it all goes bad. Are men really to blame for everything. Sure as young girls if no father figure is present, a girl for having no example to look to as to what a real man is. The mothers never taught their daughters to respect men. In reality, we need men like we need a toothbrush. Yes, we do. Now before you throw me under the bus, here is why it is the natural vein of what the Most High wanted. The woman is to run the home and teach the children, while the man is the breadwinner. Many will say well that is old fashion or we are not in the stone age anymore. The truth is we were much better when women were homemakers. This is a great need at this day in time. Stay at home moms are often looked upon as lazy, unmotivated, or as dirt. So now a lot of women today feel that they could never be a homemaker, but by God’s grace, you can be that woman, because it is the Most High’s will.

I will, therefore, that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan. 1Timothy 5: 14-15 KJV

Sure there are some instances when the woman must work: She is a widow, a single mother with no husband or the father of her children is nowhere around. In today’s time, most women work because they want the American dream, the Chanel handbags, high dollar cars, the big house… want to look good to the world. But in the process, the marriage falls apart and the children are overlooked. Yes, a lot of the men want their wife to help provide for the family. This has never been the will of the Most High but through sin and being taught lies many people have been lead astray from the original plan. Your husband is to rule over you and you are to obey his authority. The independent woman has no desire to be submissive just to lead. The Most High ordained the man to be the head of the household.

For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body. Ephesians 5:23 KJV

Our matriarch Sarah, submitted to her husband to the point of calling him, Lord. Sarah stood by Abraham, and he had the wealth to take care of her. You didn’t see Sarah, punching a time clock at IBM every morning. She took care of the things pertaining to the home and her children. Working from home is a full-time job with taking care or your children the future leaders of the world, homeschooling, chores of keeping her house clean, and preparing meals. So a housewife is not to be looked upon as a bad thing. It is the most honorable job you can ever have. The independent woman is a worldly perspective is not a biblical woman is honorable in the Most High’s eyes. The Most High commands every mother to love her children and her husband. To be a comfort to her husband and not a rottenness of his bones.

