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Dilemma 9 – "Vanity"

She hopes that when she walks into a room that every eye is on her. She stalks her prey intently. She desires to be the most beautiful woman in the room. Her desire is for the world to feed her insecurity. Longs for every guy to get off on her beauty that’s why she exposes her body parts. She wants to be valued, adored, and loved at any cost. She seeks out individuals that will worship her like a goddess. She has an unnatural sense of self importance. Requires excessive admiration and attention. She is arrogant and Haughty. Takes advantage of others kindness. Fantasies about being the person with unlimited admiration. She purchases costly attire, name brands items and accessories to be admired. Has a unnatural sense of self entitlement. Her beauty is mystifying in a demonic sort of way. Her eyes a full with lust and desire. Most men are snared into her trap of sin. People often worship the ground she walks on. She wants the world to bow down to her very existence. And her name is VANITY.

 
Truthfully, how does a black woman fare in this beauty-paranoid urbanity?

The Daughters of Zion are now becoming “mature“ in the ways of the Most High. While others still marvel at the relics of being that symbol of beauty. You can see how this narcissism explodes the life nock of your existence. You gaze that image of beauty still stuck in your eyes, as you gaze from picture to picture wondering when it will be your chance, to imitate the greek god of narcissus, who tragically fell in love with the sight of his reflection, not realizing it was his own image in the water. Or the likes of Oscar Wilde’s depiction of the portrait “Dorian Gray” wish that he would never grow old but his soul was lost. Like most women that mere obsession into this filtered beauty showcased on the internet. The fascination with being beautiful has gone from desire to obsession. The biggest devil of them all, Satan – Lucifer was cast out of heaven because of pride in his beauty, after all, it was said he was the most beautiful of them all. Son of man, take up a lamentation upon the king of Tyrus, and say unto him, Thus saith the Lord GOD; Thou sealest up the sum, full of wisdom, and perfect in beauty. Thou hast been in Eden the garden of God; every precious stone was thy covering, the sardius, topaz, and the diamond, the beryl, the onyx, and the jasper, the sapphire, the emerald, and the carbuncle, and gold: the workmanship of thy tabrets and of thy pipes was prepared in thee in the day that thou wast created. Thou art the anointed cherub that covereth; and I have set thee so: thou wast upon the holy mountain of God; thou hast walked up and down in the midst of the stones of fire. Thou wast perfect in thy ways from the day that thou wast created, till iniquity was found in thee. Ezekiel 28:12 KJV Beauty isn’t everything it’s the only thing so we are told. To be a recipient of beauty many would envy, kill, starve to death, stuff, tuck, or even sale their soul to the devil to look like me boasts the neon demon of Vanity., the god of pride, narcissism, self-importance, conceit, arrogance, egotism, worthlessness, presumptuous, and bigheadedness. It is safe to say that every woman wants to possess what she has. By the time I was 10 years old, I had heard an eruption of phrases that solidified me as being “beautiful“ or “pretty”, numerous times, being declared as such at this young age, it became embedded in my psyche. For young girls out there it is much better to learn to be smart or learn what it takes to develop your character. The character thing is something I learned much later but on the other hand, I was always smart and intrigued by knowledge. I often found myself, in that trap of consciously trying to impress people. Always concerned if they liked me or not. Bought them gifts to achieve lasting friendship but to my dismay they still envied me or hated me. If wasn’t until I came into the knowledge of the truth (about who I am and who the Most High is to me) about 5 years ago, that I realize that I hadn’t really been myself this whole time, the reflection in the mirror was in fact, “The Neon Demon: Vanity” and that was a huge wakeup call. You see this image of beauty that had men drooling and panting wasn’t really me. Eccentrically, I felt his eyes on me; almost boring a hole in my flesh, our eyes met. I thought to myself, “Another man beguiled by my physical attributes.” It actually made me happy to see his jaws-drop knowing that he would never have me. I am not that kind of girl to sleep with any man until marriage but I must admit that my fun came with him just looking at me. Here he comes, what will it be this time am I beautiful or sexy. Not knowing subconsciously that I was causing a man to lust by my attire, it was like a game to me. I loved the attention I got. My attire consist of long fitted dresses with a split down the side that classy but sexy edginess. The truth of the matter is that if a man notices a woman and finds her attractive, even in a sexual way, with all her clothes on. Then it is not the woman’s fault she is gazing on her beauty, but if she purposely sets out to cause him to lust after her beauty then it is an iniquity, and then with the action of sex it becomes sin.After I arise every morning, I drop to my knees and raise my hands giving all Praise to my Abba Father while torn between a desire to awaken the world to the knowledge of the Most High God and enjoy my life. The lighting is always perfect when I am in front of the mirror. It’s hard to resist not to stare at me while being grateful that I made it another day. My thoughts reflect on how good the Most High is and this internal change He has taken mine through. The selfless love that overwhelms my spirit, my soul, and my body. I look at me and think about how I was created in HIS image and likeness. The world around me has changed, and especially my thoughts on physical beauty. Beauty isn’t everything; it’s the only thing, so we are told. To be a recipient of grace many would envy, kill, starve to death, stuff, tuck, or even sell their soul to the devil to look like me boasts the neon demon of Vanity., the god of pride, narcissism, self-importance, conceit, arrogance, egotism, worthlessness, presumptuous, and pigheadedness. It is safe to say that every woman wants to possess what she has. By the time I was 10 years old, I had heard an eruption of phrases that solidified me as being “beautiful“ or “pretty,” numerous times, being declared as such at this young age, it became embedded in my psyche. For young girls out there, it is much better to learn to be smart or learn what it takes to develop your character. The character thing is something I learned much later, but on the other hand, I was always smart and intrigued by knowledge. I often found myself, in that trap of consciously trying to impress people. Always concerned if they liked me or not. Bought them gifts to achieve lasting friendship, but to my dismay, they still envied me or hated me. If wasn’t until I came into the knowledge of the truth (about who I am and who the Most High is to me) about 5 years ago, that I realize that I hadn’t really been myself this whole time, the reflection in the mirror was in fact, “Vanity” and that was a massive wake up call. You see this image of beauty that had men drooling and panting wasn’t really me.

Eccentrically, I felt his eyes on me; almost boring a hole in my flesh, our eyes met. I thought to myself, “Another man beguiled by my physical attributes.” It actually made me happy to see his jaws-drop knowing that he would never have me. I am not that kind of girl to sleep with any man until marriage but I must admit that my fun came with him just looking at me. Here he comes, what will it be this time am I beautiful or sexy.

Not knowing subconsciously that I was causing a man to lust by my attire, it was like a game to me. I loved the attention I got. My attire consists of long fitted dresses with a split down the side that classy but sexy edginess. The truth of the matter is that if a man notices a woman and finds her attractive, even in a sexual way, with all her clothes on. Then it is not the woman’s fault she is gazing on her beauty, but if she purposely sets out to cause him to lust after her beauty then it is iniquity, and then with the act of sex it becomes sin. So the world tells us to be more beautiful, erogenous and poised while governing your body by the way we sway our hips, exposing our breasts and rear end deliberately in hopes of manipulating men, arousing them sexually with one single glance. Letting other women or even mothers, tell you to wear seducing outfits in hopes of attracting men.

There is much to be said about a woman who can humbly modestly present herself while everything surrounding her in based on how you look. She is bombarded with influences telling her to walk talk look dress and act like a woman with no maker, no guidance, no soul in an ignorant world, a bright light in the darkness! This breed of woman is scarce! But she exists, I am living proof now. If you are a woman that has no shame exposing herself by wearing tight or revealing clothes where your breast, thighs, and even labia (camel toe) can be seen. Please reconsider your spirit and be truthful with yourself about just what you are really doing. Because what we say, do and how we dress affects others, especially those that are younger and more impressionable, all young sisters you should see as your daughters. There is much to be said about a woman that presents yourself in such a way. You have the same body parts every other woman has. A man can quickly get that somewhere else. There is always another female with more to share. What he can’t understand is someone who has that unique personality coupled with the Most High’s character. It is your character that will keep him not your bottom size. If you notice, most women you see with these attributes, have no man with a house full of kids. It is your character that will keep him at the end of the day. Tight jeans, tight dresses, short shorts, and leggings leave nothing to the imagination only reveal the intimate details of your body. These clothing options are the fashion equivalent of too much information. This gratuitous divulgence of assets repels where skin tight clothing or private physical attribute revealers presumably with the hope to entice men. In layman’s terms, you know what you are doing, and the Most High is watching. You will be judge, ladies!

“But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7 KJV

So the world tells us to be more beautiful, erogenous and poised while governing your body by the way we sway our hips, exposing our breasts and rear end deliberately in hopes of manipulating men, arousing them sexually with one single glance. Letting other women or even mothers, tell you to wear seducing outfits in hopes of attracting men. There is much to be said about a woman who can humbly modestly present herself while everything surrounding her in based on how you look. She is bombarded with influences telling her to walk talk look dress and act like a woman with no maker, no guidance, no soul in an ignorant world, a bright light in the darkness! This breed of woman is scarce! But she exists, I am living proof now. If you are a woman that has no shame exposing herself by wearing tight or revealing clothes where your breast, thighs, and even labia (camel toe) can be seen. Please reconsider your spirit and be truthful with yourself about just what you are really doing. Because what we say, do and how we dress affects others, especially those that are younger and more impressionable, all young sisters you should see as your daughters. There is much to be said about a woman that presents yourself in such a way. You have the same body parts every other woman has. A man can quickly get that somewhere else. There is always another female with more to share. What he can’t understand is someone who has that unique personality coupled with the Most High’s character. It is your character that will keep him not your bottom size. If you notice, most women you see with these attributes, have no man with a house full of kids. It is your character that will keep him at the end of the day. Tight jeans, tight dresses, short shorts, and leggings leave nothing to the imagination only reveal the intimate details of your body. These clothing options are the fashion equivalent of too much information. This gratuitous divulgence of assets repels where skin tight clothing or private physical attribute revealers presumably with the hope to entice men. In layman’s terms, you know what you are doing, and the Most High is watching. You will be judge, ladies!

Ecclesiasticus 26:9-12 KJVA 9 The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty(prideful) looks and eyelids. 10 If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty. 11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass(sin) against thee. 12 She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveller when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow. The most High did NOT create our sisters to be bad bitches! But contrarily, to be women that fear the most High God and to be ashamed of exposing themselves. Ecclesiasticus 26:25 KJV 25 A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog; but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord.

The “Sexual Objectification” and “The Moral Decay” of the women of color.

A sunny day at the park, I walked and repeatedly pranced over the leaves as they sunbathed beneath my feet, At 9 years old, I was wearing shorts, not to short but I jacked them up higher, leaving my buttocks exposed a little. I was at the park alone that day, I was prancing around as I walk I felt a wind, and then something bizarre happened, all of a sudden, something, maybe an entity that felt like it was trying to enter my body. I resisted, and it blows away like the wind. We live in a spiritual world, a sometimes our actions can invite spirits of sexual perversions to attack us at any age.

My interview with Harold, a Barrister from Canada

Q: So, Harold, what do you think about all the ladies showing their body parts on social media?

Harold: I think they need to re-evaluate what they are putting out there, what message they are sending about themselves – Are you a whore or a lady? For me I prefer the beautiful lady that covers her body leaving something to the imagination like you, for example, you are the epitome of beauty and you always wear a nice dress that accentuates your curves but leaves a lot to the imagination.

Q: Thank you! .. Why do you think about men praise these woman that wear nothing literally?

Harold: A man is going to praise a whore because he is thinking about sex with her, getting that thrill. Men are visual hell we can look but these types of women will be never be taken to meet Momma. Most of the guys that compliment these whorish women are Simps and Captain-save-a hoes. The woman only degrades themselves by the way the dress, it’s not pretty and they will never get a good man. Real talk they will sex you and move to the next one showing her booty. Ladies wake up!

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And let your adorning be — Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. I Peter 3:3-4 King James Version Bible. Don’t let your soul purpose of existence by the way you look! Peace Israel, if you are a sister that has no shame in exposing herself by wearing tight or revealing clothes where your breast, thighs and even labia(camel toe) can be seen. Please reconsider your spirit and be truthful with yourself about just what you are really doing. Because what we say, do and how we dress affects others especially those that are younger and more impressionable, all young sisters you should see as your daughters.

Photo Courtesy of Nathalie Gonzalez

Ecclesiasticus 26:9-12 KJVA 9 The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty(prideful) looks and eyelids. 10 If thy daughter is shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuses herself through overmuch liberty. 11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass(sin) against thee. 12 She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveler when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow. The most High did NOT create our sisters to be bad bitches! But contrarily, to be women that fear the most High God and to be ashamed of exposing themselves. Ecclesiasticus 26:25 KJV 25 A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog, but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord. Titus 2:3-5 KJV 3 The aged women likewise, that they are in behavior as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

The fascination of the body has been around as long as the earth, many want to place it on a pedestal for all to see, acquire it, and lust after it. This was definitely the sad demise of and in the case of South African “Sarah Saartjie Brightman” the Hottentot Venus. For those of you that don’t know was made famous for her curvaceous body, large buttocks that were exhibited as freak show attractions in 19th-century Europe in the early 1800s in England and France then later after her death she was given up to science for study, her private parts were on display in a jar. They call her the “Hottentot Venus” the Europeans were so spellbound by her body structure; it was like nothing they had seen before. She was degraded unto death.

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The counterproductive is the production of our identity we must abort the hyper-sexualized image. Beauty in itself is not something for you to inspire to chase after, you either have it or you don’t so the thought of being so self-absorbed in the way one looks is preposterous leads you into the trap of the lust. Through the era of social media etc. We are inclined to adopt a sexy image and pass it around. We must develop Standard and Modesty about us. Being considered ‘Gorgeous” or “Beautiful” is a lot more conservative than being considered sexy is being and inspiring lust. The joy of the social media high… What would you do without the admiration of the adoring public? Unfortunately Sarah didn’t have a choice but the women are today must be responsible for their own image.
 
Twitter 20 likes – 2400 followers Facebook 2000 likes – 5000 friends Youtube 89,000 likes 1 million followers
Social Media is designed to keep you self absorbed, narcissistic.

Forlornly, I witness an enormous cessation between women around the world where social media sites that promote instant celebrity. The narcissist viewpoint is creating a stifling ecosystem on the internet filled with envy, hatred, insecurity, and cyberbullying. The beauty critics and fashion industry define beauty as impeccable. This fallacy is caused by photoshop, filters, lighting, smoke, and mirrors. Both men and women love this attention, relying on their body parts to grab attention. In the Bible – Sarah, Abraham’s wife, even in old age she was considered beautiful, Joseph, David, Rachel, and Queen Esther, were deemed to be lovely people. Their aesthetics were superb no reference to them being sexy. Ladies you need to think twice about the “oversexed/ ravish me/ come hither” on social media. I mean seriously, What are you trying to do? I know you want a man, but come on, many other women are doing the same things you are such fierce competition all wanting the admiration. Your actions are causing men to fall into lust. A true daughter of Zion wouldn’t cause a man to stumble. You should be ashamed of yourself in tight or revealing clothes where your breast, thighs and even labia (camel toe) can be seen. Please reconsider your spirit and be truthful with yourself about just what you are really doing. Do you want the attention that bad? My worst comment under one of my photographs on Facebook, “My nuts are doing pushups.” Now, this was under a photo where I was completely covered. Another under the same picture, “You can turn heads with your clothes on.” Think about the younger girls that are watching your every action and that will impersonate your activities later on done the line, becoming just another woman with no respect.

Eccentrically, I felt his eyes on me; almost boring a hole in my flesh, our eyes met. I thought to myself, “Another man beguiled by my physical attributes.” It actually made me happy to see his jaws-drop knowing that he would never have me. I am not that kind of girl to sleep with any man until marriage but I must admit that my fun came with him just looking at me. Here he comes, what will it be this time am I beautiful or sexy.

Not knowing subconsciously that I was causing a man to lust by my attire, it was like a game to me. I loved the attention I got. My attire consists of long fitted dresses with a split down the side that classy but sexy edginess. The truth of the matter is that if a man notices a woman and finds her attractive, even in a sexual way, with all her clothes on. Then it is not the woman’s fault she is gazing on her beauty, but if she purposely sets out to cause him to lust after her beauty then it is an iniquity, and then with the act of sex it becomes sin.

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So the world tells us to be more beautiful, erogenous and poised while governing your body by the way we sway our hips, exposing our breasts and rear end deliberately in hopes of manipulating men, arousing them sexually with one single glance. Letting other women or even mothers, tell you to wear seducing outfits in hopes of attracting men. There is much to be said about a woman who can humbly present herself in a modest way while everything surrounding her in based on how you look. She is bombarded with influences telling her to walk talk look dress and act like a woman with no maker, no guidance, no soul in an ignorant world, a bright light in the darkness! This breed of woman is extremely rare! But she exists, I am living proof now. If you are a woman that has no shame exposing herself by wearing tight or revealing clothes where your breast, thighs and even labia (camel toe) can be seen. Please reconsider your spirit and be truthful with yourself about just what you are really doing. Because what we say, do and how we dress affects others especially those that are younger and more impressionable, all young sisters you should see as your daughters. There is much to be said about a woman that presents yourself in such a way. You have the same body parts every other woman has. A man can easily get that somewhere else. There is always another female with more to share. What he can’t get is someone who has that unique personality coupled with the Most High’s character. It is your character that will keep him not your bottom size. If you notice, most women you see with these attributes, have no man with a house full of kids. It is your character that will keep him at the end of the day. Tight jeans, tight dresses, short shorts, and leggings leave nothing to the imagination only reveal the intimate details of your body. These clothing options are fashion equivalent of too much information. This gratuitous divulgence of assets repels where skin tight clothing or private bodily attribute revealers presumably with the hope to entice men. In layman’s terms, you know what you are doing and the Most High is watching. You will be judge ladies!