Ask yourself, “Where are your children, and what are they doing?”
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Our matriarch, Sarah, submitted to her husband to the point of calling him, Lord. Sarah stood by Abraham, and he had the wealth to take care of her. You didn’t see Sarah, punching a time clock at IBM every morning. She took care of the things about the home and her children. Working from home is a full-time job with taking care or your children the future leaders of the world, homeschooling, chores of keeping her house clean, and preparing meals. So a housewife is not to be looked upon as a bad thing. It is the most relevant job you can ever have. The independent woman is a strategic perspective is not a biblical woman is honorable in the Most High’s eyes. The Most High commands every mother to love her children and her husband. To be a comfort to her husband and not rottenness of his bones. Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. —1st Peter 3:6 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.—1st Corinthians 11:9 Ms. Stay at home Mom (The nurturer) The World says, “Stop living in your husband’s shadow.” or “This is old fashioned.” The Holy Bible says, “I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan.” 1Timothy 5: 14-15 The subject of stay-at-home moms is one that has caused much controversy, especially in Western nations, where many women work outside the home. There really are only two direct verses/passages that talk about a mother staying at home with her children. Titus 2:3-5 says, “Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.” The other direct verse is 1 Timothy 5:14, which says, “So I counsel younger widows to marry, to have children, to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander.” Another translation for the phrase “to be busy at home” in the Titus 2 passage is “to be keepers at home.” I looked on child rearing not only as a work of love and duty but as a profession that was entirely as interesting and challenging as any honorable profession in the world and one that demanded the best that I could bring to it. —-Rose Kennedy Also, consider some indirect verses. Proverbs 14:1 states that it is wise for a woman to invest in her home. While it is not necessary to be a stay-at-home mom to invest in your home, we see the priority that God places on the house and the woman’s involvement. Clearly, the home is not to be neglected for the sake of outside employment. Deuteronomy 6:4-9 teaches the importance of continually teaching our children. Of course, this is addressed to fathers as well as mothers. Staying at home with children would only give more opportunities to teach children God’s ways. So it is a positive investment to be made in children’s lives by applying this passage of Scripture literally. I have experience being a working woman and a stay at home, Mom. The world says, “Stop living in your husband’s shadow, sadly that most of these people that make these statements are incredibly naïve and unlearned. They give the stay at home mom, the scarlet letter, esteem her as being lazy or not motivated. The greatest gift you can give your child is you. The Most High never said to have others raise your children. He gave that commission to you. I thank the Most High that my late husband stressed the importance of me being at home for him and my son. It was at this time that I came into the truth. It was a fulfillment that I never experienced being a writer or a spokesmodel. Seeing my baby transform from a baby to a boy, those are the most relevant years its priceless. I would have missed so much if I had worked that whole time. In the western world, so many strive to get that dream of success. It funny that when we die, it will not matter the level of success that we achieved. I can own all the designer handbags, clothes, and shoes. Your draws maybe are filled with all the latest eye shadow palettes. In the garage of your expensive home you may have a fleet of exotic automobiles but the truth behind, the love of material things is that they don’t make you happy. It is thrilling for the moment, but once you wear or use them, the thrill is gone. It is only when we discover who we are in the Most High, that the entire puzzle comes together and you realize that nothing else matters. You began to see the whole picture. The Proverbs 31 woman…Her family never lacked anything. She maintained a proper balance, so her family never suffered. Her family was always her priority. While the Bible leaves women the choice whether to stay at home with the children or go to work outside the home, it certainly is a commendable thing for a mother to be at home with the children and devote herself to training them full time. Women are definitely encouraged in Titus 2 and 1 Timothy 5 to stay at home with their young children. Whatever a woman chooses to work or not, she must maintain her home as a priority and her primary sphere of influence. Ms. Beauty Queen Here she is Miss America… Miss Universe… Miss World… Miss Ultimate Beauty (that was me)… Let’s face it… We all know one!… But hey, that is not what I am talking about at this time. Thine heart was lifted up because of thy beauty, thou hast corrupted thy wisdom because of thy brightness: I will cast thee to the ground, I will lay thee before kings, that they may behold thee. Ezekiel 28:17 “Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.” Proverbs 31:30  In this world, there are many types of women, and the one in question is the Beauty Queen. The average run of the mill, next door neighbor, youtube personality, your relative, or the model on the cover of the magazine. The gorgeous girl that knows her looks affect every aspect of her life, she knows she is lovely and let’s every around her knows that. Her finances are spent on beautification of her physical attributes and not a dime spent on educating herself on the true meaning of her life. She boards narcissism with an ugly, sinister personality. Not many can stand her or be in her presence for long. She comes across as insecure, aloof, and snobbish. She must be the center of attraction everywhere she goes. I know her because, once upon a time, that was me. I must admit that it seems like a whole another lifetime ago. As a child, when times were terrible, I would relish in my beauty. I know that sounds weird but being pretty helped out in the most awkward of instances I faced. I have other pretty women their props, I was never one to be envious of anyone for any reason. I was filled with confidence, I was taught by the best to be the best. To me, I was the best, no one was better. The difference between a Confident woman (Proverbs 31 woman) vs. a Vain woman (ungodly woman) Confident woman captivates those around them in a selfless manner while the Vain woman is about getting all you can to make you visually pleasing with no substance.

Confident Woman

She is a woman of assurance of who she is in the Most High. She walks with her head up because she is Chosen. A woman of great faith. She called her husband Lord and treated him as such. She was a good mother. She kept her family healthy. She had a servant’s heart. She handled the finances of home and purchasing. She doesn’t spend money on frivolous things that will go bad in a year. When she makes purchases, it is to better her household. Her focus is not on her outer beauty but on your inner being.

Vain Woman

I need this in my life, or I need to treat myself as a justification to acquire more stuff…. To look good or fill fulfilled. We think it will make us happy. Handbags, expensive jewelry, fancy cars, or trendy clothes. We give us a sense of entitlement to be esteem as we made it, we’re talented, we have arrived, but the reality is that material possessions don’t really contribute to everlasting happiness. Most people have a desire to impress others. Looking at what the Joneses have and wanting it. Use shopping as an addiction to compensate for our “want to impress” deficiencies. We erroneously look for buoyancy in the fashion that we wear or the automobile that we drive. Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: Matthew 6:19 “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will also be.” 90% of the world’s heart is in the wrong place.

Ms. Harlot

She is a whore. A seductive woman that dresses provocatively to lure men into her bed. Looking proudly in the mirror… “Your breasts are protruding out of your dress, you turn around to smooth the fabric down over your buttocks… “I look good”… so you think, I am sure that I will lure that unsuspecting male into my den of love tonight.” The notion is that this woman’s clothing makes her a harlot, when, in fact, college-educated women to fit into this category as well. It is a mentality of the woman, her thought process. It is what the young people wear, that’s a myth. I think every woman knows before she leaves the house what reaction she will get from the men that cross her path. As a child, older men always conveyed to me, that I want a man to look you into your eyes, not my chest. They also, told me that I was beautiful, and never let a man sweet talk me into sleeping with them when they bring up that point. In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 1st Timothy 2:9 A woman who dresses like a harlot advertises that she lacks good moral character, she wants the attention of the men around. Not knowing that all they want is to get into her panties. The harlot is two-fold because she wants to get in his underwear as well. You will never go home with him to meet his family. Just the other day, I saw a man looking at a girl walking into the store in a bikini, almost cause a 3 car accident. Now that lady knew before she got out of her car, the impact she would make on men. Some women surely want attention at any cost.