Ecclesiasticus 26:9-12 KJVA 9 The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty(prideful) looks and eyelids. 10 If thy daughter is shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuses herself through overmuch liberty. 11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass(sin) against thee. 12 She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveler when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow.

Despite it all, I remained a virgin until marriage. Teach your daughters how to dress and keep themselves pure.

The attention whore syndrome. Females certainly aren’t the only ones who can be attention whores, but, whether through sexism or because it truly is more common among females (I think the verdict is definitely still out on that one), this dreadful disorder is most commonly associated with females. Attention whores are a sad breed of female that thrives upon and is therefore in constant, desperate need of attention – particularly of the male variety. It doesn’t matter whether she’s romantically interested in a guy or not, the attention whore wants as much attention from as many people as possible, and is willing to degrade herself in the process. If you’re one of those guys who says, “Well, isn’t that just how girls are?” then don’t bother reading any further. If your opinion of women and expectations of how you should be treated by them are that low, an attention whore is probably all that you deserve.

 
An attention whore is an unhealthy, dysfunctional person who likely did not get what she needed as a child to mature into a secure adult. Just because there are (unfortunately) quite a few of them, doesn’t mean “attention whore” is the natural state of the female. Conversely, just because there are lots of shitty men out there, it doesn’t mean “scumbag” is the natural state of the male. Being roped in by an attention whore will never lead you anywhere right. If she’s not interested in you, the attention whore is capable of leading you on quite mercilessly. And if she is interested in you and you get into a real relationship with her, you’re in for some real hell. While some attention whores are incapable of being physically faithful to just one guy, you better believe that, whether physically or emotionally, she will continuously be carrying on inappropriate relationships with other guys in one way or another. The attention of one man is never enough for this kind of creature, and being in a relationship will hardly slow down her constant care whoring behavior. — Emmanuel Valerio

Seduce him with your love. Entice him with your intellect. Blow his mind with your brilliance. YOU all have the same thing between your legs, but you have got to bring something to the table that the next woman can’t, or won’t, so that you can have what many of them don’t. YOU must be intuitive enough to realize that engaging of the minds leads to marrying of the souls. If the only thing you have to offer is a pretty face, nice body and good sex, you ain’t worth a penny.

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What is it with females taking pictures with their ASS facing the camera? We truly live in a culture of ASS worship. We have a culture of attention whoring creatures who have nothing to offer you but their looks. We are living in a generation where dressing to impress is a thing of the past, and behaving like a whore, twerking, being practically naked all over the internet to show off your assets to the world is the latest and cool trend. No matter how big or small the ASS is, it must be displayed. No matter how big or small the breasts are, they must be out in the open. This culture is disgusting. When you bare it all and leave little to the imagination, best believe no real Man is thinking about bringing you home to the family. When all you care about is your looks, no one will truly care about your personality or your intellect. Stop worshiping your assets and get some self respect. You have a brain, use it! Love and respect yourself to be more than just a another random piece of ASS and a nice body. Don’t just worship your body and it’s parts, love and respect it, be conscious of your body’s message. Be the best you can be without displaying the best that your body can offer. You will get further with a quality man using what’s between your ears (BRAIN), not what between your legs (VAGINA). The quality of man you attract says a lot about you, if you always end up with a bum, the one you need to be checking is yourself. Most of you have shitty decision making skills. Always assuming that you have it going on because many guys are after you, but did you forget that low gas prices ALWAYS attracts a lot of customers? Its about quality, NOT quantity. What you have is perverted minded creatures like yourself chasing whats between you legs, NOT YOU. You keep getting your heart broken because you keep giving the key to your heart to people who only want the security code to your panties. Stop saving a permanent place in your heart for someone who only has something temporary in mind for you. Just because these professional ASS kissers like your looks, doesn’t mean that they respect it. There’s NOTHING honorable about 1,000 flock of bums who are staring at your ass, breast, thighs and duck faces; imagining what they’d do to you in bed. You’re no longer a woman in their eyes, you’re an object, a piece of meat, a vain imagination in the mind of a luster. You want to be sexy and feel beautiful, I get it. But being respected and loved should mean more. Beauty is in modesty, and a real man will NEVER truly love a woman he can’t respect. —-  Emmanuel Valerio

100000 Likes via twitter or facebook… Just because the typical male likes your photos, you know the ones of your cleavage and your bottom. Really there is no respect in looking at or commenting on photos. You’re no longer a woman in their eyes, you’re an object, a piece of meat, a vain imagination in the mind of a lustful man. You want to be sexy and feel beautiful, I get it. But being respected and loved should mean more. Beauty is in modesty, and a real man will NEVER truly love a woman he can’t respect. “Don’t believe the likes”

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A woman of modest attire will always come out on top. Save your booty shots for your husband. The world doesn’t need to see it.


A real woman respects herself, the devaluing that occurs on social media is disturbing. Females with nothing to offer to use their good looks to achieve their agenda, they degrade themselves for attention. These females that show all their body on social media are whores, plain and simple, us men sure we look but these women we will never take them home to meet the family — Aaron.

Let me reveal to you a hidden truth, just because the typical ass kissing guy likes your looks through these social media or in real life, doesn’t mean that he respects it. There’s nothing honorable about 1,000 likes from a flock perverts who are staring at your ass, breast, thighs and pretty faces fully made up; imagining can they get you home and into their beds. You’re no longer a woman in their eyes, you’re an a whore, a thot, a piece of meat or a vain imagination in the mind of a whoremonger. You want to be sexy and feel beautiful, I get it. But being respected and loved should mean more. Beauty is in modesty, and a real man will never truly love a woman he can’t respect. You can accomplish much more with a quality man using your brain, not your vagina. “Don’t believe the likes”. God-fearing men are leaders, they don’t chase booty. A woman doesn’t need to show you her body to prove she’s a woman. Doesn’t need to walk around half-dressed to attract your attention. Doesn’t need to sleep with you to prove her love. Doesn’t need to be loud for you to listen to her voice. Doesn’t need to fight you to reveal her strength. Doesn’t need to argue to prove her education. Doesn’t need to put you down to lift herself up. Doesn’t need to say a word to prove that she’s a woman, but most importantly, a real woman doesn’t need you unbuttoning her shirt to get to her heart. She doesn’t need to open her legs to get appreciation. She does need to drive into that bible like her life depends on it, and her king will come.

In the 1900’s They forced women to strip naked in a zoo for humans, now females do it willingly: Therefore my people are gone into captivity because they have no knowledge: and their honorable men are famished, and their multitude dried up with thirst, Isaiah 5:13 KJV So tired of looking at the black women with the long flip weaves high-end sunglasses,, handbag, jeans, and overpriced stiletto heels. So dull carbon copy of the white women walking on rodeo drive in California. This look is so annoying! — Jackson

The world entices you with the lure of brand names, especially those high-end designer logos like Louis Vuitton and Hermes. It’s not only that the more you care about impressing other people with your appearance, the more likely you will to overspend. In fact, the more focused you are on your own thoughts, feelings, and impressions you make on others, the more you’ll seek outwardly-recognizable status symbols like handbags and overpriced clothing. Being vain is beyond just about looking good to others, but more importantly, about looking good to themselves. It’s a natural high. Social comparison theory, initially proposed by social psychologist Leon Festinger in 1954, centers on the belief that there is a drive within individuals to gain accurate self-evaluations. The theory explains how individuals evaluate their own opinions and abilities by comparing themselves to others in order to reduce uncertainty in these domains, and learn how to define the self. Following the initial theory, research began to focus on social comparison as a way of self-enhancement, introducing the concepts of downward and upward comparisons and expanding the motivations of social comparisons. Downward social comparison is a great coping process because it allows you to view a bad situation by looking at others who are worse off than you (poorer, less attractive, more stressed) and concluding that things aren’t really so bad. Upward social comparison can cause you to berate yourself unnecessarily because you feel that you’re being outdone by your neighbors, comrades, family, co-workers, and instagram-youtube-facebook friends. Your desire to impress people that could care less about, but not realizing that this disorder can promote psychological disorders.

D — Demon
I — Idol
V — Vixen
A — Arrogant
“Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.” Proverbs 16:18 KJV
DIVA NOUN [PLURAL DI·VAS, DI·VE] 1. a distinguished female singer; prima donna.
The Diva hypnotizes men with her beauty.

True Daughters of Zion are now becoming “mature“ in the ways of the Most High. While others still marvel at the relics of being that symbol of beauty. You can see how this narcissism explodes the life nock of your existence. You gaze that image of beauty still stuck in your eyes, as you gaze from picture to picture wondering when it will be your chance, to imitate the Greek god of narcissus, who tragically fell in love with the sight of his reflection, not realizing it was his own image in the water. Or the likes of Oscar Wilde’s depiction of the portrait “Dorian Gray” wish that he would never grow old but his soul was lost. Like most women, that minor obsession with this filtered beauty showcased on the internet. The fascination with being beautiful has gone from a desire to passion. The biggest devil of them all, Satan – Lucifer was cast out of heaven because of pride in his beauty, after all, it was said he was the most beautiful of them all. Son of man, take up a lamentation upon the king of Tyrus, and say unto him, Thus saith the Lord GOD; Thou sealest up the sum, full of wisdom, and perfect in beauty. Thou hast been in Eden the garden of God; every precious stone was thy covering, the sardius, topaz, and the diamond, the beryl, the onyx, and the jasper, the sapphire, the emerald, and the carbuncle, and gold: the workmanship of thy tabrets and of thy pipes was prepared in thee in the day that thou wast created. Thou art the anointed cherub that covereth; and I have set thee so: thou wast upon the holy mountain of God; thou hast walked up and down amid the stones of fire. Thou wast perfect in thy ways from the day that thou wast created, till iniquity was found in thee. Ezekiel 28:12 KJV

The Diva loves to be worshipped as a God.

Long weaved out hair, face full of makeup, revealing clothing and dancing around as she slays the crowds. As women of faith, we must break this idea of being noticed, worshipped, or being categorized as a “DIVA.” A Diva often operates as a diety while practicing magic, soothsaying, and other forms of idolatry and witchcraft in their exertion of power while in the presence of crowds of people. The pandemonium that she usually creates the work of the demon working through her. Every time you step into an arena with a Diva, you are partaking of a level of worship and trust me, it is not the Most High you are worshipping.

Celebrity worship syndrome is an obsessive-addictive disorder in which a person becomes overly involved with the details of a celebrity’s personal life. Psychologists have indicated that though many people obsess over glamorous film, television, sport and pop stars, the only common factor between them is that they are all figures in the public eye. The term Celebrity Worship Syndrome is, in fact, a misnomer.
Turn ye not unto idols, nor make yourselves molten gods: I am the LORD your God. Leviticus 19:4 KJV Thou shalt have no other gods before me. Exodus 20:3 KJV

The Bible even warns us of being haughty, arrogant, or narcissistic in the pursuit of physical beauty – Isaiah 3:16-24 KJV – “Moreover the Lord saith ,Because of the daughters of Zion are haughty, and walk with stretched forth necks and wanton necks and wandering eyes, walking and mincing as they go, and make a tinkling with their feet; Therefore the Lord will smite with a scab the crown of the head of the daughters of Zion, and the Lord will discover their secret parts….In that day the Lord will take away the bravery of their tinkling ornaments about their feet, and their cauls, and their round tires like the moon, the chains, and the bracelets and the mufflers, the bonnets, and the ornaments. But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the HEART. 1 Samuel 16:7 (KJV) Favor is deceitful, and beauty is VAIN: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. – Proverbs 31:30 KJV

If women love to vitiate themselves for attention, just imagine what they’ll do for money. When you present yourself as a erotic entity to a man, of course that’s how his perception of you will be. As a woman, you possess the exact same anatomy as every other woman does. There will always be someone else with a better body. Cajole him with your intellect and virtue. Keep your legs closed and you will be blessed with the quality man you seek.

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You could be like Judith, Queen Esther, Deborah, Sarah, Susanna…. Our matriarchs of the Bible, effective representation of women that loved the Most High in action, words, and deeds. In today’s society, everyone is looking for someone to worship and to follow. Unfortunately, there is a lack of role models in today’s society. Unfortunately, most of the women that man drools other today are witches like most celebrity women that can’t compare to the spiritual sisters of the Bible in looks or deeds. Beauty is more than your outer trapping, it is your character that resembles that of the Most High in action and acts.

The woman of beauty and obedience…

Judith… The account of Judith life could be written in novels, but it’s in the Apocrypha. It is an omen to women like me, you know the widows. No biblical female has ever been endowed with such wanton seduction, suspense, and violence as the beautiful Judith. As the story unfolds, there is a war, a threat to the lively hood of the Israelites. Holofernes, the general of King Nebuchadnezzar, has laid siege to the Israelite town of Bethulia, where Judith resides after her husband died. By the grace and the leading of the Most High God of Israel, Judith knows what she must do to preserve her people. After her beauty ritual, she lives the safety of her home and uses her womanly beautiful to seduce Holofernes, no sex but lowers him to his demise by her mere beauty. She decapitates him with his own sword and carries his bloody head out of the enemy camp in her food bag to display on the walls of Bethulia to her people. Judith is all an inspiration, now that is a woman of beauty and obedience. (Judith, the King James Version Bible with the Apocrypha.)

A woman of power and dignity….

Deborah….I remember some years back, I wanted to do a movie about Judgment, the Most High judgment on the world and sin via the lives of a few people. When I think of Judges, I think of Deborah, the righteous judges. Full of charisma and she was a prophet, adjudicating disputes of the people of that time. You know the Most High gave her a task to judge Israel. Her life focused on her military conquests. Judges Chapter 3, KJV Bible, focuses on her life. Deborah and her general Barak lead the Israelite army in a battle against the Canaanite king Jabin and his general Sisera. Definitely a ride or die chick. Now that’s a sister to write about… a woman of dignity and power!

The most beautiful woman in the world…

When I think of the Matriarch of woman, I think of Sarah, wife of Abraham, the grandfather of Jacob, who is the father of the 12 tribes of Israel. I often refer to myself as one of Sarah’s daughters. All Israelite women should aspire to be more like Sarah. Oh, and the beauty of Sarah is beyond compare. That even at an old age, she was still beautiful enough to catch the attention of the Pharaoh. Abraham esteemed Sarah highly in terms of beauty. As recording in Genesis 12 KJV Bible, the account of Abraham, where he stated that Sarah was his sister, for fear of the Pharoah killing him, to have Sarah… so he lied and claimed that she was his sister. So for all of you women that esteem yourselves, beautiful, think of Sarah, she was the real thing… The most beautiful woman in the world.

A woman of beauty and integrity….

Unfortunately, I can relate to dear sister Susanna, who was accused of having sex with two men. The men lied, their lust got the best of them. I have been charged with having sex with men I didn’t even know, but everyone around me knows I was a virgin, saving myself for marriage. That doesn’t stop the liars, the ones that want to smear your right name. Just as the Most High sent Daniel to prove the innocence of Susanna, he set others to come to my defense. Susanna’s story… on a sizzling day, sweating like a hot popsicle, Susanna decides to bath, she believes she is alone, but was being watched by two lusty voyeurs, who approach her than threatens to lie on her if she doesn’t act on their advances for sex. She chooses not to, and they lie on her. The Most High raises Daniel to help on the defense of Susanna, a woman of integrity. The Story of Susanna is chronicled in the Apocrypha. Such a woman of integrity and beauty…

A chosen woman of destiny….

I could just say that this is the mother of our Savior, the Messiah period. Enough said, but hey she is remarkable for being Chosen to carry such a phenomenon. She is written about in the New Testament of the King James Version Bible. She is a model of discipleship and motherhood. Such a woman of destiny. Just like these daughters of Zion, you too can be a beautiful woman of destiny, integrity, dignity, and obedience. Follow their examples of purity and subjection to the Most High God of Israel. You don’t have to model after the celebrities. The 4 types of women:

Ms. Independent (The Feminist)

The “Independent woman” was first birthed during the Feminist Movement as a way for a woman to have rights and be equal to men. Feminism in the United States began with 19th-century activism in favor of women’s voting rights. It gained speed and notoriety through the 20th and early 21st centuries. In general, feminism’s course led to broader comprehensiveness with regard to race and social class. In 2010, Feminism in parts of the western world has gone through three waves. First-wave feminism was oriented around the station of middle- or upper-class white women and involved suffrage and political equality. Second-wave feminism attempted to further combat social and cultural inequalities. Third-wave feminism is continuing to address the financial, social and cultural inequalities and includes renewed campaigning for greater influence of women in politics and media. In reaction to political activism, feminists have also had to maintain focus on women’s reproductive rights, such as the right to abortion. Feminism was created for population control, in fact, it is evil, its premise is to set the woman against the men to separate the family. See (Chapter 11) the objective of planned parenthood.

This movement lead to women exerting themselves other men, birthing the term “I don’t need a man.”

“For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king.” 1 Samuel 15:23 KJV

The independent woman is taught that she doesn’t need a man, when in fact she does. They are taught to hate men and their authority, their position as the head of the household. When protection and provision are absent it all goes bad. Are men really to blame for everything. Sure as young girls if no father figure is present, a girl for having no example to look to as to what a real man is. The mothers never taught their daughters to respect men. In reality, we need men like we need a toothbrush. Yes, we do. Now before you throw me under the bus, here is why it is the natural vein of what the Most High wanted. The woman is to run the home and teach the children, while the man is the breadwinner. Many will say well that is old fashion or we are not in the stone age anymore. The truth is we were much better when women were homemakers. This is a great need at this day in time. Stay at home moms are often looked upon as lazy, unmotivated, or as dirt. So now a lot of women today feel that they could never be a homemaker, but by God’s grace, you can be that woman, because it is the Most High’s will.