There will come a time when your life ends and where will you spend your eternity, will it be in hell, from you luring men into hell with the public exposure of your breasts or maybe even your butt. In “Apocalypse of Paul,” it details the account of women that lead men astray, as in your will be hanging from your eyelids. What a horror. You see, the Most High is not playing with us. The Most High will pass judgment on you. Nothing worse, then being around a woman that is so concerned with the men looking at her, she is wearing super tight jeans or a mini skirt, while her husband is sitting right next to her. Being a decent woman is not just by what you wear but your character, you can have a dress on to your knees but still are promiscuous in action and deed.

The Virtuous Woman

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Authenticity, confidence, strength, honesty, dignity, transparency, meek, peaceful, submissive, and endless creativity. The Virtuous Woman is the gold standard of womanhood. The Proverbs 31 woman.

Although, this woman is extremely rare…. I knew her, she was in the form of a woman I knew named Gavina, who passed away some years ago. Gavina was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen, she was the mother of my fiancé that also passed away sometime before her. What was most striking about Gavina, was her obvious physical beauty but there was something much deeper about her. The way she carried herself, she was exquisitely modest in attire, very meek, humble, and honest. She reverenced her husband, never spoke bad of anyone, was shame faced in the mist of other men. She taught what it is to be a real lady, a virtuous woman. Her influence in my life but for a short time taught me a lot of what I know today. She taught me of destiny and patience, of true love winning over adversity. Most would say that this beloved lady was very unique. I had never met anyone like her. She was the pattern and I was the fabric. These are the attributes she passed on to me:

A woman of great faith. (Proverbs 31: 26) She called her husband Lord and treated him as such. (Proverbs 31: 11- 12) She was a good mother. (Proverbs 31: 28) She kept her family healthy ( Leviticus, 11). She had a servant’s heart. (Proverbs 31: 12) She handled the finances of home and purchasing. (Proverbs 31: 14) She was a homemaker. A Virtuous Woman is a homemaker. She creates an inviting atmosphere of warmth and love for her family and guests. She uses hospitality to minister to those around her (Proverbs 31: 27) She possessed a true Beauty (Proverbs 31: 10)

Brown Beauty Personified

I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvelous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. -Psalms 139:14 We were knit together in our mother’s womb, merely first thought of the Most High, we are Chosen. Our eyes run deep with history, and our skin is marred with different majestic shades of brown melanin. Our hair is wooly as the hair of sheep while dancing as the waves of the black sea. We are royalty, adored, and emulated. We are Chosen.

The Truth. So you have it the truth..

The world standard of beauty was supposed to be us, the Chosen people of the Most High. And this is why there’s a difference between black women conforming to “Eurocentric white Beauty Standards” and white women filtration of the annexation of what is considered beautiful. It is not by chance when a white woman emulates a curly hairstyle, darken her skin, how to apply padding or get injections for fuller lips or her bottom it becomes a fashion trend of the moment, a declaration of some sort. That goes to show you that black people are the trendsetters, they follow us, they like our looks (even though they try to hide this truth.) But what really astonishes me how ignorant and conditioned we are to think that lighter skin or even white skin is equated to the standard of beauty, and that dark skin is considered ugly. Why Mr. Willie Lynch I think they got it. So the world hates us, our color, our hair texture, but most of all, we hate ourselves.

The Sorrow of Kim

Kim says, “I feel for the guy he didn’t compliment my beauty; he didn’t make me feel like a Queen. He often had a wandering eye you always felt the need to compete. He spoke ill of me in front of his friends and his family. He had no job, and I worked to support us both. Sadly, I wasted 10 years of your life waiting for him to love me, to love my hair, my dark skin but most of all, my strength and loyalty to him. He looked at white women a lot always remarked how beautiful they were I often felt insecure in his presence. He raped me often when I didn’t give in to his advances, sometimes he struck and bruised my face then laughed as my mascara dipped down my cheeks. It is hard to believe that a black man would exude hate towards the black woman is they did today in 2017. I am in the truth now, and I know I am better than that! I left him.” Let this testimony be a lesson to the Sisters out there, to wait on your King. The Most High will bring him your way. As we pray for finances, jobs, safety, health, etc. It’s so important to pray for a man that fears the Most High, that worries the Most High, is a strong tower/a leader that will respect and love you as the Savior loved the Church.