I will, therefore, that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan. 1Timothy 5: 14-15 KJV

Sure there are some instances when the woman must work: She is a widow, a single mother with no husband or the father of her children is nowhere around. In today’s time, most women work because they want the American dream, the Chanel handbags, high dollar cars, the big house… want to look good to the world. But in the process, the marriage falls apart and the children are overlooked. Yes, a lot of the men want their wife to help provide for the family. This has never been the will of the Most High but through sin and being taught lies many people have been lead astray from the original plan. Your husband is to rule over you and you are to obey his authority. The independent woman has no desire to be submissive just to lead. The Most High ordained the man to be the head of the household.

For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body. Ephesians 5:23 KJV

Our matriarch Sarah, submitted to her husband to the point of calling him, Lord. Sarah stood by Abraham, and he had the wealth to take care of her. You didn’t see Sarah, punching a time clock at IBM every morning. She took care of the things pertaining to the home and her children. Working from home is a full-time job with taking care or your children the future leaders of the world, homeschooling, chores of keeping her house clean, and preparing meals. So a housewife is not to be looked upon as a bad thing. It is the most honorable job you can ever have. The independent woman is a worldly perspective is not a biblical woman is honorable in the Most High’s eyes. The Most High commands every mother to love her children and her husband. To be a comfort to her husband and not a rottenness of his bones.

Ask yourself, “Where are your children, and what are they doing?”
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Our matriarch, Sarah, submitted to her husband to the point of calling him, Lord. Sarah stood by Abraham, and he had the wealth to take care of her. You didn’t see Sarah, punching a time clock at IBM every morning. She took care of the things about the home and her children. Working from home is a full-time job with taking care or your children the future leaders of the world, homeschooling, chores of keeping her house clean, and preparing meals. So a housewife is not to be looked upon as a bad thing. It is the most relevant job you can ever have. The independent woman is a strategic perspective is not a biblical woman is honorable in the Most High’s eyes. The Most High commands every mother to love her children and her husband. To be a comfort to her husband and not rottenness of his bones. Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. —1st Peter 3:6 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.—1st Corinthians 11:9 Ms. Stay at home Mom (The nurturer) The World says, “Stop living in your husband’s shadow.” or “This is old fashioned.” The Holy Bible says, “I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan.” 1Timothy 5: 14-15 The subject of stay-at-home moms is one that has caused much controversy, especially in Western nations, where many women work outside the home. There really are only two direct verses/passages that talk about a mother staying at home with her children. Titus 2:3-5 says, “Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.” The other direct verse is 1 Timothy 5:14, which says, “So I counsel younger widows to marry, to have children, to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander.” Another translation for the phrase “to be busy at home” in the Titus 2 passage is “to be keepers at home.” I looked on child rearing not only as a work of love and duty but as a profession that was entirely as interesting and challenging as any honorable profession in the world and one that demanded the best that I could bring to it. —-Rose Kennedy Also, consider some indirect verses. Proverbs 14:1 states that it is wise for a woman to invest in her home. While it is not necessary to be a stay-at-home mom to invest in your home, we see the priority that God places on the house and the woman’s involvement. Clearly, the home is not to be neglected for the sake of outside employment. Deuteronomy 6:4-9 teaches the importance of continually teaching our children. Of course, this is addressed to fathers as well as mothers. Staying at home with children would only give more opportunities to teach children God’s ways. So it is a positive investment to be made in children’s lives by applying this passage of Scripture literally. I have experience being a working woman and a stay at home, Mom. The world says, “Stop living in your husband’s shadow, sadly that most of these people that make these statements are incredibly naïve and unlearned. They give the stay at home mom, the scarlet letter, esteem her as being lazy or not motivated. The greatest gift you can give your child is you. The Most High never said to have others raise your children. He gave that commission to you. I thank the Most High that my late husband stressed the importance of me being at home for him and my son. It was at this time that I came into the truth. It was a fulfillment that I never experienced being a writer or a spokesmodel. Seeing my baby transform from a baby to a boy, those are the most relevant years its priceless. I would have missed so much if I had worked that whole time. In the western world, so many strive to get that dream of success. It funny that when we die, it will not matter the level of success that we achieved. I can own all the designer handbags, clothes, and shoes. Your draws maybe are filled with all the latest eye shadow palettes. In the garage of your expensive home you may have a fleet of exotic automobiles but the truth behind, the love of material things is that they don’t make you happy. It is thrilling for the moment, but once you wear or use them, the thrill is gone. It is only when we discover who we are in the Most High, that the entire puzzle comes together and you realize that nothing else matters. You began to see the whole picture. The Proverbs 31 woman…Her family never lacked anything. She maintained a proper balance, so her family never suffered. Her family was always her priority. While the Bible leaves women the choice whether to stay at home with the children or go to work outside the home, it certainly is a commendable thing for a mother to be at home with the children and devote herself to training them full time. Women are definitely encouraged in Titus 2 and 1 Timothy 5 to stay at home with their young children. Whatever a woman chooses to work or not, she must maintain her home as a priority and her primary sphere of influence. Ms. Beauty Queen Here she is Miss America… Miss Universe… Miss World… Miss Ultimate Beauty (that was me)… Let’s face it… We all know one!… But hey, that is not what I am talking about at this time. Thine heart was lifted up because of thy beauty, thou hast corrupted thy wisdom because of thy brightness: I will cast thee to the ground, I will lay thee before kings, that they may behold thee. Ezekiel 28:17 “Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.” Proverbs 31:30  In this world, there are many types of women, and the one in question is the Beauty Queen. The average run of the mill, next door neighbor, youtube personality, your relative, or the model on the cover of the magazine. The gorgeous girl that knows her looks affect every aspect of her life, she knows she is lovely and let’s every around her knows that. Her finances are spent on beautification of her physical attributes and not a dime spent on educating herself on the true meaning of her life. She boards narcissism with an ugly, sinister personality. Not many can stand her or be in her presence for long. She comes across as insecure, aloof, and snobbish. She must be the center of attraction everywhere she goes. I know her because, once upon a time, that was me. I must admit that it seems like a whole another lifetime ago. As a child, when times were terrible, I would relish in my beauty. I know that sounds weird but being pretty helped out in the most awkward of instances I faced. I have other pretty women their props, I was never one to be envious of anyone for any reason. I was filled with confidence, I was taught by the best to be the best. To me, I was the best, no one was better. The difference between a Confident woman (Proverbs 31 woman) vs. a Vain woman (ungodly woman) Confident woman captivates those around them in a selfless manner while the Vain woman is about getting all you can to make you visually pleasing with no substance.

Confident Woman

She is a woman of assurance of who she is in the Most High. She walks with her head up because she is Chosen. A woman of great faith. She called her husband Lord and treated him as such. She was a good mother. She kept her family healthy. She had a servant’s heart. She handled the finances of home and purchasing. She doesn’t spend money on frivolous things that will go bad in a year. When she makes purchases, it is to better her household. Her focus is not on her outer beauty but on your inner being.

Vain Woman

I need this in my life, or I need to treat myself as a justification to acquire more stuff…. To look good or fill fulfilled. We think it will make us happy. Handbags, expensive jewelry, fancy cars, or trendy clothes. We give us a sense of entitlement to be esteem as we made it, we’re talented, we have arrived, but the reality is that material possessions don’t really contribute to everlasting happiness. Most people have a desire to impress others. Looking at what the Joneses have and wanting it. Use shopping as an addiction to compensate for our “want to impress” deficiencies. We erroneously look for buoyancy in the fashion that we wear or the automobile that we drive. Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: Matthew 6:19 “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will also be.” 90% of the world’s heart is in the wrong place.

Ms. Harlot

She is a whore. A seductive woman that dresses provocatively to lure men into her bed. Looking proudly in the mirror… “Your breasts are protruding out of your dress, you turn around to smooth the fabric down over your buttocks… “I look good”… so you think, I am sure that I will lure that unsuspecting male into my den of love tonight.” The notion is that this woman’s clothing makes her a harlot, when, in fact, college-educated women to fit into this category as well. It is a mentality of the woman, her thought process. It is what the young people wear, that’s a myth. I think every woman knows before she leaves the house what reaction she will get from the men that cross her path. As a child, older men always conveyed to me, that I want a man to look you into your eyes, not my chest. They also, told me that I was beautiful, and never let a man sweet talk me into sleeping with them when they bring up that point. In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 1st Timothy 2:9 A woman who dresses like a harlot advertises that she lacks good moral character, she wants the attention of the men around. Not knowing that all they want is to get into her panties. The harlot is two-fold because she wants to get in his underwear as well. You will never go home with him to meet his family. Just the other day, I saw a man looking at a girl walking into the store in a bikini, almost cause a 3 car accident. Now that lady knew before she got out of her car, the impact she would make on men. Some women surely want attention at any cost.

There will come a time when your life ends and where will you spend your eternity, will it be in hell, from you luring men into hell with the public exposure of your breasts or maybe even your butt. In “Apocalypse of Paul,” it details the account of women that lead men astray, as in your will be hanging from your eyelids. What a horror. You see, the Most High is not playing with us. The Most High will pass judgment on you. Nothing worse, then being around a woman that is so concerned with the men looking at her, she is wearing super tight jeans or a mini skirt, while her husband is sitting right next to her. Being a decent woman is not just by what you wear but your character, you can have a dress on to your knees but still are promiscuous in action and deed.

The Virtuous Woman

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Authenticity, confidence, strength, honesty, dignity, transparency, meek, peaceful, submissive, and endless creativity. The Virtuous Woman is the gold standard of womanhood. The Proverbs 31 woman.

Although, this woman is extremely rare…. I knew her, she was in the form of a woman I knew named Gavina, who passed away some years ago. Gavina was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen, she was the mother of my fiancé that also passed away sometime before her. What was most striking about Gavina, was her obvious physical beauty but there was something much deeper about her. The way she carried herself, she was exquisitely modest in attire, very meek, humble, and honest. She reverenced her husband, never spoke bad of anyone, was shame faced in the mist of other men. She taught what it is to be a real lady, a virtuous woman. Her influence in my life but for a short time taught me a lot of what I know today. She taught me of destiny and patience, of true love winning over adversity. Most would say that this beloved lady was very unique. I had never met anyone like her. She was the pattern and I was the fabric. These are the attributes she passed on to me:

A woman of great faith. (Proverbs 31: 26) She called her husband Lord and treated him as such. (Proverbs 31: 11- 12) She was a good mother. (Proverbs 31: 28) She kept her family healthy ( Leviticus, 11). She had a servant’s heart. (Proverbs 31: 12) She handled the finances of home and purchasing. (Proverbs 31: 14) She was a homemaker. A Virtuous Woman is a homemaker. She creates an inviting atmosphere of warmth and love for her family and guests. She uses hospitality to minister to those around her (Proverbs 31: 27) She possessed a true Beauty (Proverbs 31: 10)

Brown Beauty Personified

I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvelous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. -Psalms 139:14 We were knit together in our mother’s womb, merely first thought of the Most High, we are Chosen. Our eyes run deep with history, and our skin is marred with different majestic shades of brown melanin. Our hair is wooly as the hair of sheep while dancing as the waves of the black sea. We are royalty, adored, and emulated. We are Chosen.

The Truth. So you have it the truth..

The world standard of beauty was supposed to be us, the Chosen people of the Most High. And this is why there’s a difference between black women conforming to “Eurocentric white Beauty Standards” and white women filtration of the annexation of what is considered beautiful. It is not by chance when a white woman emulates a curly hairstyle, darken her skin, how to apply padding or get injections for fuller lips or her bottom it becomes a fashion trend of the moment, a declaration of some sort. That goes to show you that black people are the trendsetters, they follow us, they like our looks (even though they try to hide this truth.) But what really astonishes me how ignorant and conditioned we are to think that lighter skin or even white skin is equated to the standard of beauty, and that dark skin is considered ugly. Why Mr. Willie Lynch I think they got it. So the world hates us, our color, our hair texture, but most of all, we hate ourselves.

The Sorrow of Kim

Kim says, “I feel for the guy he didn’t compliment my beauty; he didn’t make me feel like a Queen. He often had a wandering eye you always felt the need to compete. He spoke ill of me in front of his friends and his family. He had no job, and I worked to support us both. Sadly, I wasted 10 years of your life waiting for him to love me, to love my hair, my dark skin but most of all, my strength and loyalty to him. He looked at white women a lot always remarked how beautiful they were I often felt insecure in his presence. He raped me often when I didn’t give in to his advances, sometimes he struck and bruised my face then laughed as my mascara dipped down my cheeks. It is hard to believe that a black man would exude hate towards the black woman is they did today in 2017. I am in the truth now, and I know I am better than that! I left him.” Let this testimony be a lesson to the Sisters out there, to wait on your King. The Most High will bring him your way. As we pray for finances, jobs, safety, health, etc. It’s so important to pray for a man that fears the Most High, that worries the Most High, is a strong tower/a leader that will respect and love you as the Savior loved the Church.

“NOT TO BE”
Attributes of a LOUD woman
This is the type of women you should never want to be.
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“Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.” Proverbs 14:1

Belittles in her husband in public, talks down to him, and ignores him. Yells and screams at her children in society. Talks about her husband negatively to others. Initiates contact with by flirting. I don’t need a man. Feminist. Concerned with the man looking at her all the time. Prideful. Narcissist. Enjoys getting high or drunk. Doesn’t keep the commandments Follows the world and not the Most High Unruly and lack meekness “Pride goeth before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” Proverbs 16:18
“TO BE”
Attributes of a MEEK woman
This is the type of women to strive for it is highly favored by the Most High. But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of high price. 1 Peter 3:4
A gentle and submissive spirit. She is more concerned with her relationship with the Most High Respects, her husband Lacks haughtiness and desire for other men. Care for others and her children.

Teach your daughters. As a child, I knew that I was special, everyone around me told me so. I made a decision early on to keep my virginity until marriage. Through this experience, I learned that boys and men had a lot of respect for me, and they did a lot of things for me. I never had to open my legs to win their favor. They showered me with attention, affection, and gifts. Your daughters are a gift that needs to be taught the facts of life, that she is special, who she is in the Most High and her purpose. Teach your daughters.

We need to teach our daughters to distinguish between:
A man who flatters her and a man who compliments her.
— Oh baby you so fine I’ll drink your bath water (wrong)
— You are fearfully and wonderfully made (right)
A man who spends money on her and a man who invests in her.
—I bought you this coat now what you going to give me (wrong)
— I feel the Most High is leading me to give you this (right)
A man who views her as property and a man who sees her correctly.
— you are mine so lay down and give me what I want (wrong)
— you are a virtuous woman (right)
A man who lusts after her and a man who loves her.
— you are wearing those jeans (wrong)
— you are a child of the Most High I love you.(right)
A man who believes he’s a gift to women and a man who thinks she’s a gift to him.
— I can have any women I want, you are blessed to have me (wrong)
— You are bone of my bone flesh of my flesh O daughter of Zion. (right)
And then teach our sons to be that kind of man
. — A man that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing! (right)
Sex, the spiritual Aspect.
Wife – Covering

Harlot – Sex with no covering Are you moaning for Jerry, latching out for no reason at all, longing for a man that has done you wrong? Enough is Enough! Not only is having sex out of the marriage, which is fornication but your developing soul ties while the transfer of energy is real. If you’re always surrounded by interacting with, having sex with pouring feelings & yourself into a person that is not your husband, it will eventually affect you spiritually. When a man enters your womb, unlawfully, you exchange in a ritual. The changing of spirits. You become tied to him in the soulish realm, this domain is only meant for marriage. Know your worth & surround yourself with people the encourage you to do what is right. These people won’t leave you spiritually empty from sexual relationships. He is not worthy of you until marriage. Don’t open yourselves up to the Neon Demon!


With plastic surgery, butt fillers, liposuction, and rhinoplasty on the rise all destinated to change your physical appearance while leaving you empty inside. When will we learn that it is really not our physical appearance that will make us fill complete but knowing who you are to the creator of mankind? Not surprising that the next deadly sickness on the rise in eating disorders…

Art Photo Credit: Ugo Jesse

According to http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org “Body Image” is how you see yourself when you look in the mirror or when you picture yourself in your mind. It encompasses: What you believe about your own appearance (including your memories, assumptions, and generalizations). How you feel about your body, including your height, shape, and weight. How you sense and control your body as you move. How you feel in your body, not just about your body.

My conversation with Tina, a nutrtionist & a registered nurse.

Q: What has been your experience with eating disorders?

Deborah: I was binging and purging sometimes daily, I suffered from low self-esteem.

Q: So you were diagnosed with bulimia?

Deborah: Yes I had it for 10 years?

Q: What was your turning point?

Deborah: When my 18-year-old daughter started binging too, at that moment I knew the terrible example I was living before her. We both checked into a clinic and got help with prayer now we are free and have been for 10 years now.

Q: Who did you blame for your eating disorder?

Deborah: Society, the images they portray of perfection on ads, television, they made me feel inadequate about the way I look.