“NOT TO BE”
Attributes of a LOUD woman
This is the type of women you should never want to be.
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“Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.” Proverbs 14:1

Belittles in her husband in public, talks down to him, and ignores him. Yells and screams at her children in society. Talks about her husband negatively to others. Initiates contact with by flirting. I don’t need a man. Feminist. Concerned with the man looking at her all the time. Prideful. Narcissist. Enjoys getting high or drunk. Doesn’t keep the commandments Follows the world and not the Most High Unruly and lack meekness “Pride goeth before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” Proverbs 16:18
“TO BE”
Attributes of a MEEK woman
This is the type of women to strive for it is highly favored by the Most High. But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of high price. 1 Peter 3:4
A gentle and submissive spirit. She is more concerned with her relationship with the Most High Respects, her husband Lacks haughtiness and desire for other men. Care for others and her children.

Teach your daughters. As a child, I knew that I was special, everyone around me told me so. I made a decision early on to keep my virginity until marriage. Through this experience, I learned that boys and men had a lot of respect for me, and they did a lot of things for me. I never had to open my legs to win their favor. They showered me with attention, affection, and gifts. Your daughters are a gift that needs to be taught the facts of life, that she is special, who she is in the Most High and her purpose. Teach your daughters.

We need to teach our daughters to distinguish between:
A man who flatters her and a man who compliments her.
— Oh baby you so fine I’ll drink your bath water (wrong)
— You are fearfully and wonderfully made (right)
A man who spends money on her and a man who invests in her.
—I bought you this coat now what you going to give me (wrong)
— I feel the Most High is leading me to give you this (right)
A man who views her as property and a man who sees her correctly.
— you are mine so lay down and give me what I want (wrong)
— you are a virtuous woman (right)
A man who lusts after her and a man who loves her.
— you are wearing those jeans (wrong)
— you are a child of the Most High I love you.(right)
A man who believes he’s a gift to women and a man who thinks she’s a gift to him.
— I can have any women I want, you are blessed to have me (wrong)
— You are bone of my bone flesh of my flesh O daughter of Zion. (right)
And then teach our sons to be that kind of man
. — A man that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing! (right)
Sex, the spiritual Aspect.
Wife – Covering

Harlot – Sex with no covering Are you moaning for Jerry, latching out for no reason at all, longing for a man that has done you wrong? Enough is Enough! Not only is having sex out of the marriage, which is fornication but your developing soul ties while the transfer of energy is real. If you’re always surrounded by interacting with, having sex with pouring feelings & yourself into a person that is not your husband, it will eventually affect you spiritually. When a man enters your womb, unlawfully, you exchange in a ritual. The changing of spirits. You become tied to him in the soulish realm, this domain is only meant for marriage. Know your worth & surround yourself with people the encourage you to do what is right. These people won’t leave you spiritually empty from sexual relationships. He is not worthy of you until marriage. Don’t open yourselves up to the Neon Demon!


With plastic surgery, butt fillers, liposuction, and rhinoplasty on the rise all destinated to change your physical appearance while leaving you empty inside. When will we learn that it is really not our physical appearance that will make us fill complete but knowing who you are to the creator of mankind? Not surprising that the next deadly sickness on the rise in eating disorders…

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According to http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org “Body Image” is how you see yourself when you look in the mirror or when you picture yourself in your mind. It encompasses: What you believe about your own appearance (including your memories, assumptions, and generalizations). How you feel about your body, including your height, shape, and weight. How you sense and control your body as you move. How you feel in your body, not just about your body.

My conversation with Tina, a nutrtionist & a registered nurse.

Q: What has been your experience with eating disorders?

Deborah: I was binging and purging sometimes daily, I suffered from low self-esteem.

Q: So you were diagnosed with bulimia?

Deborah: Yes I had it for 10 years?

Q: What was your turning point?

Deborah: When my 18-year-old daughter started binging too, at that moment I knew the terrible example I was living before her. We both checked into a clinic and got help with prayer now we are free and have been for 10 years now.

Q: Who did you blame for your eating disorder?

Deborah: Society, the images they portray of perfection on ads, television, they made me feel inadequate about the way I look.