I know you have heard this before or have even contemplative it in your mind, “If I could just lose 5 more pounds they world would love me” one in three girls have an eating disorder… But still, in reality, millions of young girls, woman, and some men suffer from eating disorders annually a lot under the 18. These specific eating disorders are often triggered by bouts of depression, distorted body image, or perfectionism itself. The four major eating disorders:

1. Anorexia Nervosa, a voluntary starvation for long periods of time.

2. Bulimia Nervosa, marked by episodes of binge eating excessive amounts of food followed by compensatory behavior such as purging then vomiting or use of laxatives to rid themselves of the food eaten

3. Binge-eating, marked by episodes of out-of-control gorging, similar to Bulimia without the purging.

4. EDNOS, the most dangerous of all 4, it is the combination of Anorexia and Bulimia, each day it takes on one the eating disorders. Females are much more likely than males to develop an eating disorder. Eating disorders are closely related to other psychiatric illnesses such as depression, substance abuse, or anxiety disorders. Also, people who suffer from eating disorders can experience a wide range of physical health complications, including severe heart conditions, teeth enamel erosion, various organ failure including kidney failure, which may lead to death. If eating disorders weren’t enough, many woman and men would resort to cosmetic surgery that gains what they perceive as perfection. Women, both young and old, are taking enormous risks in the pursuit of beauty. Liposuction, Nose Jobs, botox, tummy tucks, breast implants, and bottom augmentation. Who is responsible? The media? The advertisers? They all are trying to sell this image of perfect beauty when, in reality, no one is perfect but a work in progress. We have to ask ourselves, what are we doing? We must be comfortable in our own skin. We are our sister and brother’s keeper, and it starts in the home, the duty of the parents are to teach their children how valuable they are.

Possessing outward Beauty will get you a pass go and collect $ 200. Maintaining inward Beauty will get your soul into the kingdom of the Most High for all eternity.

“We must not allow the beauty of an object to blind us to the horror of its origins, there is poetic grace and heightened pleasure in fashions of conscientious construction.” —- Professor Joshua Katcher, The ethics & Semiotics of the future fashion industry (sustainablestyle.tumblr.com)

I wear high heels for years while enduring pain and foot ice bathes nightly. Its a fact that your Christian Louboutin stilettos or Stuart Weitzman thigh high boots make you look taller, sexier, and more stylish. You may even get catcalls from priests. It is possible that even when you put them on your feel like the cat’s meow. But what is the actual cost of wearing them? The history of high heels can be traced to Egypt, but it wasn’t until the European renaissance came from that put the high heel shoe on the map. It was the men that adorned the first pair, high heels for both men and women wear a status symbol.


The Women of the World, they belittle their husbands, talks down to him, and ignores him Loud and rude Initiates contact with men, touching and kissing I don’t need a man Feminist Concerned with a man looking at her all the time Prideful Narcissist Will use men to buy her gifts Teases a woman with her body Wears provocative clothing Lacks modesty Enjoys getting high or drunk Doesn’t clean the house Stays out all night Spends more money than she earns. Speaks seductively to manipulate men Prideful confidence in her physical beauty Wears makeup to bewitch men Doesn’t keep the commandments Follows the world and not the Most High Wears clothing to entice men Unruly and lack meekness

The Women of the Bible (Proverbs 31:10-31 KJV)  She is a treasure far above rubies Respect her husband Strong integrity and faith Consistently good all the days of her life Manages her home Cooks meals for her family Speaks wisdom and faithful instructions Her children and husband love her She loves the Most High with all her heart, mind, and soul Keeps the commandments and statues of the Most High Prays and Prophesies with a head covering on Stays healthy and keeps your family healthy Helps the poor and needy Does the right thing with the family income She builds up her husband Not considered with fads or characteristics of the world

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The Dangers of high heels

My interview with Dr. Vladimir Q: What are some of the side effects of wearing high heels? Dr. Vladimir: You will experience — Foot and tendon pain Increase the likeness of broken bones or fractures Muscle strain to calve muscles Hammertoes and bunions Blisters Lower back pain Pelvis pain Degenerative joint disease Q: What do you honestly think about women wearing high heels? Dr. Vladimir: I think its sexy and feminine, but it’s a habit woman need to break, it’s really harming their feet. According to the American Osteopathic Association, warns of the dangers of wearing high heels, “From an osteopathic perspective, we’re looking for the body to be centered from head to toe. High heels put the foot at an angle and pull muscles and joints out of alignment, so the effects aren’t limited to the feet,” Dr. Surve explained. “It’s not unusual for people who spend lots of time in high heels to have low back, neck, and shoulder pain because the shoes disrupt the natural form of the body.” The stiletto shoe or high heel was created in honor of the demon named Pan. Those evil spirits inhabit these shoes to make the woman who wears them in the image of Pan. Please note that the walking animal sound echoes from the boots as the woman walks (click cloak), making her animal and human in the spirit of Pan.

The Clackers the sound their stilettos make on the marble lobby – clack clack clack — Devil Wears Prada (movie, 2006)

Being a rustic god- half goat, half human. Pan was a child from Zeus, he is the god of the Wicca religion, he resembles that of the Baphomet, he is worshipped in temples but also in natural settings, usually caves or grottoes such as the one on the north slope of the Acropolis of Athens. Today there are many more demons that are called Pan. Pan is famous for his sexual powers and is often depicted with a phallus. He worships the world over by rock musicians, the record industry, and well known dead Satanist Aleister Crowley. Makeup is created to give you an illusion of being pretty. For some an enhancement while others it changes their whole face. The eyeshadow promises to make your eyes more alluring more smoky more attractive. The lipstick gives you the illusion of a pouty mouth, that blushed look you have as your having sex. The color is an illusion of well-defined cheeks. Foundation, the dream of flawless skin along with contouring, etc. etc.. Women on the average, spend billions of dollar a year on cosmetics.

My Q & A with Pascal, a professional photographer and makeup artist that I have worked with on countless photo shoots.

Q: How long have you been a makeup artist/photographer? Pascal: 20 years Q: Do you think makeup alters a face to the point of being unrecognizable? Pascal: Yes, through composition, you can change the eye shape, nose shape, lips, cheekbones, highlight the positives, and downplay the negatives. Q: How long does it generally take you to transform a face? Pascal: Generally, it takes hours to apply makeup as with photography the photoshop does the trick. Q: Do you think composition is a form of sorcery and manipulation? Pascal: Yes, it is all magic, smoke, and mirrors. Q: Do you believe women rely too much on makeup? Pascal: Yes, we call it, putting on the face they can’t go anywhere without it. Q: Anything else you want to say about makeup?

Pascal: I love Photographing you and applying makeup to your face what a pleasure, you have the most beautiful EYES, FACE & SKIN, up close you’re stunning! So physically beautiful, physically compelling, I’m hypnotized by your good looks. Your skin always so soft, smooth and creamy like churned butter, I love your light skin color.

The Damaging Effects of Beauty Products

Females love plastering their faces with makeup, not knowing that by doing so, they’re clogging their pores which causes them to age faster. When you apply mascara to your face, your skin doesn’t receive oxygen, and the sun doesn’t hit your skin. Eventually, you will start looking pale when you don’t have makeup on, this will force you to wear makeup even if you don’t want to because you’ll look like a zombie without it. Females don’t pay attention nor care about their health for the sake of looking good. The average woman absorbs hundreds of toxic chemicals from face and body products, excluding cosmetics every day. These products are incorporated right into the bloodstream, and they remain in the blood system working havoc on your internal organs. By the time they have made it to the door in the morning, they have swallowed, inhaled, and absorbed through their skin hundreds of toxic chemicals. Some of these chemicals have been proven to be deadly to laboratory animals, and many of them are known to be carcinogens. They are literally poisoning their immune system with thousands of toxic chemicals that are known carcinogens, hormone disrupters, and cancer-causing agents. How does this make sense? If it doesn’t occur in nature, it shouldn’t be inside you because you are a natural being. Women love to use beauty products to look better, but unfortunately, sometimes the short-term look isn’t worth the long-term damage that such products can do to their skin. Many females wear this makeup and don’t even know that 95 percent of all products marketed for skin, hair, personal care, or beauty is loaded with chemicals linked to cancer or skin disorders. To top it off, women wear these products without even knowing what chemicals are used to make them. Now you understand why cancer is a 300 billion dollar a year business. The joke is on you: My people are foolish, they have not known Me. They are stupid children, and they have no understanding. They are wise to do evil but to do good, they have no knowledge, Jeremiah 4:22.

Fair women and men are the most attractive they get most of the attention — Sanjay (Sri Lanka)

Despite the toxic levels of mercury in skin whitening creams people continue to use them. What is the real obsession with light skin? To answer that question we must visit the past through colonization, the global take over by Europe which affected society position of light skin as being supreme in beauty from Asia to Africa and everywhere in between this is a dilemma among non-whites. At this time the white skin was held in high regards through the renaissance periods where white women often powdered their skin to be white and through art, it was immortalized. Nowadays through media and magazines featuring mostly white women on their covers and advertisements. The ideology of white skin perfection has been passed down from generation to generation through ignorance. The media portrays “whiteness or lightness” as a symbol of what is attractive and desirable. Skin whitening, skin lightening, and skin bleaching refer to the practice of using chemical substances in an attempt to lighten skin tone. This is such an inferiority complex promoted by society. I found an interesting article to show that Ghana is making strides to keep people from the damaging effects of using skin bleaching cream.