I know you have heard this before or have even contemplative it in your mind, “If I could just lose 5 more pounds they world would love me” one in three girls have an eating disorder… But still, in reality, millions of young girls, woman, and some men suffer from eating disorders annually a lot under the 18. These specific eating disorders are often triggered by bouts of depression, distorted body image, or perfectionism itself. The four major eating disorders:

1. Anorexia Nervosa, a voluntary starvation for long periods of time.

2. Bulimia Nervosa, marked by episodes of binge eating excessive amounts of food followed by compensatory behavior such as purging then vomiting or use of laxatives to rid themselves of the food eaten

3. Binge-eating, marked by episodes of out-of-control gorging, similar to Bulimia without the purging.

4. EDNOS, the most dangerous of all 4, it is the combination of Anorexia and Bulimia, each day it takes on one the eating disorders. Females are much more likely than males to develop an eating disorder. Eating disorders are closely related to other psychiatric illnesses such as depression, substance abuse, or anxiety disorders. Also, people who suffer from eating disorders can experience a wide range of physical health complications, including severe heart conditions, teeth enamel erosion, various organ failure including kidney failure, which may lead to death. If eating disorders weren’t enough, many woman and men would resort to cosmetic surgery that gains what they perceive as perfection. Women, both young and old, are taking enormous risks in the pursuit of beauty. Liposuction, Nose Jobs, botox, tummy tucks, breast implants, and bottom augmentation. Who is responsible? The media? The advertisers? They all are trying to sell this image of perfect beauty when, in reality, no one is perfect but a work in progress. We have to ask ourselves, what are we doing? We must be comfortable in our own skin. We are our sister and brother’s keeper, and it starts in the home, the duty of the parents are to teach their children how valuable they are.

Possessing outward Beauty will get you a pass go and collect $ 200. Maintaining inward Beauty will get your soul into the kingdom of the Most High for all eternity.

“We must not allow the beauty of an object to blind us to the horror of its origins, there is poetic grace and heightened pleasure in fashions of conscientious construction.” —- Professor Joshua Katcher, The ethics & Semiotics of the future fashion industry (sustainablestyle.tumblr.com)

I wear high heels for years while enduring pain and foot ice bathes nightly. Its a fact that your Christian Louboutin stilettos or Stuart Weitzman thigh high boots make you look taller, sexier, and more stylish. You may even get catcalls from priests. It is possible that even when you put them on your feel like the cat’s meow. But what is the actual cost of wearing them? The history of high heels can be traced to Egypt, but it wasn’t until the European renaissance came from that put the high heel shoe on the map. It was the men that adorned the first pair, high heels for both men and women wear a status symbol.


The Women of the World, they belittle their husbands, talks down to him, and ignores him Loud and rude Initiates contact with men, touching and kissing I don’t need a man Feminist Concerned with a man looking at her all the time Prideful Narcissist Will use men to buy her gifts Teases a woman with her body Wears provocative clothing Lacks modesty Enjoys getting high or drunk Doesn’t clean the house Stays out all night Spends more money than she earns. Speaks seductively to manipulate men Prideful confidence in her physical beauty Wears makeup to bewitch men Doesn’t keep the commandments Follows the world and not the Most High Wears clothing to entice men Unruly and lack meekness

The Women of the Bible (Proverbs 31:10-31 KJV)  She is a treasure far above rubies Respect her husband Strong integrity and faith Consistently good all the days of her life Manages her home Cooks meals for her family Speaks wisdom and faithful instructions Her children and husband love her She loves the Most High with all her heart, mind, and soul Keeps the commandments and statues of the Most High Prays and Prophesies with a head covering on Stays healthy and keeps your family healthy Helps the poor and needy Does the right thing with the family income She builds up her husband Not considered with fads or characteristics of the world

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The Dangers of high heels

My interview with Dr. Vladimir Q: What are some of the side effects of wearing high heels? Dr. Vladimir: You will experience — Foot and tendon pain Increase the likeness of broken bones or fractures Muscle strain to calve muscles Hammertoes and bunions Blisters Lower back pain Pelvis pain Degenerative joint disease Q: What do you honestly think about women wearing high heels? Dr. Vladimir: I think its sexy and feminine, but it’s a habit woman need to break, it’s really harming their feet. According to the American Osteopathic Association, warns of the dangers of wearing high heels, “From an osteopathic perspective, we’re looking for the body to be centered from head to toe. High heels put the foot at an angle and pull muscles and joints out of alignment, so the effects aren’t limited to the feet,” Dr. Surve explained. “It’s not unusual for people who spend lots of time in high heels to have low back, neck, and shoulder pain because the shoes disrupt the natural form of the body.” The stiletto shoe or high heel was created in honor of the demon named Pan. Those evil spirits inhabit these shoes to make the woman who wears them in the image of Pan. Please note that the walking animal sound echoes from the boots as the woman walks (click cloak), making her animal and human in the spirit of Pan.

The Clackers the sound their stilettos make on the marble lobby – clack clack clack — Devil Wears Prada (movie, 2006)

Being a rustic god- half goat, half human. Pan was a child from Zeus, he is the god of the Wicca religion, he resembles that of the Baphomet, he is worshipped in temples but also in natural settings, usually caves or grottoes such as the one on the north slope of the Acropolis of Athens. Today there are many more demons that are called Pan. Pan is famous for his sexual powers and is often depicted with a phallus. He worships the world over by rock musicians, the record industry, and well known dead Satanist Aleister Crowley. Makeup is created to give you an illusion of being pretty. For some an enhancement while others it changes their whole face. The eyeshadow promises to make your eyes more alluring more smoky more attractive. The lipstick gives you the illusion of a pouty mouth, that blushed look you have as your having sex. The color is an illusion of well-defined cheeks. Foundation, the dream of flawless skin along with contouring, etc. etc.. Women on the average, spend billions of dollar a year on cosmetics.

My Q & A with Pascal, a professional photographer and makeup artist that I have worked with on countless photo shoots.

Q: How long have you been a makeup artist/photographer? Pascal: 20 years Q: Do you think makeup alters a face to the point of being unrecognizable? Pascal: Yes, through composition, you can change the eye shape, nose shape, lips, cheekbones, highlight the positives, and downplay the negatives. Q: How long does it generally take you to transform a face? Pascal: Generally, it takes hours to apply makeup as with photography the photoshop does the trick. Q: Do you think composition is a form of sorcery and manipulation? Pascal: Yes, it is all magic, smoke, and mirrors. Q: Do you believe women rely too much on makeup? Pascal: Yes, we call it, putting on the face they can’t go anywhere without it. Q: Anything else you want to say about makeup?

Pascal: I love Photographing you and applying makeup to your face what a pleasure, you have the most beautiful EYES, FACE & SKIN, up close you’re stunning! So physically beautiful, physically compelling, I’m hypnotized by your good looks. Your skin always so soft, smooth and creamy like churned butter, I love your light skin color.

The Damaging Effects of Beauty Products

Females love plastering their faces with makeup, not knowing that by doing so, they’re clogging their pores which causes them to age faster. When you apply mascara to your face, your skin doesn’t receive oxygen, and the sun doesn’t hit your skin. Eventually, you will start looking pale when you don’t have makeup on, this will force you to wear makeup even if you don’t want to because you’ll look like a zombie without it. Females don’t pay attention nor care about their health for the sake of looking good. The average woman absorbs hundreds of toxic chemicals from face and body products, excluding cosmetics every day. These products are incorporated right into the bloodstream, and they remain in the blood system working havoc on your internal organs. By the time they have made it to the door in the morning, they have swallowed, inhaled, and absorbed through their skin hundreds of toxic chemicals. Some of these chemicals have been proven to be deadly to laboratory animals, and many of them are known to be carcinogens. They are literally poisoning their immune system with thousands of toxic chemicals that are known carcinogens, hormone disrupters, and cancer-causing agents. How does this make sense? If it doesn’t occur in nature, it shouldn’t be inside you because you are a natural being. Women love to use beauty products to look better, but unfortunately, sometimes the short-term look isn’t worth the long-term damage that such products can do to their skin. Many females wear this makeup and don’t even know that 95 percent of all products marketed for skin, hair, personal care, or beauty is loaded with chemicals linked to cancer or skin disorders. To top it off, women wear these products without even knowing what chemicals are used to make them. Now you understand why cancer is a 300 billion dollar a year business. The joke is on you: My people are foolish, they have not known Me. They are stupid children, and they have no understanding. They are wise to do evil but to do good, they have no knowledge, Jeremiah 4:22.

Fair women and men are the most attractive they get most of the attention — Sanjay (Sri Lanka)

Despite the toxic levels of mercury in skin whitening creams people continue to use them. What is the real obsession with light skin? To answer that question we must visit the past through colonization, the global take over by Europe which affected society position of light skin as being supreme in beauty from Asia to Africa and everywhere in between this is a dilemma among non-whites. At this time the white skin was held in high regards through the renaissance periods where white women often powdered their skin to be white and through art, it was immortalized. Nowadays through media and magazines featuring mostly white women on their covers and advertisements. The ideology of white skin perfection has been passed down from generation to generation through ignorance. The media portrays “whiteness or lightness” as a symbol of what is attractive and desirable. Skin whitening, skin lightening, and skin bleaching refer to the practice of using chemical substances in an attempt to lighten skin tone. This is such an inferiority complex promoted by society. I found an interesting article to show that Ghana is making strides to keep people from the damaging effects of using skin bleaching cream.