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Skin bleaching is an epidemic across the world from Africa to India, where bleaching the skin is most common as brushing your teeth. This common practice has been passed down from generation to generation. Some say that colonization is to blame, placing the white skin at the top of the aesthetic chart. This is definitely a taught behavior mirroring self-hatred.

The light skin epidemic has affected the entire world.
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The skin bleaching epidemic is indeed a global one. But it is more prominent among brown people. The reasons most say the opt to do this is they don’t like their skin color, some to remove scars, and some to capitalize on the light skin privilege. Yet after years of colonization through Europe, fighting for freedom, the slave mentality still exists in these countries. Being “fair skinned” is often equated to being beautiful. So there is no surprise that both men and women who opt to bleach, use the most harmful products on the market to achieve this goal. Brown skin is flawlessly beautiful, rich in hue and texture, absolutely stunning to behold at sight. Do you realize the powers- that – be would rather keep you dumb as to who you really are, concentrating on things that do not matter in life such as skin color.

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My Q & A with Isheeta, a customer service rep from India
Q: Tell me about the skin lightening epidemic in India?
Isheeta: Fair is beautiful that comes from the British Bombay Enthusiasts that bought colonialism in our great country, that fair skin is beautiful. I am a desi beauty very dark. I may never get married because of the caste system. Fair skin is worshipped in my country there is no getting around that.
My interview with Eunice, a secretary from Ghana
Q: How long have you been using a skin bleaching cream? And why do you use it?
Eunice: For 5 years now. I thought the fair skin would give me more opportunities.
Q: Well has it going you some sort of privilege?
Eunice: Light skin has not afforded me the privilege, I have severely damaged my skin. I got lesions forming all over my face.
Q: What would you tell someone that is thinking of using a skin bleaching cream?
Eunice: Don’t do it.
My conversation with Mena owner of a beauty salon
Q: What are the top beauty procedures being performed annually at your salon?
Mena: Spray Tannings procedures, as well as our tanning products, are best sellers, everyone wants that golden brown glow, it’s more healthy looking.
Q: If the Dark skin is so undervalued, why are people getting tans?
Mena: It is definitely not undervalued but highly requested year round especially in the summer months. Dark skin is beautiful, action speaks louder than words.
The Global obsession with skin lightening:

My conversation with Ezrahi, a psychologist from Israel.
Q: What is the solution for black/brown people the world over concerning the light-skinned situation, one of which has plagued our people for generations.
Ezrahi: We must take back our ownership, knowledge is power, we have to set the standard, stand together, but most of all learn who the creator is and who we are as a people. It all starts with knowing that we are from the house of Israel.
My conversation with Robert, an Aryan Doctor from Ohio, USA
Q: How do white people perceive black people in terms of color? For example, do you look at a black person and say, “She is light skinned or dark?”
Robert: No we look at all black people just being the dark-skinned people, there is no separation of color, light or dark. We look at black people as all the same.


Plastic Surgery

When Genetics has not given you what you want, why change it? Studies have shown that millions yearly around the world have gone under the knife. One thing is for sure that people would go to any length to develop – The perfect human face or body. One of the most disturbing stories I observed was the Korean Model in 2008 that inject cooking oil in her face. Cosmetic surgery addict injected cooking oil into her own face…
A Korean woman addicted to plastic surgery has been left unrecognizable after her obsession led her to inject cooking oil into her face. If you want to know more about Former model Hang Mioku story here is the link: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2320679/Korean-woman-Hang-Mioku-injects-COOKING-OIL-face-refused-plastic-surgery.html –Plastic Surgery according to Wikipedia…Cosmetic surgery is an elective procedure that is performed on standard parts of the body with the only purpose of improving a person’s appearance and/or removing signs of aging. Studies prove that this type of surgery plays an essential role in a person’s self-esteem because the physical appearance is a crucial status equivalent to gender or race and by making changes to the body it contributes not only to the patient’s physical appearance but also to the mental health of the patient. In 2006, nearly 11 million cosmetic procedures were performed in the United States alone. The number of cosmetic procedures performed in the United States has increased over 50 percent since the start of the century. Nearly 12 million cosmetic procedures were completed in 2007, with the five most common surgeries being breast augmentation, liposuction, nasal surgery, eyelid surgery, and abdominoplasty. The American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery looks at the statistics for thirty-four different cosmetic procedures. Nineteen of the methods are surgical, such as rhinoplasty or facelift. The nonsurgical procedures include Botox and laser hair removal. In 2010, their survey revealed that there were 9,336,814 total procedures in the United States. Of those, 1,622,290 procedures were surgical. They also found that a vast majority, 81%, of the procedures were done on Caucasian people.

Me. Me. Me. Me. I. I. I. I.  For this is the dilemma of conceit, arrogance, and egotism!

“For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according to as God hath dealt with every man the measure of faith.” Romans 12:3 KJV

Psychoanalysis. tending to derive erotic gratification from admiration of one’s own physical or mental attributes.

In his book, Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited, Sam Vaknin states “The narcissist cannot admit that he had toiled and sweated to achieve his goal and, with this confession, shatter his alleged omnipotence and grandiose False Self. He must belittle every accomplishment of his and make it appear to have been a routine triviality. This is intended to support the dreamland quality of his fragmented personality. But it also prevents him from deriving the psychological benefits which usually accrue to to goal attainment… The narcissist is doomed to roam a circular labyrinth. When he does achieve something, he underestimates it in order to enhance his own sense of omnipotence, perfection, and brilliance. When he fails, he dare not face reality. He escapes to the land of no narratives where life is nothing but a meaningless wasteland. The narcissist whiles his life away.”

Any time a person “admits” to being “genetically gifted” in regards to their personal beauty, the real driver of the statement is deep-seated narcissism. Narcissism occurs when excessive self-admiration and self-centeredness has taken root into their mind, in psychiatry, a personality disorder characterized by the patient’s overestimation of his or her own appearance and abilities and an excessive need for admiration. Narcissists are self worshippers of beauty. This proves the theory that beauty is only skin deep. Are you that women that manipulates men with your body your vision? To get them to do whatever you want them too. Do you use their shortcomings against them? Then you are a narcissist.  

In Greek mythology, Narcissus was a hunter from Thespiae in Boeotia who was known for his beauty. He was the son of the river god Cephissus and nymph Liriope. After staring at his reflection he fell in love with his beauty, unable to leave his reflection in the river, he stared at himself until he died. Narcissus is the origin of the term narcissism, a fixation on one’s physical appearance, self love.

Photo Credit: Narcissus by Caravaggio
One of the main characteristics of narcissism is that to survive, they have to make it all about them.  Are you so vain that your inflated head can’t get through the door?   Thou hast been in Eden the garden of God; every precious stone was thy covering, the sardius, topaz, and the diamond, the beryl, the onyx, and the jasper, the sapphire, the emerald, and the carbuncle, and gold: the workmanship of thy tabrets and of thy pipes was prepared in thee in the day that thou wast created. Thou art the anointed cherub that covereth; and I have set thee so: thou wast upon the holy mountain of God; thou hast walked up and down amid the stones of fire. Thou wast perfect in thy ways from the day that thou wast created, till iniquity was found in thee. By the multitude of thy merchandise, they have filled the midst of thee with violence, and thou hast sinned: therefore I will cast thee as profane out of the mountain of God: and I will destroy thee, O covering cherub, from the midst of the stones of fire. Thine heart was lifted up because of thy beauty, thou hast corrupted thy wisdom because of thy brightness: I will cast thee to the ground, I will lay thee before kings, that they may behold thee. Ezekiel 28:13-17 (KJV Bible) – So if you’re a narcissist get help then humble yourself.

Symptoms of Narcissism. 

1. Two Faced
2. Blame others for your problems or lack of success.
3. Has two different persona in person and in private.
4. Unreliable

5. Arrogant or seeking what is best for them.
6. Looks down on people that are not on their level.

7. Addicted to fantasy thinking highly of themselves.
8. They lie.
9. Materialistic and encourages others to be so too.
10. Emotional Distant.
11. One-sided conversations.
12. Controlling
13. Picks fight and throw tantrums.
14. Does not say they are sorry when wrong.

15. A subconscious lover of self.
16. Attention seeker
17. Glory Hound

Through Psychoanalysis it tends to derive amatory gratification from admiration of one’s own physical appearance.

Any time a person “admits” to being “genetically gifted” in regards to their personal beauty the real driver of the statement is deep-seated narcissism. Narcissism occurs when excessive self-admiration and self-centeredness has taken root into their mind, in psychiatry, a personality disorder characterized by the patient’s overestimation of his or her own appearance and abilities and an excessive need for admiration. Narcissists are self-worshippers of their own beauty. This proves the theory that beauty is only skin deep. Are you that women that manipulates men with your body your beauty? To get them to do whatever you want them too. Do you use their shortcomings against them? Then you are a narcissist.

How to break free? Repent of your sins and seek the Most High! 

The answer is to repent of your sins, seek the Most High God of Israel, and keep His commandments.

“Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.” Ecclesiastes 12:13 KJV