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Skin bleaching is an epidemic across the world from Africa to India, where bleaching the skin is most common as brushing your teeth. This common practice has been passed down from generation to generation. Some say that colonization is to blame, placing the white skin at the top of the aesthetic chart. This is definitely a taught behavior mirroring self-hatred.

The light skin epidemic has affected the entire world.
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The skin bleaching epidemic is indeed a global one. But it is more prominent among brown people. The reasons most say the opt to do this is they don’t like their skin color, some to remove scars, and some to capitalize on the light skin privilege. Yet after years of colonization through Europe, fighting for freedom, the slave mentality still exists in these countries. Being “fair skinned” is often equated to being beautiful. So there is no surprise that both men and women who opt to bleach, use the most harmful products on the market to achieve this goal. Brown skin is flawlessly beautiful, rich in hue and texture, absolutely stunning to behold at sight. Do you realize the powers- that – be would rather keep you dumb as to who you really are, concentrating on things that do not matter in life such as skin color.

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My Q & A with Isheeta, a customer service rep from India
Q: Tell me about the skin lightening epidemic in India?
Isheeta: Fair is beautiful that comes from the British Bombay Enthusiasts that bought colonialism in our great country, that fair skin is beautiful. I am a desi beauty very dark. I may never get married because of the caste system. Fair skin is worshipped in my country there is no getting around that.
My interview with Eunice, a secretary from Ghana
Q: How long have you been using a skin bleaching cream? And why do you use it?
Eunice: For 5 years now. I thought the fair skin would give me more opportunities.
Q: Well has it going you some sort of privilege?
Eunice: Light skin has not afforded me the privilege, I have severely damaged my skin. I got lesions forming all over my face.
Q: What would you tell someone that is thinking of using a skin bleaching cream?
Eunice: Don’t do it.
My conversation with Mena owner of a beauty salon
Q: What are the top beauty procedures being performed annually at your salon?
Mena: Spray Tannings procedures, as well as our tanning products, are best sellers, everyone wants that golden brown glow, it’s more healthy looking.
Q: If the Dark skin is so undervalued, why are people getting tans?
Mena: It is definitely not undervalued but highly requested year round especially in the summer months. Dark skin is beautiful, action speaks louder than words.
The Global obsession with skin lightening:

My conversation with Ezrahi, a psychologist from Israel.
Q: What is the solution for black/brown people the world over concerning the light-skinned situation, one of which has plagued our people for generations.
Ezrahi: We must take back our ownership, knowledge is power, we have to set the standard, stand together, but most of all learn who the creator is and who we are as a people. It all starts with knowing that we are from the house of Israel.
My conversation with Robert, an Aryan Doctor from Ohio, USA
Q: How do white people perceive black people in terms of color? For example, do you look at a black person and say, “She is light skinned or dark?”
Robert: No we look at all black people just being the dark-skinned people, there is no separation of color, light or dark. We look at black people as all the same.


Plastic Surgery

When Genetics has not given you what you want, why change it? Studies have shown that millions yearly around the world have gone under the knife. One thing is for sure that people would go to any length to develop – The perfect human face or body. One of the most disturbing stories I observed was the Korean Model in 2008 that inject cooking oil in her face. Cosmetic surgery addict injected cooking oil into her own face…
A Korean woman addicted to plastic surgery has been left unrecognizable after her obsession led her to inject cooking oil into her face. If you want to know more about Former model Hang Mioku story here is the link: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2320679/Korean-woman-Hang-Mioku-injects-COOKING-OIL-face-refused-plastic-surgery.html –Plastic Surgery according to Wikipedia…Cosmetic surgery is an elective procedure that is performed on standard parts of the body with the only purpose of improving a person’s appearance and/or removing signs of aging. Studies prove that this type of surgery plays an essential role in a person’s self-esteem because the physical appearance is a crucial status equivalent to gender or race and by making changes to the body it contributes not only to the patient’s physical appearance but also to the mental health of the patient. In 2006, nearly 11 million cosmetic procedures were performed in the United States alone. The number of cosmetic procedures performed in the United States has increased over 50 percent since the start of the century. Nearly 12 million cosmetic procedures were completed in 2007, with the five most common surgeries being breast augmentation, liposuction, nasal surgery, eyelid surgery, and abdominoplasty. The American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery looks at the statistics for thirty-four different cosmetic procedures. Nineteen of the methods are surgical, such as rhinoplasty or facelift. The nonsurgical procedures include Botox and laser hair removal. In 2010, their survey revealed that there were 9,336,814 total procedures in the United States. Of those, 1,622,290 procedures were surgical. They also found that a vast majority, 81%, of the procedures were done on Caucasian people.

Me. Me. Me. Me. I. I. I. I.  For this is the dilemma of conceit, arrogance, and egotism!

“For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according to as God hath dealt with every man the measure of faith.” Romans 12:3 KJV

Psychoanalysis. tending to derive erotic gratification from admiration of one’s own physical or mental attributes.

In his book, Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited, Sam Vaknin states “The narcissist cannot admit that he had toiled and sweated to achieve his goal and, with this confession, shatter his alleged omnipotence and grandiose False Self. He must belittle every accomplishment of his and make it appear to have been a routine triviality. This is intended to support the dreamland quality of his fragmented personality. But it also prevents him from deriving the psychological benefits which usually accrue to to goal attainment… The narcissist is doomed to roam a circular labyrinth. When he does achieve something, he underestimates it in order to enhance his own sense of omnipotence, perfection, and brilliance. When he fails, he dare not face reality. He escapes to the land of no narratives where life is nothing but a meaningless wasteland. The narcissist whiles his life away.”

Any time a person “admits” to being “genetically gifted” in regards to their personal beauty, the real driver of the statement is deep-seated narcissism. Narcissism occurs when excessive self-admiration and self-centeredness has taken root into their mind, in psychiatry, a personality disorder characterized by the patient’s overestimation of his or her own appearance and abilities and an excessive need for admiration. Narcissists are self worshippers of beauty. This proves the theory that beauty is only skin deep. Are you that women that manipulates men with your body your vision? To get them to do whatever you want them too. Do you use their shortcomings against them? Then you are a narcissist.  

In Greek mythology, Narcissus was a hunter from Thespiae in Boeotia who was known for his beauty. He was the son of the river god Cephissus and nymph Liriope. After staring at his reflection he fell in love with his beauty, unable to leave his reflection in the river, he stared at himself until he died. Narcissus is the origin of the term narcissism, a fixation on one’s physical appearance, self love.

Photo Credit: Narcissus by Caravaggio
One of the main characteristics of narcissism is that to survive, they have to make it all about them.  Are you so vain that your inflated head can’t get through the door?   Thou hast been in Eden the garden of God; every precious stone was thy covering, the sardius, topaz, and the diamond, the beryl, the onyx, and the jasper, the sapphire, the emerald, and the carbuncle, and gold: the workmanship of thy tabrets and of thy pipes was prepared in thee in the day that thou wast created. Thou art the anointed cherub that covereth; and I have set thee so: thou wast upon the holy mountain of God; thou hast walked up and down amid the stones of fire. Thou wast perfect in thy ways from the day that thou wast created, till iniquity was found in thee. By the multitude of thy merchandise, they have filled the midst of thee with violence, and thou hast sinned: therefore I will cast thee as profane out of the mountain of God: and I will destroy thee, O covering cherub, from the midst of the stones of fire. Thine heart was lifted up because of thy beauty, thou hast corrupted thy wisdom because of thy brightness: I will cast thee to the ground, I will lay thee before kings, that they may behold thee. Ezekiel 28:13-17 (KJV Bible) – So if you’re a narcissist get help then humble yourself.

Symptoms of Narcissism. 

1. Two Faced
2. Blame others for your problems or lack of success.
3. Has two different persona in person and in private.
4. Unreliable

5. Arrogant or seeking what is best for them.
6. Looks down on people that are not on their level.

7. Addicted to fantasy thinking highly of themselves.
8. They lie.
9. Materialistic and encourages others to be so too.
10. Emotional Distant.
11. One-sided conversations.
12. Controlling
13. Picks fight and throw tantrums.
14. Does not say they are sorry when wrong.

15. A subconscious lover of self.
16. Attention seeker
17. Glory Hound

Through Psychoanalysis it tends to derive amatory gratification from admiration of one’s own physical appearance.

Any time a person “admits” to being “genetically gifted” in regards to their personal beauty the real driver of the statement is deep-seated narcissism. Narcissism occurs when excessive self-admiration and self-centeredness has taken root into their mind, in psychiatry, a personality disorder characterized by the patient’s overestimation of his or her own appearance and abilities and an excessive need for admiration. Narcissists are self-worshippers of their own beauty. This proves the theory that beauty is only skin deep. Are you that women that manipulates men with your body your beauty? To get them to do whatever you want them too. Do you use their shortcomings against them? Then you are a narcissist.

How to break free? Repent of your sins and seek the Most High! 

The answer is to repent of your sins, seek the Most High God of Israel, and keep His commandments.

“Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.” Ecclesiastes 12:13 KJV